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| julianameless wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | okkk. I have a problem. more of a question.. I like an INTP, and the person likes me... ( an ENFJ ) so sure this is supposed to work out, except they really REALLY struggle on the "under developed feeling sense".
what can I / they do to umm.. how do i put this.. develop it.  |
Sex. Lots and lots of sex.
I'm kidding, of course. It's not your job to develop someone's functions. Loving someone means accepting them the way they are. If you can't accept and love this person that way, then break up with them. End of story.
Although, sex is a pretty good option, anyways. |
OH MY GOD!
im a freshman in high school!
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| TagurlT wrote: | | julianameless wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | okkk. I have a problem. more of a question.. I like an INTP, and the person likes me... ( an ENFJ ) so sure this is supposed to work out, except they really REALLY struggle on the "under developed feeling sense".
what can I / they do to umm.. how do i put this.. develop it. |
Sex. Lots and lots of sex.
I'm kidding, of course. It's not your job to develop someone's functions. Loving someone means accepting them the way they are. If you can't accept and love this person that way, then break up with them. End of story.
Although, sex is a pretty good option, anyways. |
OH MY GOD!
im a freshman in high school! |
And you're talking about a relationship "working out". 
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TagurlT
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fearless i am. 
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Patience. We take time to learn. make us feel like even if we fuck up, it's okay. Make us feel safe to explore. Then let us know that you want us to explore. We will.
Patience. We take time. Can't stress that enough. You can't force us.
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Lenka
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I've recently been considering the posibility that my boss may be ENFJ, rather than ESFP. Any pointers on telling the difference?
(don't say "organized"  )
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| Lenka wrote: | I've recently been considering the posibility that my boss may be ENFJ, rather than ESFP. Any pointers on telling the difference?
(don't say "organized" ) |
the earthy vs. ethereal factor comes into play,
but even that can be a bit misleading
if he goes at things from a philosophical perspective,
and it comes natural to him,
or if its more of a gritty hands on ordeal
and its natural to him
i say ' natural ' because people grow,
outside of their boxes, ya know
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| Lenka wrote: | I've recently been considering the posibility that my boss may be ENFJ, rather than ESFP. Any pointers on telling the difference?
(don't say "organized" ) |
wow, an ENTJ has a boss. How shocking! 
Gonna do something about it?
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What's the point of confusion? I find these types to be very different.
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TagurlT
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hands on learner, very social, I consider my oppinions way before others.
I love horses ( feelers ), and become obsessed with things rather than porpotional. Anything.
Logical, kind of specific about thoughts rather than " all over the place "
play the piano.. what about everyone else?
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TagurlT
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| Lenka wrote: | I've recently been considering the posibility that my boss may be ENFJ, rather than ESFP. Any pointers on telling the difference?
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if your boss is an ESFP he'll be a lot more random.. you know in conversations? but rather queit and observant as well.
If hes an enfj. idk. its hard to tell the diff. isnt it!?
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| TagurlT wrote: | | fearless i am. |
if you're not mature enough yet to have sex, then you're not mature enough to have a relationship with someone like that.
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| Rocky wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | | fearless i am. |
if you're not mature enough yet to have sex, then you're not mature enough to have a relationship with someone like that. |
No Shit. !
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| TagurlT wrote: | | Rocky wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | | fearless i am. |
if you're not mature enough yet to have sex, then you're not mature enough to have a relationship with someone like that. |
No Shit. ! |
it seems like you're trying to pretend to know everything. the more you know, the more you don't know
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| HT wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | | Rocky wrote: | | TagurlT wrote: | | fearless i am. |
if you're not mature enough yet to have sex, then you're not mature enough to have a relationship with someone like that. |
No Shit. ! |
it seems like you're trying to pretend to know everything. the more you know, the more you don't know |
| Oscar Wilde wrote: | | I am not young enough to know everything. |
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ENFJ's.. Remain.. Elusive..
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