Factor Items
583 items, shown in the original order.
- I am happy with my life. .532
- Optimism is my oxygen. .524
- I am generally a very happy person. .517
- My trajectory in life is downhill. -.508
- happy ooooo sad -.502
- know myself ooooo don't know myself -.500
- I have little control over my own life. -.474*
- If people knew who I really was they wouldn't like me. -.473
- autonomy ooooo shame/doubt -.456
- I am at peace with myself. .456
- I am defective. -.450
- I will likely never accomplish anything impressive. -.456
- I feel hugely anxious and self-conscious all the time. -.448
- I feel lost. -.443
- I have little control over life. -.442*
- I am on the right path in life. .438
- My life has never been worse than it is now. -.427
- Life is significant (meaningful). .423
- I see myself as calm, emotionally stable. .420
- I don't feel like anyone really knows me. -.410
- I feel comfortable around people. .407
- I often feel blue. -.403
- I hide who I really am from others. -.393
- I am unable to change my circumstances. -.393
- I've always felt that something is missing inside me. -.390
- I have an unrelenting feeling of not being wanted. -.389
- I am optimistic. .386
- fantasy 00000 reality .386
- I don't know what will make me happy. -.383
- I find being who I am rewarding. .380
- outgoing ooooo reserved -.378
- I would be better off dead. -.376
- I don't know what I'm doing with my life. -.373
- I'm very smart but I'm not happy. -.370
- I'm just surviving. -.369
- identity ooooo role confusion -.368
- initiative ooooo guilt -.367
- I find living my life rewarding. .365
- Most people are better than me. -.363
- My life has never been better than it is now. .361
- I feel comfortable with myself. .359
- I have identity issues. -.358
- calm ooooo worrying -.357
- relaxed ooooo stressed -.348
- I am incapable of changing my circumstances. -.358
- I find being alive rewarding. .353
- I am easily discouraged. -.350
- emotional control ooooo emotional overload -.345
- I often feel uncomfortable around others. -.343
- born leader .342
- I don't have trust in my own judgement. -.341
- I like to conceal my body. -.339
- I have a lot of will power. .339
- I am an outsider. -.339
- depressed 00000 stressed .338
- I radiate joy. .337 3.06
- I lack an interior life. -.336
- The image I present to others and who I really am are not the same. -.334
- I have taught myself to stuff and disconnect from my own feelings for years. -.331
- I'm living in the best part of my life right now. .328
- If everyone in the world was like me, the world would probably self destruct. -.318
- I lack motivation. -.318
- I have not sorted things out yet. -.318
- I remain in touch with what I want for myself, what motivates me, and what is good. .314
- I have no close friends. -.314
- athletic 00000 unathletic -.313
- My body is nothing special. -.313
- I have learned to behave helplessly. -.313*
- I mostly live in the my head, not in the world. -.312
- I feel attacked by others. -.311
- No matter how good things are I find something th complain about. -.310
- People tell me that I am distant. -.310
- I can't determine whether I am good or bad. -.309
- I don't let anyone get too close to me. -.307
- I have a defeatist outlook on life. -.307
- I prefer to be alone. -.305
- My life has never been better than it is now. -.395
- I don't feel like many people really know me. -.305
- I experience shame a lot. -.302
- I don't like most people. -.302
- confident 00000 uneasy .301
- In most things, I generally don't try too hard. -.299
- I'm generally just trying to get by. -.296
- I am courageous. .295
- I hurt people. -.295
- I keep others at a distance. -.294
- I am fun. .294
- I have a very good reputation. .291
- I prefer to keep people at a distance. -.289
- I meet my obligations. .289
- When I'm not happy, I make changes to my life. .288
- I find believing in myself rewarding. .287
- If I like someone romantically, it is hard for me to express that. -.286
- I live inside my head. -.283
- I know how to enjoy myself. .282
- Knowing who I am makes me happy. .281
- I am very suspicious of others. -.281
- I panic easily. -.278
- I'm so different that I won't be accepted. -.276
- I have a slow pace to my life. -.276
- I fear being judged by others. -.276
- I am very skilled at achievement. .275
- I don't know what I want. -.274
- stylish 00000 unstylish -.274
- independent ooooo dependent -.274
- I have the freedom to become something other than my circumstances would normally produce. .273
- Rejection shakes my confidence more than anything else. -.272
- If I was independently wealthy, I could be happy not working my whole life. -.272
- I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. -.271
- If there is a problem in my life that would upset me to deal with / figure out, I'm prone to ignore/deny it's existence. -.270
- I'm living in the past. -.269
- I enjoy bringing people together. .266
- I am flexible. .266
- thriving ooooo surviving -.265
- I do a lot in my spare time. .265
- No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .264
- I am good at setting goals. .262
- I am in control of almost every aspect of my life. .261
- I am in love with myself. .260
- Being disliked by others causes me anxiety. -.260
- I do too little work. -.256
- I reveal little about myself. -.256
- I find other people unrewarding. -.255
- I accomplish a lot of work. .253
- Everybody likes to hear my stories. .253
- I find being around others for too long unrewarding. -.252
- I don't feel that my life belongs to me. -.251
- I am gloomy and argumentitive. -.249
- minimize pain ooooo maximize pleasure .248
- I am true to myself at all costs. .248
- I am always busy. .248
- I complain a lot. -.247
- I have a history of health problems. -.247
- No matter how bad life gets, I get through it. .247
- Sometimes I focus too much on who I like and don't grasp who likes me. -.246
- I am weak and need a stronger person to carry me through life. -.245
- introspective 00000 power seeking .244
- open ooooo private -.244
- I repress my feelings. -.244
- It is entirely possible that no one I romantically loved enough to stick with would love me enough to stick with. -.243
- I keep my thoughts to myself.- .243
- I am more outgoing than reserved. .243
- I see myself as dependable, self-disciplined. .243
- I see most people in my life as replaceable. -.243
- I am energetic. .242
- My formula for happiness is minimizing pain. -.242
- After a break up, I'd rather mourn the end of the relationship for months than move on with my life. -.242
- If a certain behavior benefited me but had a negative effect on the world, I would still engage in it. -.241
- I am unable to commit to anything for very long. -.241
- I hang around doing nothing. -.240
- I am prone to escapism. -.239
- I make plans and stick to them. .239
- I will cheat in order to win. -.239
- dependent -.237
- I hold a grudge. -.237
- I enjoy being part of a group. .236
- I say little.- .235
- I prefer to participate fully rather than view life from the sidelines. .233
- survive ooooo strive .232
- I have rage issues. -.232
- calm ooooo emotional -.231
- Romantically, I imagine abandoning behavior, even when/where it doesn't exist. -.231
- I take the initiative. .230
- I maintain high energy throughout the day. .229
- I find it hard to forgive others. -.228
- I am reliable. .228
- If I meet someone I like, it's easy for me to ask them to hang out some time, i.e. initiate a friendship. .227
- uncreative 00000 creative .226
- I find having little to no responsibilities rewarding. -.226
- I trust others. .226
- I don't trust others. -.226
- People tell me that I am cold. -.226
- I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. -.225
- I am insane. -.225
- I get confused easily. -.224
- I am adaptable. .224
- I usually fear for the worst.- .224
- I am special and chosen. .224
- I find not being who I am rewarding. -.224
- obscure -.223
- I am close to my parents. .223
- Growing up I had to be different from who I really was to survive. -.223
- I am considered attractive by others. .222
- I am a private person. -.222
- Freedom is an illusion. -.222
- At a certain point in my life I distanced myself from my parents (and I remain distant). -.222
- I am always on the go. .222
- I associate love with longing for something that doesn't love me. -.222
- I would associate with someone whose behavior had a negative effect on the world if that association was beneficial to me. -.222
- I feel comfortable with myself. .221
- People have to be responsible for their own actions. .221
- I either love people or hate people. -.221
- I tend to have an internal dislike/disdain for people that are more attractive than me. -.221
- I am self sufficient. .221
- I have a bad temper. -.220
- I am usually quite confident when learning a new game or sport. .219
- I feel lucky most of the time. .218
- rely on self ooooo rely on others -.218
- At a certain point in my life my parents distanced themselves from me (and they remain distant). -.218
- I am dutiful. .218
- exercise trait .217 (on triword 1.13)
- When I'm depressed I don't have much attention to give. -.217
- I don't always do what I say I will do.- .216
- I hide/conceal my strengths/advantages. -.216
- I am inclined to do the opposite of what people want me to do. -.215
- I am more calm than worrying. .215
- I do things when I should do them. .215
- superficial -.215
- I'm a born leader. .214
- I am open about myself to others. .214
- I prefer to hide my failures from others. -.214
- I am genuine. .213
- Doing volunteer work is a waste of time. -.213
- I know I could be happy if I could trade places with certain people. -.213
- People are things to be used. -.212
- Other people think I'm great. .211
- I see myself as open to new experiences, complex. .211
- I have good self restraint. .211
- Criticism or scolding hurts me quite a bit. -.211
- I am unable to change who I am. -.211
- I make friends easily. .210
- I deserve to be loved a great deal. .210
- I have a short fuse. -.210
- rational 00000 irrational -.208
- I like to look at my body. .208
- untrustworthy -.208
- I am ruled by my emotions. -.208
- Honesty doesn't pay. -.208
- I find pleasure in isolation. -.208
- It is important that I change who I am. -.207
- thriving 00000 surviving -.206
- I am open to change. .206
- respect customs 00000 discard customs -.205
- I would be happy if I was more physically attractive/perfect. -.205
- I can be needy in a romantic relationship. -.205
- I am an ethical person. .205
- I an very good at picking up on whether people are lying. .205
- I talk to many different people at parties. .204
- I don't like to be judged. -.203
- My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me. -.203
- I do things when I'm supposed to do them. .203
- Maintaining my physical health is very important to me. .203
- I am good at taking advice. .202
- I always know why I do things. .202
- I feel drained after being out and about, even if I've enjoyed myself. -.202
- My self esteem is based on how attractive others think I am. -.202
- I am a team player. .201
- I love surprise parties. .201
- I enjoy duping/decieving people. -.201
- I focus entirely on avoiding romantic relationship rejection. -.201
- I was bullied growing up. -.201
- I have addictive tendencies -.20
- I have a lot of fun. .200
- My friends are very different from me. -.200
- I lack conviction. -.200
- honest 00000 dishonest -.200
- I look at the bright side of life. .200
- I ask for help. .199
- I am very skilled at seduction. .199
- People just tend to like me. .198
- I seek quiet. -.198
- I am a cold person. -.197
- I see flaws/weaknesses as opportunites for fixes/improvements. .197
- greedy ooooo generous .195
- I always treat others as I would like to be treated. .195
- I always remain true to what I want for myself or others. .194
- I am hypersensitive. -.194
- I'm defensive. -.194
- I express my thanks to those who care about me. .193
- I cannot improve without changing who I am. .193
- nice ooooo standoffish -.193
- I put zero effort into what I wear. -.193
- intimacy ooooo isolation -.193
- I believe I can improve the world by influencing others. .193
- hurt others ooooo hurt self -.193
- I'm not interested in friendships I can't control. -.192
- I am elegant. .192
- I don't trust others but I want others to trust me.-.192
- I am good at everything I do. .191
- I felt rejected by my mother. -.191
- I look up to my parents. .191
- Applause is meaningless to me. -.190
- I am easily intimidated. -.190
- A person's family is the most important thing in life. .189
- Love is stronger than hate. .189
- Things are never going to be perfect. -.189
- My friends are very similar to me. .189
- It's difficult to get me excited. -.189
- It's all in what you and your heart tell you and how you percieve those messages. .189
- I believe that others have good intentions.- -.189
- I am physically attracted to my own gender. -.188
- People tell me that I am stiff. -.188
- We are responsible for who we are. .188
- I need a push to get started. -.188
- I tend to express my aggression towards others indirectly or passively. -.188
- Helping others is my oxygen. .188
- I believe that love happens all the time, everywhere. .188
- I require a lot of external stimulation. -.187
- I envy those more fortunate. -.187
- If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's my fault. -.187
- I can be clingy in a romantic relationship. -.187
- I felt rejected by my father. -.186
- I'm romantically attracted to people who don't like themselves. -.186
- I ridicule others. -.186
- I say little.- .186
- take risks 00000 play it safe -.185
- Every day is a new adventure. .185
- I am not easily frustrated. .185
- I attract attention from the opposite sex. .185
- In most things, I generally try very hard. .184
- Happiness is truth. .184
- I am dependable. .184
- be challenged ooooo be supported -.184
- My inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to me than the external world. -.184
- I honor my parents and elders. .183
- I have trouble asking for what I want from people I am romantically interested in. -.183
- I make people feel welcome. .182
- I get upset easily.- .182
- I get chores done right away. .182
- If a relationship I really cared about didn't work out, it would be hard for me to stay in the same city with them. -.182
- unreliable -.182
- People are so boring and predictable. -.182
- The more efficient your body, the better you feel and the more you will use your talent to produce outstanding results. .182
- I don't need any more anxiety in my life. -.181
- I spend a lot of time analyzing myself. -.181
- I don't like to accept help from anyone.- .181
- I find the world a very interesting place. .181
- I am highly ambitious. .180
- theist 00000 athiest -.179
- I do things that impress me. .179
- work ooooo play -.179
- I am driven to live the healthiest life possible. .178
- I find it difficult to discuss emotions. -.178
- It's been a real struggle for me to find a balance between being honest and being nice. -.178
- I don't like to draw attention to myself. -.177
- I worry about what people think of me. -.177
- Skin diving in the ocean would be much too dangerous for me. -.177
- Most of the people I'm friends with initiated the frienship. -.177
- I don't care if people think I'm awesome. .177
- I am very different from my family members. -.176
- I sympathize with others' feelings. .176
- I recognize other people only as means to obtain what I desire. -.176
- I wish my parents had told my I was special more as a child. -.176
- external ooooo internal -.175
- I have a mature understanding of life. .175
- I am apathetic. -.175
- There's not much more for me to learn in life. -.175
- I like to rebel for the sake or rebellion. -.175
- I have a morose sense of humor. -.175
- When I'm doing well at something I love to keep at it. .174
- I seem to do more listening than talking in conversations with others. -.174
- I push myself very hard to succeed. .174
- My parents were both overly complimentary and rejecting, alternately. -.174
- One or both my parents was very selfish. -.174
- I can get pretty much anyone to like me romantically. .173
- I concentrate easily. .173
- I am more likely to avoid feeling certain things that will conflict with how I think. -.173
- I have a plan for my future. .172
- One should always be willing to carry on the discussion in the opponent's terminology. .172
- I don't ever want to grow up. -.172
- It's hard for me to put myself out their romantically when I like someone. -.172
- math oooo art -.172
- I don't know who I am. -.171
- I have a fear of public speaking. -.171
- I don't always listen to my instincts/feelings. -.171
- I like performing and/or speaking in front of an audience. .171
- I try to forgive and forget. .171
- I people I am romantically attracted to tend to be messed up. -.171
- I generally have the upper hand in my romantic relationships. .171
- I wish more people liked better music. -.171
- self-reliant .170
- I think I'm great. .170
- I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. -.170
- I repress my thoughts. -.170
- I need another person similar to me to help get me through life. -.170
- My need to be loved may exceed my capacity to love. -.170
- I can be callous. -.170
- Freedom must be earned..169
- I have a history of very close friendships. .169
- People who have no utility to me, don't matter to me. -.169
- One or both my parents suffered from depression. -.169
- I've been very lucky. .168
- I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me. -.168
- I look up to no one. -.167
- I like to stand during the national anthem. .167
- I was my mother's favorite child. .167 (men)
- I respect authority. .167
- I am very private. -.166
- I am unconventional. -.166
- I have engaged in bullying. -.165
- I have very divergent feelings toward things. -.165
- I work best alone. -.165
- I get back at others. -.164
- selfish 00000 selfless .164
- When I'm depressed, I like to do nothing. -.164
- I complete tasks successfully. .164
- I always honor my promises to others. .164
- I don't like to confess. -.163
- I would rather be too mean than too nice. -.163
- I drove or rode somewhere without remembering later what happened during all or part of the trip. -.163
- I get things done quickly. .162
- I confuse commitment with engulfment. -.162
- I have a lot of pride. .162
- I find theoretical physics interesting. .162
- I avoid considering how I feel about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me. -.162
- Adulthood is the best time of life.- -.161
- I let other people take the credit for my work. -.161
- I am open about myself to others. .160
- I have boundary issues. -.160
- I don't believe in objective truth. -.160
- I find appreciating others rewarding. .160
- accountable .160
- concrete .160
- I love to think up new ways of doing things. .160
- When I see an opportunity for something I like I get excited right away. .160
- I like clear goals and clear ways of measuring success. .159
- My parents are my foundation. .159 (women)
- I focus entirely on being obscure. -.159
- I need others to assume some responsibility in areas of my life. -.158
- Having a family is the most important thing to me. .158
- I always know how I feel. .158
- If someone I romantically like says they are not interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .158
- Anything is possible. .158
- I find taking risks rewarding. .158
- Romantically, I focus more on whether someone wants me than whether I want them. -.158
- I am a learning engine. .157
- I like to show off my body. .157
- I become obsessed with manipulating how others feel about me. -.157
- atheist oooo theist .157
- If someone hurts me, I have a need to get revenge. -.156
- I'm standoff-ish. -.156
- If I fix all my (imagined) external flaws, I can feel happy and lovable. -.156
- I am asexual. -.156
- I like myself more than I like anyone else. .156
- Death is the goal of life. -.156
- Jobs are for suckers. -.156
- I automatically take charge. .155
- I am controlled by my environment. -.155
- expert .155
- I express anger passively, through sullenness (gloomy silence/reserve). -.155
- I have a natural talent for influencing people. .155
- meticulous ooooo forgetful -.155
- I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities. -.155
- My self esteem is based on how attractive I am to others. -.155
- I want to have an impact on people and events. .154
- I tend to undersell myself to others. -.154
- I would be more motivated if the world was more attractive. -.154
- I help make people feel comfortable by engaging in hosting and care-taking. .153
- I am not easily bothered by things. .153
- stability .153
- I enjoy exercising. .153
- I enjoy a good rapport with most. .153
- I had one or more intrusive parents. -.153
- When I see a person I like connecting with someone else, it bothers me. -.152
- I can't handle romantic rejection. -.153
- I guide my life using religious scriptures. .153
- I seek out positions of leadership. .153
- I like to share my successes with others. .153
- I am peculiar. -.152
- When I am depressed, I seek out less attention. -.152
- I was my father's favorite child. .152 (men)
- I go straight for the goal. .151
- I've gotten more enjoyment out of music that most anything else in life. -.151
- I like to start new fads and fashions. .151
- I can manage many things at the same time. .151
- I find helping others rewarding. .151
- I am aware at a detailed level of what is going on in my body including my emotional state. .151
- I like to look at myself in the mirror. .151
- unassuming ooooo ostentatious (showy) .150
- I am preoccupied with myself. -.150
- Things that make me unattractive to others should be changed. -.150
- external 00000 internal -.150
- He who seeks beauty will find it. .150
- I believe vengeance is sometimes necessary. -.158
- I avoid spending my time just sitting around resting. .149
- I sometimes feel as if I could sleep for a week. -.149
- I'm not interested in romantic relationships I can't control. -.149
- People ocassionally tell me that I'm attractive. .149
- I keep my thoughts to myself.- .149
- I am able to control my reality. .149
- I don't pretend to be more than I am. .148
- I dislike physical/manual labor of any kind. -.148
- I believe in being accountable. .148
- I cannot improve without changing who I am. -.148
- I have a formula for my happiness. .147
- I prefer not to show my work or discuss it with others until it is finished. -.147
- I enjoy lying, duping others. -.147
- I find adventure seeking rewarding. .147
- I am often skeptical, critical, and evaluative. -.147
- I had an ideal childhood. .147
- When I want something, I'll sometimes go out on a limb to get it. .147
- sensual .147
- I am faithful to friends. .146
- I have almost no sex drive. -.146
- How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. .146
- Social justice is very important to me. .146
- My actions are predominately motivated by how they'll cause others to view me. -.146
- The world should be as I want it to be, but I can still be happy if/when it isn't. .146 (women)
- I think I deserve a better life than others. -.145
- I am capable of telling elaborate lies. -.145
- I readily communicate personally to all members of a group to feel unity. .145
- extravagant ooooo minimalist -.144
- I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale with only one or two close friends or family members. -.144
- I am/was very close to my father. .144 (men)
- It bothers me when a movie I don't like is highly regarded. -.144
- I am the product of circumstance. -.144
- professorial .143
- I attack others. -.143
- I find not having to be in control rewarding. -.143
- I am very serious. -.143
- I am not good at working with a group.- .142
- I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me. .142
- I have vigorous health. .142
- I view obligation as a position of weakness and vulnerability to other's control. -.142
- I am always busy. .142
- I'm always conflicted between being authentic and being polite. -.142
- I tend to alternately push people away and pull them back. -.142
- I can be insensitive to the feelings of others. -.142
- I keep myself well-groomed. .141
- I do things that others find strange. -.141
- I'm not a big risk taker. -.141
- It's hard for me to find the time to do things such as get a haircut. -.140
- I'm a free spirit. .140
- I spend lots of my free time playing video games. -.140
- It is hard for me to make a decision if I don't know how others feel about it. -.140
- When I am depressed, I desire less social interaction. -.140
- It's always been easy for me to determine who I like romantically the most. .140
- I am very considerate of my own feelings but not so considerate of other people's feelings. -.139
- Finding out my thinking about something important is wrong unsettles me. -.139
- When something is right, you just know. .139
- I leave a mess in my room. -.138
- I don't think anyone is awesome. -.138
- I am concerned about my social attractiveness. -.138
- I am sure of my ground. .138
- I don't make excuses when I screw up. .138
- In romantic relationships, it's normal for the girl to like the guy more. -.138 (women)
- I am the life of the party. .137
- I want to leave a mark, do something that will have a real impact in the world. .137
- It's easy for me to determine who I like the most romantically. .137
- I don't value happiness. -.137
- I can be demanding in a romantic relationship. -.137
- When good things happen to me, it affects me strongly. .136
- I like change.- -.136
- When I determine someone I'm romantically involved with isn't the type of person I want to be with, I try to change them. .136
- I like to imagine I have a better life than I do. -.136
- The people I like the most, make me smile the most. .136
- Sex is a little overrated.- .136
- I have difficulty enduring even a mild degree of conflict with those close to me. -.136
- I have trouble saying yes to people. -.135
- As long as I still want something, I keep trying different things until I succeed. .135
- I don't stay in a relationship if it makes me unhappy. .135
- Raising children is essential to my happiness. .135
- I'm too lost in my own world to actually care what other people might be thinking/feeling about me. .135
- I would prefer to achieve eternal fame and die at 40 to living an ordinary life till 100. -.134
- What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. .134
- respect customs ooooo discard customs -.133
- I like to collect things. -.133
- I know how to be happy. .133
- My religious faith is important to me. .133
- I can't allow myself to need anyone. -.133
- I can't make it on my own. -.133
- If I get too close to someone romantically, I fear I'll have to relinquish too much of me. -.133
- I am able to manipulate others. .132
- I need to be needed. -.132
- I don't need to be any better than I am.
- When I determine someone I'm romantically involved with isn't the type of person I want to be with, I move on. .132
- I seldom joke around. -.131
- I don't like people to pry into my life for any reason. -.133
- I am willing to take risks to establish a relationship. .132
- I am loyal to the tradition/values I was raised with. .132
- I require novelty and change. .132
- I am correct. .132
- I need a varied life. .131
- If I'm not the best at something, I'm not interested in it. -.131
- I find controlling others rewarding. -.131
- I'm the type that needs to burn my hand on a hot stove to learn to stop putting my hand on a hot stove. -.131
- I question my ability to do my work properly. -.131
- It is difficult for me to detach and be objective. -.131
- I am good at resisting temptation. .131
- selfish ooooo selfless .130
- I almost never get sick. .130
- I have never been in love. -.130
- My friends are very similar to me. .130