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Furiosa
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| whimsical wrote: | Do any of you ENFPs ever get told you are ditzy? Or spacey?
I'm kind of seen as a lovable dumb blonde in some circles. And I know I'm a very intelligent person but I can see where they are coming from. I have no sense of direction, no interest in details...I guess that can come off as ditziness?
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Speaking as a guy ENFP, I've definitely been described as ditzy, airheaded and the like, generally when I'm running an artificial high. Definitely not a bad thing in my opinion, I tend to have quite a bit more fun doing my own thing :p. |
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nonentropic
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| do enfps have a strong need/desire to look at someone...be able to see the other person's face while talking to them? my mom seems to be an enfp and this seems to be true for her. do most types tend to do this? am i (an intj) and my own type grouping the only ones who perhaps don't do this? strange f'n world ain't it? |
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| nonentropic wrote: | | do enfps have a strong need/desire to look at someone...be able to see the other person's face while talking to them? my mom seems to be an enfp and this seems to be true for her. do most types tend to do this? am i (an intj) and my own type grouping the only ones who perhaps don't do this? strange f'n world ain't it? |
I tend to want to know what the person I'm speaking to is thinking, reading between the lines so to speak, but I get that more from the voice / body language than just the face, so I guess no, I don't neeeeed to see the other person's face while I'm talking too them, although its always nice.
Also, US' recent president-elect Barack Obama is supposed to be an ENFP. Not quite sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing :p. |
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ohifwinterends
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| nonentropic wrote: | | do enfps have a strong need/desire to look at someone...be able to see the other person's face while talking to them? my mom seems to be an enfp and this seems to be true for her. do most types tend to do this? am i (an intj) and my own type grouping the only ones who perhaps don't do this? strange f'n world ain't it? |
I don't know, I do that, and I'm some type of NF. I CANNOT talk to someone if they cover their face...or their eyes.
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thanks folks. i noticed that in some of the vids of Malcom X that i posted in the intellectual section here (under my fwiw thread...idealism thread - i think) that when he speaks or is spoken to he acts and repsonds in a very similar way to me or vice versa. i see him falling within the intj category as well. the focus is on the essence of what is being said and one's own thoughts/train of thought mostly...or very strongly. whatever....
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| nonentropic wrote: | | do enfps have a strong need/desire to look at someone...be able to see the other person's face while talking to them? my mom seems to be an enfp and this seems to be true for her. do most types tend to do this? am i (an intj) and my own type grouping the only ones who perhaps don't do this? strange f'n world ain't it? |
I have an ENFP friend that usually mantains the visual contacts, but he can, for example, stay hours on the telephone. In my case, I am INTP and I don't stare at other people's faces when we're talking. But I've noticed that people don't like when I do this, they prefer me to look at them.
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^ i understand. folks just have to get used to us/understand us, and we them.
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im an enfp and seeing someones face definitely helps me....
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| i am a female enfp, and i tend to really..really.. dislike other enfps. is it normal for enfp's not to get along with each other? |
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| does it have anything to do with competition? |
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| nonentropic wrote: | | does it have anything to do with competition? |
Does it have anything to do with you being a pussy that can't stand up to me like a man? |
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| ohifwinterends wrote: |
I don't know, I do that, and I'm some type of NF. I CANNOT talk to someone if they cover their face...or their eyes. |
I'm an NF and I don't like looking people in the face while talking. Usually. lol.
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| mshl wrote: | | i am a female enfp, and i tend to really..really.. dislike other enfps. is it normal for enfp's not to get along with each other? |
Yeah because you both want to be in the spotlight.
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I'm ENTP, and my vagina always knows I've spotted an ENFP before my mind does. There's nothing sexier than not knowing which way someone is going to zag next. I just want to dive into a tank of ENFPs and climb my way out with my tongue.  |
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