Helping others is my oxygen. .543
I put others first. .502
greedy ooooo generous .443
I give more than I take. .434
I am concerned about others. .425
I feel inclined to be responsible for, and take care of, others' feelings. .417
I compassionately take on someone else's needs as my own. .415
Sometimes it's not what I want, it's what others want that's more important. .412
I sympathize with others' feelings. .408
I find helping others rewarding. .398
I feel a responsibility to care for the weak. .397
self-interested ooooo othercentric .386
Pleasing others makes me happy. .383
I would rather please myself than others.- (I would rather please others than myself) .382
I try to please everyone. .379
I focus more on the hearts of the whole world in determining the right choices to make. .379
What other people want is as important as what I want. .377
Doing volunteer work is a waste of time. -.374
My sense of happiness is affected by the quality of life of everyone on the planet. .369
My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .363
I take more than I give. -.362
I find appreciating others rewarding. .356
I help make people feel comfortable by engaging in hosting and care-taking. .353
I could not pursue a career which was harmful to the world in any way. .345
I only care about myself. -.339
Correcting injustice in the world is very important to me. .333
selfish 00000 selfless .332
passionate .327
must first approve of the job's larger impact on the world before I'll agree to perform it. .316
selfish ooooo selfless .314
I am obedient to others. .311
hurt others ooooo hurt self .310
I believe I can improve the world by influencing others. .309
I make people feel welcome. .307
I tend to defer-to/go-along with the wishes of others. .307
When I'm depressed, I like to help people. .306
I would be happy if I was more helpful to others. .305
I have trouble saying no to people. .304
Social justice is very important to me. .296
I have a good word for everyone. .295
I tend to want to help people even when it's not good for them and/or me. .290
The happiness of strangers has the same objective value as my happiness. .284
It is hard for me to make a decision if I don't know how others feel about it. .283
When I like someone, I become devoted to them. .281
I feel pretty worried or upset when I think or know somebody is angry at me. .280
I am willing to forgive others. .280
nice ooooo standoffish -.277
Protecting the environment (nature) is very important to me. .277
I am the center of my universe. -.272
I try to forgive and forget. .267
People are things to be used. -.266
I like to watch children open presents. .260
I'm always looking for the best situation for myself regardless of whether it's good for anyone else. -.259
I am an ethical person. .257
peaceful .256
Raising children is essential to my happiness. .255
My ego is bigger than my heart. -.254
happy 00000 sad -.253
It is important for me to maintain positive feelings in those around me, at all costs .253
I express my thanks to those who care about me. .252
Humanitarian causes are extremely important to me. .251
honest .250
romantic trait .250 (on triword test)
I believe that others have good intentions.- -.249
sensual .249
Having a family is the most important thing to me. .249
I like to stand during the national anthem. .248
I am a cold person. -.247
I always treat others as I would like to be treated. .246
accountable .245
A career in social work interests me. .243
If I like someone, I will do whatever they want. .243
I enjoy bringing people together. .243
accommodating 00000 unaccommodating -.241
If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's my fault. .241
I have a great need to improve the world. .239
I readily communicate personally to all members of a group to feel unity .238
happy ooooo sad -.238
I am very considerate of my own feelings but not so considerate of other people's feelings. -.237
If I was independently wealthy, I could be happy not working my whole life. -.231
I enjoy hurting others. -.231
I believe that love happens all the time, everywhere. .227
I am humble. .226
I feel perfectly justified in getting my way, all the time. -.226
I am never too busy to help a friend. .224
I live to make people laugh..224
I am dutiful. .222
I am deeply moved by others' misfortunes. .221
I want to leave a mark, do something that will have a real impact in the world. .221
I trust others. .220
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. .220
thoughtful ooooo discourteous -.219
I lack empathy. -.219
Anyone can become great. .219
Love is stronger than hate. .218
I'm happy to occupy whatever position in society I best fit into regardless of whether it's prestigious. .218
I need to be needed. .218
I rarely stop to think about what other people think, feel, and expect. -.217
I live to create beautiful things. .216
Love is my supreme virtue. .216
In romantic relationships, it's normal for the guy to like the girl more. .216 (men)
I enjoy lying, duping others. -.215
team player .215
I believe in equal opportunity for all. .215
like disagreement 00000 dislike disagreement .213
A person's family is the most important thing in life. .213
Public opinion can mean a lot. .211
I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. -.211
Happiness is truth. .210
I want to impress my parents. .210
I am more obedient than rebellious. .210
I am right, others are wrong. -.210
I can't do without the company of others. .209
I expect others to serve me without reciprocating. -.209
I am faithful to friends. .208
I rely on assurances from others. .207
It would be cool if I had a ton of money, but I would also enjoy life if I was poor. .207
I would like to pursue a career in social justice. ,205
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. .205
I have very strong emotions. .204
I would risk my life for something I cared about a lot. .204
honest 00000 dishonest -.204
I am loyal to the tradition/values I was raised with. .213
I find it very hard to lie. .203
I reveal little about myself. -.202
I don't like most people. -.202
I like to educate others. .202
I would have no problem taking a large amount of money to work for a corrupt corporation. -.201
I very much want to be loved. .201
respect customs 00000 discard customs -.200
I respect authority. .200
I always honor my promises to others. .200
I am a team player. .198
dishonest ooooo honest .198
My actions are predominately motivated by how they'll cause others to view me. .198
The safety of my loved ones is very important to me. .198
I believe everything happens for a reason..198
I am more comfortable being the appreciator than the appreciated, as far as the physical dynamic in a romantic relationship. .198
I am very loyal. .198
Finding true love is the main passion in my life. .196
My religious faith is important to me. .196
I'm not interested in friendships I can't control. -.196
I don't understand people who get emotional. -.195
The most important thing to me is humility. .195
I focus entirely on getting my own way, helping myself. -.195
If a certain behavior benefited me but had a negative effect on the world, I would still engage in it. -.195
instinctive .194
know myself 00000 don't know myself -.194
I don't like to apologize. -.194
I get chores done right away. .193
innocent .193
atheist oooo theist .192
I am more diplomatic than bluntly honest. .192
Every day is a new adventure. .192
untrustworthy -.192
I follow directions. .191
Life is significant (meaningful). .191
I can be insensitive to the feelings of others. -.191
People tell me that I'm a good listener. .191
Other people energize me. .197
I am a theist. .190
I like to demean other people. -.190
I am self-centered. -.189
feminine .188
Finding meaning/purpose in my life is very important to me. .187
People tell me that I am cold. -.187
please self 00000 please others .186
When I like someone I give them compliments. .186
I have a very good reputation. .186
I would rather please myself than others.- .185
I see most people in my life as replaceable. -.185
I seek deep emotional and spiritual intimacy. .185
I get what I want by controlling others. -.185
I radiate joy. .184
fidelity 00000 infidelity -.184
I don't like missing out on an event that people I care about are enjoying. .183
My parents have had a great deal of influence on me. .183
I accept people as they are. .182
theist 00000 athiest -.182
I don't like taking orders. -.181
Other people's viewpoints are a resource for getting closer to the truth. .181
I honor my parents and elders..181
I have a heart of stone. -.181
I find not helping others rewarding. -.180
My belief in God affects my life. .179
I do things when I should do them. .179
I understand people who think differently. .178
My parents are my foundation. .178 (men)
It's all in what you and your heart tell you and how you percieve those messages. .178
internal wealth 00000 material wealth -.177
A good friend is supportive/affirming. .175
respect customs ooooo discard customs -.177
My spiritual life is very important to me. .177
Criticism or scolding hurts me quite a bit. .176
I dislike conflict. .176
It is difficult for me to detach and be objective. .175
I find other people unrewarding. -.175
I like to share my successes with others. .174
I let my feelings strongly guide me. .174
I am sincere. .174
I guide my life using religious scriptures..174
Achievement is more important than material or financial reward..173
I respect the opinions of others. .173
I enjoy being controlled by someone I love. .173
I like to work behind the scenes without credit. .173
Fairness is very important, even if it proves me wrong. .172
wise .172
I have been duped/burned before by someone I cared about. .172
A healthy romantic relationship involves equal effort by both parties. .172
devout .171
intense 00000 easy going .170
The things I value most are internal. .170
I cannot survive without being loved by someone. .170
I return extra change when a cashier makes a mistake. .170
My own happiness and success are more important than the happiness and success of others.- .169
I am easily moved to tears. .169
I listen to pmy feelings when making important decisions. .169
please self ooooo please others .169
Internal beauty is more important than external beauty. .169
I spend a lot of time talking about love. .168
I do things when I'm supposed to do them. .168
I am hypersensitive. .167
I believe in being accountable. .167
My enjoyment admiring things exceeds my desire to be admired. .167
Optimism is my oxygen. .166
I am willing to take risks to establish a relationship. .166
I like being part of a subculture. .166
I am dependent on the support and nurturance of others. .166
I would associate with someone whose behavior had a negative effect on the world if that association was beneficial to me. -.166
Intellectual freedom should have limits. .166
I'm an idealist. .165
The world should be as I want it to be. -.165
Rules are rules. .164
I'm not interested in romantic relationships I can't control. -.164
I am preoccupied with myself. -.164
I see the world as a struggle between right and wrong. .163
Most people are better than me. .163
I dislike people I can't control. -.163
introspective 00000 power seeking -.162
I am determined to have my own way. -.162
I am concerned with finding harmony and abiding by social structures based on my own subjective beliefs and experiences. .161
I have a big ego. -.161
My heart has dictated the path i've taken in life. .161
I grew up in a parent centered household. men .161
self-reliant .161
I hate to judge others on how they look. .160
Helping people hurts people. -.159
The sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light in the darkness of mere being. .159
I would prefer to achieve eternal fame and die at 40 to living an ordinary life till 100. -.158
I am close to my parents. .157
I am traditional.- -.156
know myself ooooo don't know myself -.156
People who have no utility to me, don't matter to me. -.156
How much I am loved is more important than how much I love others. -.156
studious .155
I act without consulting others. -.155
I am weak and need a stronger person to carry me through life. .155
I will never be satisfied until I get all that I deserve. -.155
I am or would like to be a stay at home parent. .154
explanatory .153
Honesty doesn't pay.-.153
It is important to me that I live in a world free of war and conflict. .153
I know that to survive I need to be needed. .153
I could be happy living anywhere. .153
I find being alive rewarding. .153
Poor and content is rich and rich enough. .152
I am conventional.- -.152
sly -.152
I do not like to appear better than others. .152
I am more preoccupied with what I like than with being liked. -.152
altruistic ooooo non-altruistic -.151
I will not be taken advantage of. -.151
I look up to my parents. .151
I discard convention/tradition. -.150
I ridicule others. -.150
Power for its own sake doesn't interest me. .150
I believe vengeance is sometimes necessary. -.150
People can't always live their lives in terms of what they want. .150
I enjoy being thought of as a normal "mainstream" person. .150
depressed 00000 stressed .149
I enjoy being part of a group. .149
I will cheat in order to win. -.149
I am unhappy without duties and responsibilities. .148
I am trusted to keep secrets. .148
If the people I was close to didn't like someone, it would be hard for me to date them. .148
I am generally a very happy person. .148
I am not easily affected by my emotions -.148
I am more aware/attuned to my feelings than the feelings of others. -.147
I recharge by being with other people. .147
I like people I can control. -.147
I make decisions based on feelings..147
I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. -.147
National security (i.e. protection from anything that would hurt my country) is very important to me. .147
I conform to others' opinions. .146
I have contempt for people that are inferior to me. -.146
I fear being judged by others. .146
People I decieve are fools who should have known better. -.146
Anything is possible. .146
I know who I am because of my friends. .145
Others should be made to pay for their stupidity. -.145
I have difficulty enduring even a mild degree of conflict with those close to me. .145
uncreative 00000 creative .144
I am optimistic. .144
I look up to no one. -.144
I value females over males. .144 (male)
I believe in equality between all races. .143
I find it easy to manipulate others. -.143
I am controlled by my environment. .143
I am/was very close to my mother. .143 (men)
I require a lot of external stimulation. .142
No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .142
I can put on a convincing smile if the situation calls for it no matter how I really feel internally. .142
I would not want to live in a city where people were obsessed with status / prestige. .142
How I feel about things has greater influence on me than my logic. .142
I find it rewarding to let my feelings guide me in life. .142
born leader.141
I am very picky about movies. -.141
I find being appreciated rewarding. .141
I view obligation as a position of weakness and vulnerability to other's control. -.141
I have a morose sense of humor. -.140
I feel worried when I think I have done poorly at something important. .140
I prefer to keep people at a distance. -.140
I feel best when I am working. .139
I have very good instincts. .139
I frequently assess other peoples emotional states by watching their behavior. .139
I want to be in romantic relationship with someone that I think is awesome. .139
My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me. .139
witty .139
I live a life based on strongly held personal values and raw emotion associated with my individual human experience. .138
Romantically, I focus more on whether someone wants me than whether I want them. .138
When you are wronged, consider the viewpoint of the wrongdoer, and feel sorry for mankind. .138
I anticipate the needs of others. .137
I push myself very hard to succeed. .137
When I want something from someone I can be very nice, when I don't I can be very mean. -.137
superficial -.137
improve world 00000 improve self -.136
I value justice higher than mercy. -.136
I have a history of making and sticking to long term plans. .136
I review a lot of information over time to confirm what is customary or standard. .136
Having close friends is very important to me. .136
I use anger to control people and situations. -.136
I am flexible. .136
I can be cold when I don't want to have anything to do with a person anymore. -.135
professorial .135
I find the world a very interesting place. .134
I operate based on an ideology. .134
I tend to be the comedian around others. .134
spontaneous .134
I am defined by my internal compass (not an external one). .133
I like to be viewed as proper and conventional. .133
I have shallow emotions. -.133
I sometimes let my feelings overwhelm me.- -.133
Early in a relationship, I can quickly discern what's important to someone I like, and become that. .133
No one is good enough for me. -.133
I can be condescending to people. -.133
I dislike physical/manual labor of any kind. -.133
Social justice is very important to me. .132
thriving ooooo surviving -.132
I choose my words with care. .131
I have initiated most of my friendships. .131
I have tended to date people who are meaner than me. .131 (men)
Even if I know I don't like someone enough for it to work long term, it can hurt if they break up with me. .131
rational ooooo irrational -.131
I believe my race is superior. -.131
Happiness is the most important thing in life. .131
I would be uncomfortable living in a multi-million dollar house/apartment. .131
fantasy 00000 reality .131
I value internal rewards/validation more than external rewards/validation. .131
I am trusted to keep secrets. .130
I am more outgoing than reserved. .130
I have no need for power over others. .130