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Skittles · Newbie Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 7

Hey guys, I really like this girl and I can't for the life of me figure out what she is!! Help ?? Sad

Her profile:

Activities:
Music, not smiling, smiling- I don't remember what else I do.

Favorite Music:
Artists: Beach Boys, The Beatles, The Bee Gees, Billy Joel, Bobby Darin, Boyz II Men, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Dido, Elton John, Enya, Gym Class Heroes, Julie Andrews, Madonna, Phil Collins, The Police [though all their music videos were made on an extremely low budget], Seal, Sean Paul, Selena, Spice Girlz, Justin Timberlake, Vitamin C, Weird Al, etc.

Music composed by people I know really impresses me (except that of Andres Soto-; [).

If someone gives me a Cd, and I listen to it often, I'll end up liking the music, even if I did not take pleasure in listening to some of the songs, at first. Also, anything I recognize, I most likely enjoy hearing it because I'm an old person; what I mean is anything of which I have memories makes me appreciate it for the memories behind it, not necessarily the musicality or skill behind each piece, although beautiful chords will make me enjoy a piece without the memory factor.

Favorite Movies:
Favorite amateur movie: Shoes.
Favorite professional amateur movie: The movie Amelie, Brittany, and I put together for their Earth Science project. "Martia! Martia!" "scrape coatings offf rocks"

someone trying to hug her .. it's not working too well lol

the state of her room ...

dressed up

and more pics if ya need!
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Enneagram type 7.. then 9/2.

A different mind · Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 2:13 am Post subject:

I think she's your type! Razz

Did she become more extravert in the last couple of years?
ISFP?
If you provide more information (or pics), I'll guess again.

How do you know her and why aren't you sure about her type?
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Annabel_Lee · Posted: Mon May 18, 2009 9:17 am Post subject:

Hmm, I'm going with ISTJ. Most things here remind me of the ISTJs I've known.
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Skittles · Newbie Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 7

How I know her:

I don't know her very well. So far I've met her on campus several times, most times are during events.. I always try to attend any event I can on campus that I can fit into my schedule, and I always see her at these events. I added her on facebook and all that I ever see her doing on FB is either 1. adding a friend or 2. adding an event .. she's a big event person too apparently.

How I met her... I went to a home cooking event in her building.. I was going about my business getting some freshly cooked FREE! food when suddenly there was a person blocking my path. Irritated I look up and see her staring at me lol, and she asks me "hey.. so what are you here for?" and I go "free food ?" and she goes "yeah......... me too" in a completely monotone tone of voice. and then I think she just sat down ..

it was the most random thing ever!!

Why I'm not sure about her type: originally I had pegged her as an ISTx, but I dunno, after meeting her a couple more times and seeing her FB.. she has about 800 friends, doesn't seem to use FB for anything other than keeping in touch and info. Her groups on facebook lean towards support/activist groups, or groups supporting her friend's performances (she's a music major), some funny ones here and there (derek zoolander center for kids who want to read really really good).. She is also a Resident Assistant for our dorms. Don't think she uses IM either.. she seems like she could be a SJ, she kind of gives me that vibe.. when I see her with friends she's always talking 1 on 1, during events where she didn't know anyone she's more likely to sit back and observe and small talk a little bit.

Honestly she's mind boggling to me, when you meet her she seems very subdued, it's like she likes to stay in the background but she has no problem coming forward into view.. definitely not shy. She comes across as an I to me but is so active and knows lots of people ?? There was this one time we went to a drag show on campus, it was the last half hour and during the act the drag queen gave birth to a baby (don't ask lol) and out she came, dressed in drag also of course .. she ran, kinda waddled, to the center of the stage and just stood there for a good 3 minutes, looking around like she didn't know why she was up there and didn't know what to do next. and then suddenly she opens her mouth and out comes some pretty loud fuckin amazing italian opera!!

she stumps me. really she does. The only other person I've met who's given me this same sort of vibe (and just as odd) is an ISTP guy friend of mine..

Here's her quotations and About me if it helps any.

Favorite Quotations:

"I think boob jobs are somewhat like potato chips; you just don't stop at one."

"[A cube has six sides. Three are obvious and visible, but what about the other three?]"

"Are we forming children who are only capable of learning what is already known? Or should we try to develop creative and innovative minds, capable of discovery from the preschool age on, throughout life?"

"Never regard your study as a duty, but as the enviable opportunity to learn to know the liberating influence of beauty in the realm of the spirit for your own personal joy and to the profit of the community to which your later work belongs."

"Goals are dreams with deadlines."

"Did you ever let your lover see the stranger in yourself?"

"We could have made it on glass."

"The work of today is the history of tomorrow."

"Nothing's gonna happen unless you're there."

"Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character."

"Teach that which you would like to learn the most."

"Smart people learn from their own mistakes, but really smart people learn from others' mistakes."

"Many are called; few choose to listen."

"Like I always said: 'You put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything.'''

"How can you expect anyone to enjoy your company if you don't enjoy your own company?"

"Bodies distract you from what you are."

"[The constant struggle to make change requires much sacrifice]."

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step."

"Follow your bliss[,] and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls."

"You don't have to control the world; you only have to control your own world."

"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."

"What do you tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing; you've already told her twice."

"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind."

"Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile."

"Well, I know I'm a million times as humble as thou art."

"Dismiss all anger and look into yourself a little. Remember that he of whom you are speaking is your brother, and as he is in the way of salvation, God can make him a saint, in spite of his present weakness."

"For every step you take toward God, God takes two toward you.

"Have you believed because you have seen me? Blessed are those who have not seen and yet believe."

About Me:

Favorite Nickname: "Danielle Reed!"
Other Worthy Nicknames [not necessarily in order of gr8ness]: D-REEED, D-Rizzle (never been called that consistently), Danielle, Dan-the-Man, Daniela Maria Teresa Reed, Dee, "D"nA: Capo'in it Real, AN"D," Esp, DaniYelle, Miss Reed, Mohegan Sun, el presidente (it's a math thing), D3, Mighty Ducks Go to College, Pocahontas, Mama D, etc.
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Enneagram type 7.. then 9/2.

RadicalDreamer · Advanced Member Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 4049

Skittles · Newbie Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 7

No she doesn't have a boyfriend, I don't think she's had one since she entered college.. she did go to prom with someone though, but from the looks of it I think he was just a friend rather than her boyfriend. I don't really know much else about her, but I can show you more pics, if that would help any
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xxFP - tests towards N, appears more S.. high amounts of both Very Happy

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Enneagram type 7.. then 9/2.

RadicalDreamer · Advanced Member Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 4049

ohifwinterends · Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 9:47 am Post subject:

ISFP.
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A different mind · Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 9:06 pm Post subject:

More pictures might help, I find this one difficult because I only know of two that are a bit similar and I don't know the type of either one of them. The quotes make me think she's an N.

A couple of random questions (the answer might help):

1.Is her favourite color purple?
2.Is her desktop messy?
3.Is she idealistic?
4.Does she gossip a lot?
5.Does she move her eyes a lot?
6.Does she complain about negative people?
7.Does she walk behind the rest in a group?
8.Does she correct people pronouncing incorrectly?
9.Does she want people to do things (and appreciate that), but won't ask for it?
10.How does she behave at a party?
11.How does she behave at friends?
12.How does she behave at school/museum/public transport?
13.Has she got many attributes like the blue thing in the last picture?
14.Does she look back, live here and now or think about possibilities for the future?
15.What words does she use most often?

Very Happy

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RadicalDreamer · Advanced Member Joined: 03 Mar 2007 Posts: 4049

I need for him to call her up and invite her to eat and watch a movie/festival so he can observe her and listen to her. This is important! A case study.

Here is a simple list of traits that have some relation to MBTI types. Others can give better direction than this but it is a start. It can help tease out her personality.
http://cognitionexpo.21.forumer.com/viewtopic.php?t=22&start=0
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Kastor · Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 10:12 pm Post subject:

I don't know who she is, but I like 'er! Very Happy

She had me at 'Julie Andrews' <3
Me and said person must swap music, yes, yes.
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Skittles · Newbie Joined: 19 Jun 2008 Posts: 7

I'll answer the questions that I know..

3.Is she idealistic?

Yes, it seems so

4.Does she gossip a lot?

No not much of a gossiper

5.Does she move her eyes a lot?

Definitely not, they are pretty stable

6.Does she complain about negative people?

Nope

7.Does she walk behind the rest in a group?

Sometimes, often she seems like an outlier .. even when she's walking alone

8.Does she correct people pronouncing incorrectly?

Seldom

11.How does she behave at friends?

Can get pretty wacky, not afraid to touch

12.How does she behave at school/museum/public transport?

Behaves more polite-ish it seems
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xxFP - tests towards N, appears more S.. high amounts of both Very Happy

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Enneagram type 7.. then 9/2.

Isra · Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 1:42 pm Post subject:

Hey CS guys... Facilitator?
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