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MOTIV Personality Trait Descriptions

MaterialisticOffbeatThinkingInterpersonal | Vital | Easygoing | Sectarian
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Materialistic (External Narcissism)

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The following items all had a statistically significant factor loadings (similar to correlations) on the Marketing drive:

**If you see only one number it means that item only had a significant loading on the Marketing drive (>.130, sample size >=600), otherwise the factor loading numbers are listed in the MOTIV order (Marketing, Offbeat, Thinking, Interpersonal, Vital)


Social status matters. .733
I have a need to appear better than others. .731
Being attractive is a major part of my identity. .726
I am defined by a need to be attractive. .714 .022 -.043 .037 -.089
I find popularity rewarding. .708
I find appearing better than others rewarding. .704
I am overly concerned with my attractiveness. .694 .030 -.065 .059 -.226
I like to be superior. .691 .140 .188 -.130 -.032
Image is everything. .685 .037 .096 .020 .002
It is vital that people I think are attractive think I am attractive. .678
I focus entirely on being more attractive/perfect than others. .670
I am defined by a need to be liked. .663 -.066 -.082 .215 -.194
I put a lot of effort into how I look. .655 -.042 -.158 .032 .156
It is important to me to preserve my public image. .651 -.009 .074 .165 .095
I am defined by a need to be impressive. .648 .121 .085 .036 -.079
It is very important that I have good looking children. .643
It is important that people think I'm awesome. .641
I find being attractive (to others) rewarding. .636
I dislike people who get more attention than me. .635 .096 .060 -.018 -.148
Even when it makes me miserable, I am compelled to care about social status. .634 -.035 .090 .094 -.147
I am concerned about my image. .634 -.090 -.055 .090 -.149
Fashion is important. .628
The more attention you get the better you are. .627 -.037 -.003 .023 -.025
Being attractive is more important to me than being intellectual. .625 -.102 -.186 -.020 -.049
I put a lot of effort into how I dress. .623 -.034 -.162 .029 .091 (men)
I have a strong need for power. .615 .242 .134 -.104 .050
I am obsessed with rich/wealthy culture. .614 .076 .033 -.144 -.024
Not getting attention bothers me. .614
I find getting attention rewarding. .612 .145 -.063 .117 .068
Beauty/Power is my oxygen. .610
I have a strong need to feel important and special. .602 -.041 -.011 .228 -.121
I am motivated by the pursuit of attention. .601 .149 -.065 .022 -.092
It is important to be attractive in some way to others. .600
I dislike people I can't control. .595 .030 .095 -.196 -.139
I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. .597 -.044 -.047 .059 -.340
It is important that others think I am better than I actually am. .594 -.012 .050 .018 -.146
I like to manage others. .593
what i like ooooo being liked .592
It bothers me if I go a whole day without being the center of attention. .586
I put a lot of effort into how I dress. .586 .002 -.029 .093 .192 (women)
I want to stand out. .585 .264 -.077 .133 .056
My need to be attractive has drawn me to subcultures/groups where I get more attention. .584 .078 -.060 .057 -.109
External success tends to go to my head. .580
Money can buy happiness. .578 .022 .072 -.157 -.141
I care more about money than ideas. .576 -.157 .006 -.148 -.061
Attractiveness in a romantic partner is more important to me than how intellectual they are. .575 -.035 -.065 -.112 .006
I expect preferential treatment from others. .574
I will never be satisfied until I get all that I deserve. .574 .119 .143 -.153 -.067
No matter how much attention I get, it's never enough. .572 .213 -.119 .060 -.230
It's all about how much money you have. .571
Appearance to me, doesn't really strike me as a priority. -.569 .061 .164 -.038 .021
I find being better than others (superior) rewarding. .568 .147 .182 -.160 -.086
My need for high status exceeds my intellectual curiousity. .564 -.171 .122 .018 -.004
I like to have power over others. .566 .242 .116 -.091 .014
I want to do well in the public score board of life. .565
It's not my life goal to be at the top of any ladders. -.564
I find controlling others rewarding. .559 .036 .135 .137 -.155
I prefer romantic partners that enhance my image. .554
I believe that I am better than others. .551 .179 .084 -.181 -.028
When I like someone I'm prone to making myself appear as impressive/attractive as possible. .550
You can never be too attractive/popular. .547
I have no need for power over others. -.546 .034 -.020 .152 .123
I care more about the looks of a romantic partner than how nice they are to me. .544 .071 .041 -.120 -.059
I like to know some important people because it makes me feel important. .539
superficial .542 .002 .127 -.159 -.304
Style is more important than practicality .542 .032 -.153 .006 .035
How valuable the world thinks I am matters. .540 -.022 .078 .131 -.069
I gravitate towards people I think have the most prestige. .539 .005 .195 -.004 .080
I expect immediate gratification. .537 .079 -.055 -.062 -.226
My self esteem is based on how attractive I am to others. .536 .069 -.093 .152 -.312
Money is important to me. .535 -.115 .193 -.237 .045
I find being in control rewarding. .534 .105 .178 .039 .090
I prefer a basic/simple/spartan living space to a high-end/luxury one. -.533 .082 .108 .154 .004
I want to be perfect. .533 .057 .146 .134 .-.179
External indicators of success such as power or recognition seem shallow to me. -.530 .183 .037 .108 .070
Desirability is the most important thing in life. .530 .044 .029 .107 -.021
I try to maximize pleasure. .529 .296 -.030 .140 .128
I seem to care less than my peers about wealth, fame, and status. -.528 .145 .056 .111 -.144
I value beauty the most. .527 .000 -.111 -.139 -.080
Belonging to a group and getting it's approval is very important to me. .526 -.227 .002 .246 -.146
I tend to have an internal dislike/disdain for people that are more attractive than me. .526 .021 -.083 .004 -.343
I seek out positions of leadership. .524 .243 .059 .069 .308
privacy ooooo attention .522 .094 -.079 -.120 -.220
Physical attractiveness is more important than competence. .522 -.023 -.019 -.089 -.086
It is important that I impress my superiors. .520 -.088 .096 .225 .006
I expect other people to entertain me. .517
Being likeable is very important. .516 -.096 -.003 .388 .038
I tend to act out when I am being ignored. .516 .228 -.123 .118 -.252
I choose romantic partners I can control. .514
I do not like to appear better than others. -.513 .035 -.024 .169 -.099
I want a romantic partner who will serve me. .511
Public opinion can mean a lot. .505 -.122 .050 .296 -.156
What people think about you matters. .497 -.161 -.012 .257 -.166
My actions are predominately motivated by how they'll cause others to view me. .495 -.138 .055 .317 -.276
My need to be appreciated exceeds my capacity to appreciate others. .493 -.026 .031 -.130 -.246
I want to amount to something in the eyes of the world. .492 .093 .037 .173 -.062
My image is more important than the truth. .492 .027 -.033 -.064 -.196
I don't like to feel left out. .491 .054 -.150 .177 -.085
I like people I can control. .491 .082 .128 -.265 -.175
To pace about, looking to obtain status, looking to attain 'importance', I can think of nothing more ridiculous. -.488 .157 .073 .165 .011
I should have a better life than others. .488 .128 .101 -.225 .001
I seek out pleasure. .487 .294 -.060 .158 .094
I have exhibitionistic tendencies (i.e. showing off). .487
Being ignored is intolerable. .486 .111 -.047 .090 -.198
It bothers me if people don't like me. .483 -.174 -.089 .273 -.230
Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac. .481 .045 .095 -.150 -.024
My gratification comes from external praise, not from an inner sense of accomplishment. .481 -.077 -.088 .093 -.217
I like to show off my body. .480 .084 -.115 -.057 .183
I like to look at myself in the mirror. .480 .124 -.053 -.059 .165
I have to have control of most situations. .480
I get upset when things don't go my way. .479 .070 .003 .046 -.261
I am aggressive romantically. .479 .174 -.083 -.014 .077
I focus more on being liked (being attractive) than what I like (what I find attractive). .479 -.093 -.049 .119 -.194
I get upset when people don't notice how I look when I go out in public. .478 -.016 -.160 .098 -.047
I focus entirely on getting attention. .475
I can be needy in a romantic relationship. .475 -.029 -.186 .263 -.210
Things that make me unattractive to others should be changed. .472 -.071 .021 .131 -.303
You can never have too much money. .470
It would be hurtful to be percieved as ugly. .469
I expect things to look a certain way. .469
I want my children to be seen as remarkable by others. .469 .095 .068 .180 .107
It is important to remain physically attractive to your significant other. .468
I am possessive. .465 .173 .074 .071 -.147
I would prefer to achieve eternal fame and die at 40 to living an ordinary life till 100. .463 .119 .010 -.139 -.190
A healthy romantic relationship for me involves more interest by the other party. .461
A healthy romantic relationship for me involves more effort by the other party. .461 .049 .059 -.047 -.152
Being the best at something is very important to me. .461 .110 .217 .032 .129
autonomy ooooo social power .460 -.126 -.076 -.200 .100
I cultivate a certain image. .459 .190 .089 -.044 .019
It is important to be wanted. .458 .005 .006 .335 -.098
Looks are more important than personality. .456 -.092 .005 -.152 -.090
I do not enjoy being around people that are more attractive than me. .456 .006 -.076 -.024 -.266
Beauty is more important than capacity to have an interesting conversation. .453 -.128 .011 -.072 -.036
It is very important that I am liked and I will bend the truth if I have to to ensure that. .453 -.120 .025 .018 -.208
attractive to me ooooo attractive to others .452
introspective ooooo power seeking .451 -.120 .032 -.277 .390
My worst fear is to be overlooked. .450 .051 -.023 .269 -.300
I need a significant other who entertains me. .450 .014 .033 .158 -.072
internal perfection ooooo external perfection .450 -.092 -.059 -.207 .060
I like to start new fads and fashions. .445 .190 -.190 .131 .133
aggressive .445 .105 -.060 -.213 .070
All my life I've wanted to do something big, bigger and better than the rest. .445 .244 -.018 -.014 .005
When I want attention from someone I find a way to get it. .444 .200 -.159 -.057 .031
I strive for perfection to please the world. .443 -.028 .131 .431 -.142
I would not be happy if I was poor. .443 -.115 .163 -.245 -.184
pleasure seeking .442 .216 -.093 .176 -.018
It is better to be hit on than be ignored/unnoticed/invisible. .442 .037 -.006 .058 -.016
I like to imagine I have a better life than I do. .442 .148 .009 .022 -.145
I am dominant romantically. .441 .220 -.021 -.039 .119
I find it easy to manipulate others. .437 .404 .009 -.158 -.118
I become obsessed with manipulating how others feel about me. .437 .082 .045 .060 -.294
There is a formula for success, unsuccessful people just don't understand/believe that. .433 .085 .113 -.113 .166
I run my life in a way where I always get what I want. .433 .111 .089 -.198 .032
The world should be as I want it to be. .432 .083 .087 -.135 -.021
It's very important to me to be normal. .432 -.300 .211 .227 -.105
I like to be in control of others. .431 .123 .132 -.052 -.052
My ideal relationship is one where the other party puts in more effort. .430 .083 -.078 -.055 -.173
I prefer to not have physically unattractive friends. .430
I don't care about dressing nicely. -.429 .078 .019 -.046 -.151
Physical beauty is truth. .428 -.069 .095 -.060 -.162
I enjoy lying, duping others. .428 .061 .046 -.215 -.213
I find controlling others rewarding. .428 .179 .121 -.202 -.157
I am obsessed with perfection. .427 .121 .165 .049 -.098
I have a friendly persona but my actions/goals are purely about what benefits me. .427 .105 .160 -.368 .070
I am highly ambitious. .426 .304 .021 .089 .390
I strive for perfection to please myself. .425 .159 .209 -.016 .108
I dislike ugly things. .425
I recognize other people only as means to obtain what I desire. .425 .164 .093 -.248 .050
I would not be happy if I had less money. .424 .041 .141 -.219 -.145
I am assertive romantically. .423 .128 -.050 .075 .253
I get off on people being really into me. .422
I have contempt for people that are inferior to me. .421 -.003 .178 -.117 -.135
Being in control is the most important thing in a romantic relationship. .421
I control others. .420
It's normal to need someone to be happy. .420 -.097 .035 .260 -.029
I am determined to have my own way. .420 .391 .051 -.195 -.034
I find being in control rewarding. .420 .139 .189 -.088 .040
I never worry about my looks. -.420 .220 .078 -.088 .272
Happiness is found externally. .420 -.168 -.098 -.051 -.075
I do things that impress me. .419 .304 .121 .031 .207
I have kept people on the hook who I had no interest in romantically because I enjoyed the attention. .418
I feel hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me. .418 .065 .062 .242 -.265
I am the center of my universe. .417 .128 .076 -.365 -.071
I collect people. .417 .253 -.063 .030 -.030
I like to work behind the scenes without credit. -.416 .063 .164 .229 -.074
I am preoccupied with myself. .414 .009 .077 -.191 -.231
I'm a snob. .414 .057 .050 -.203 -.125
I don't like being in the spotlight so getting recognition isn't a big priority. -.414 -.062 .118 .028 -.157
It's all about who you know. .413
I strive for perfection to please others. .412 -.113 .055 .507 -.175
I can make anybody believe anything I want them to. .411 .410 0 0 0
I am self-centered. .411 .107 .048 -.223 -.149
I am vain. .411 .080 .009 -.100 -.208
I would be uncomfortable living in a multi-million dollar house/apartment. -.410 .067 .057 .162 .079
I very much want to be loved. .409 -.050 -.002 .453 -.101
I don't want to be unattractive to others. .407 .037 -.023 .173 -.128
Changing the external is more important than changing the internal. .407 .021 .042 -.128 -.152
I've always had a sense of what my preferred romantic partner would be like. .406
I feel perfectly justified in getting my way, all the time. .406 .161 -.116 -.249 .065
I tend to focus on gratifying my immediate needs. .406
true inner self 00000 false outer self .404 .000 .085 -.097 -.390
I require regular external positive feedback in a relationship. .404 .046 -.017 .281 -.114
I get upset when people don't notice how I look when I go out in public. .404 -.052 -.090 -.051 -.143
I don't measure my success by public opinion. -.401 .308 .070 -.048 .188
I don't feel bad about being bad. .401 .006 .107 -.394 -.039 (men) .116 .275 .088 -.386 -.126 (women)
I don't like missing out on an event that people I care about are enjoying. .397 -.067 -.134 .315 .021
I believe that we should be tough on crime. .397 -.030 .096 .204 .184
I like to be masculine. .397 .027 .047 .054 .161 (men)
To be honest, how much I like someone depends a lot on how useful that person is to me. .397 .075 .249 -.196 -.126
I get upset if my significant other does not compliment me a lot. .397 .051 -.062 .125 -.169
If there were not enough spots left on the safety boat of sinking ship in ice cold waters, I'd do everything I could to get one of those spots. .397 -.047 .120 -.217 .069 (female)
I can be needy in a romantic relationship. .393 .008 -.115 .161 -.255
There is nothing I wouldn't resort to, to achieve something I want. .393 .224 -.055 -.307 -.032
I tend to vote for conservative political candidates (or would if I could vote). .392 -.147 -.158 .225 .051
I tend to be prone to intrusiveness. .391 .178 -.034 -.112 -.193
The more hierarchical society is, the better. .391 -.131 .293 .025 .043
ego ooooo egoless -.390 -.119 .040 .301 -.197
People with higher social status should be treated better. .390
I identify with powerful / dominating types. .390 .359 .074 -.026 .182
Colleagues are competitors. .388 .039 .202 -.147 -.125
I only want to be friends with people who admire me. .388
My worst fear is to be forgotten. .388 .097 -.072 .246 -.302
National security (i.e. protection from anything that would hurt my country) is very important to me. .387 -.158 .081 .393 .083
I find not having to be in control rewarding. -.385 .030 -.071 .021 -.222
I care about being sexually attractive to others. .385 .121 .049 -.005 -.139
I can talk others into doing things. .384 .385 -.012 .003 .071
Wealth is more important than health. .384 -.068 .017 -.189 -.159
People that meet my needs are good and those that don't are bad. .383 .067 .119 -.185 -.119
I frequently make changes to my life to maximize my happiness. .382 .157 .055 .130 .439
If getting a face tattoo ensured high status for me, I'd probably get one. .381
I don't care if people think I'm awesome. -.381 .185 .153 -.081 .119
I am dependent and demanding. .380 -.057 -.021 -.002 -.206
I expect more from a romantic partner than I'm willing to give. .380 .003 .080 -.157 -.154
*I don't care about getting attention. -.308 .189 .256 .026 -.044
It is important that I am taken care of by others. .378
Money isn't as important as people think it is. -.377 .190 -.098 .323 .001
I think you can do things to get someone to love you (who might not otherwise, had you not done those things). .377
I am more likely to help someone who shares my values than someone who doesn't. .376 .065 .161 -.236 -.181
I am special and chosen. .375 .150 -.109 .074 .295
I have animosity towards people that don't adhere to my culture. .375 .050 .129 -.109 -.158
Wealthier people should be treated better. .375
I should never have to look at ugly things. .375 .026 .056 -.137 -.046
Physical sensation is very important to me. .375 .173 .005 .117 .055
Understanding the social landscape is very important. .375 .112 .110 .285 .100
I am very impressive. .374 .379 .093 .029 .317
I have sometimes 'stood-up' a date or a friend because something that sounded like more fun came up. .374 .190 -.021 -.100 -.038
Internal beauty is more important than external beauty. -.374 .164 .075 .229 .073
I like to show off. .372 .227 -.009 -.041 -.007
I usually enjoy seeing someone I donít like get into trouble. .371 .104 .110 -.135 -.207
I like to brag. .370 .109 -.006 -.229 -.153
Enjoying being alive is more important than being attractive. -.369 .127 .023 .124 .210
I will cheat in order to win. .367 .160 -.052 -.188 -.272
I want to find someone I love. .366 .003 -.064 .310 -.090
How attractive a partner is is more important than how much they like me. .366 .020 .050 -.077 -.072
I would rather date someone that made me more attractive to others over someone that made me less, even if I was more attracted to the latter. .366
If I'm not moving forward, I feel like I'm going to explode. .366
Being able to manipulate people is very important. .365 .326 .173 -.295 -.185
Chain of command is very important. .365 -.167 .410 .194 .120
I prefer my romantic partner to initiate hooking up. .364 .006 -.035 .157 -.126 (women)
I make decisions historically on what I think is / will be the most fun. .364
I like to stand during the national anthem. .363 -.124 .015 .493 .165
what's popular ooooo what i like -.363 .157 -.008 .022 -.044
I need to be needed. ?.263 -.062 -.028 .331 -.310
If I fix all my (imagined) external flaws, I can feel happy and lovable. .362 -.118 -.050 .112 -.309
My desires exceed my consideration. .362 .144 .048 -.121 -.234
Whats the use of being better than others if you cant profit from it. .361
If there were not enough spots left on the safety boat of sinking ship in ice cold waters, I'd do everything I could to get one of those spots. .361 .155 -.017 -.231 .049 (men)
It is a disgrace to appear to be wrong. .360 -.025 .062 -.040 -.206
I don't like to admit being wrong.- (Integrity) -.360 -.117 .034 .008 .192
I don't want to stand out. -.360 -.258 .225 -.026 -.090
With one smile, I can often make someone Iíve just met interested in getting to know me better. .265 .240 -.023 .207 .360
I ridicule others. .360 .022 .037 -.175 -.293
I like things I can control. .359 .043 .246 -.106 -.047
outgoing ooooo reserved .359 -.050 .122 -.069 -.577
The best rewards are external. .358 .004 .186 -.051 -.123
If I want something, I am ruthless in my attempts to get it. .357 .315 .104 -.223 .008
Romantically, I focus more on how much someone likes me than how much I like them. .356 .037 .020 .017 -.172
I like feeling a heightened sense of pleasure. .353 .321 .063 .072 .027
I tell stories in such a way that maximizes my listeners interest/attention (even if I have to bend the truth). .353 .269 -.022 .079 .017
I'm used to getting what I want. .352
I find being appreciated rewarding. .352 .023 -.018 .283 -.009
I tend to think of the world in terms of how it relates to myself. .350
I have a superiority complex. .349 .210 .072 -.288 -.060
It bothers me if people don't like me. .348 -.064 -.120 .392 -.259
Pleasure (the gratification of my desires) is very important to me. .348 .335 .198 -.128 .066
My worst fear is to be forgotten or overlooked. .347 .029 -.047 .118 -.320
The most important thing in a romantic partner is the sexual connection. .347
I should not have to tolerate unpleasantness ever. .347 .074 .115 -.184 -.093
I am arrogant. .346 .172 .015 -.294 -.191
How much a romantic partner likes me is more important to me than how much I like them. .346 .035 .070 .101 -.165
I want to make my family proud. .346 -.137 .094 .410 .149
I overrate myself to others. .345 .116 .116 -.088 -.170
I focus more on how much a romantic partner likes me than how much I like them. .345 .044 .063 .175 -.255
I am unhappy if I don't have the upper hand in Romantic relationships. .344
I sometimes grovel to win people back. .344 .005 -.017 .230 -.238
open ooooo private .344 -.132 .183 -.036 -.429
If I had a lot of money, I would still live a minimalist lifestyle. -.344 .164 .052 .224 -.022
More attractive people should be treated better. .344
It does not bother me that I am not better looking. -.344 .180 .171 .002 .416 (all) -0.372 0.191 0.181 0.073 0.446 (women) -0.297 0.157 0.078 0.050 0.339 (men)
I am usually quite confident when learning a new game or sport. .343 .082 .060 .095 .344
Professional credentials are the best way to judge the skill of a person. .343 -.163 .290 .061 .013
I enjoy seeing people I don't like suffer. .342 .105 .090 -.249 -.295
Mental illness is a sign of weakness. .341 -.084 .143 -.054 -.080
I'm always looking for the best situation for myself regardless of whether it's good for anyone else. .341 .101 .043 -.370 -.124
If a romantic interest isn't interested in hooking up, I can usually get them to change their mind. .340 .168 .051 -.002 .188
I know whether I'm physically attracted to someone within seconds. .340 .196 .008 .093 .065
Life is a game. .338 .244 -.029 -.029 -.137
I value a partner's visual attractiveness more than instinctual unexplainable physical attraction.
I like clear goals and clear ways of measuring success. .338 -.063 .440 .059 .141
How much I am loved is more important than how much I love others. .338 .007 .072 -.187 -.090
I use others to get what I want. .337 .278 .073 -.216 -.192
The ends justify the means. .337 .065 .237 -.029 -.008
In romantic relationships, my happiness is more important than my partners. .337 .005 .089 -.339 -.044
I am very skilled at seduction. .336 .237 -.057 .053 .218
I am not helpful generally, but when I'm in a relationship I tend to be the more helpful one. .336
Internal beauty and external beauty are equally important. .335
I am extremely ambitious. .335 .281 .117 .048 .286
I want to be remembered when I die. .335 .096 -.001 .223 .148
I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me. .335 .006 -.169 -.011 -.269
I have trouble functioning when a romantic relationship I'm in is not going well. .334 .035 -.159 .254 -.308
I always know how to act. .333 .137 .162 .105 .306
I don't take no for an answer. .333 .265 -.041 -.045 .224
I put myself first even with those close to me. .333 .052 .110 -.522 .088
I convince people to do things my way. .332 .251 .135 -.165 .075
I am well groomed. .330 .018 .107 .237 .300
Deep down I'm a selfish person but I choose not to live that way. .330 .084 .004 -.091 -.267
Sex is the most important thing in a romantic relationship. .330 .179 .079 -.124 .018
If everyone one I care about dislikes a certain person it's hard for me not to side with them. .330 -.114 .031 .078 -.095
I have a nice/accommodating personality and a mean/controlling personality. .328
Being disliked by others causes me anxiety. .328 -.115 -.015 .229 -.437
Being honest limits your opportunities in a bad way. .328 .135 .128 -.135 -.227
I rely on assurances from others. .328 -.091 -.200 .307 -.282
If I'm not the best at something, I'm not interested in it. .328 .087 .083 -.041 -.198
If someone I like seems disinterested I pretend to be disinterested. .327 .028 .050 .064 -.191
I only care about myself. .325 .064 .146 -.433 -.186
I have animosity towards people that don't respect my culture. .325 .091 .106 -.060 -.182
In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different. .325 .335 .136 .036 .019
Physical immortality, never aging/deteriorating physically, appeals to me. .325 .142 .082 -.118 -.121
In romantic relationships, I tend to make more of the big/important decisions. .324 .141 .184 .067 .094
***I attempt to make my inner self more like the outer world. .323
I have tried to talk someone out of breaking up with me. .323
I like to avoid attention. -.322 -.048 .197 .032 -.334
when I do make a conclusion it is hard to change my mind and I tend to hang on for dear life. .322 .068 -.008 -.017 -.190
If it feels better to do A than B, I will do A everytime. .321
I am impulsive. .321 .407 -.269 .136 -.002
My need to be loved may exceed my capacity to love. .320 -.033 -.013 -.040 -.311
Truth is defined by the group(s) I am a member of. .320 -.156 -.002 .130 .049
A lot of people want to have sex with me. .319 .186 -.244 .045 .394
I fear getting some incurable sickness. .319
Privacy is more valuable than fame. -.318 .151 .225 .125 .006
There is nothing wrong with taking advantage of people. .318 .147 .093 -.436 -.151
If I was to design my own house, I would design it to resemble others houses that I really liked (which I had seen in person or in pictures). .317 -.085 -.009 .191 -.104
I have a history of very close friendships. .317 .193 -.230 .166 .168
When I want something, I'll sometimes go out on a limb to get it. .317 .389 .000 .110 .135
If I have a flaw, it might be that I am overly confident. .316 .155 .157 -.051 .169
I like having my life carefully planned out. .316 -.148 .324 .179 .051
I pretend to be normal, that there is nothing wrong with me, that I'm not as different as I know I am. .316 .115 .082 .172 -.415
I avoid thinking about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me. .316 .082 -.120 .149 -.523
I want to impress my parents. .315 -.096 .074 .342 .055
deceptive .314 .223 .069 -.372 -.091
I feel empty when I'm romantically single. .313 .039 .005 .185 -.279
I fear being judged by others. .313 -.190 -.028 .193 -.451
I have trouble functioning after a break up. .312 .023 -.197 .359 -.301
I will do almost anything to avoid feeling low, powerless, down. .311
I only compete with myself. -.311 .100 .162 -.028 -.075
My behavioral tendencies have been largely shaped by my environment. .311 .051 .095 .196 -.147
I usually fear for the worst.- (big 5 emotional stability) -.310 .055 -.030 -.152 .484
non-superficial ooooo superficial .310 -.120 -.062 -.302 -.040
I get off on being really into someone. .310 .182 -.021 .245 -.094
sarcastic .309 .323 -.142 -.095 -.080
I am my biggest fan. .309 .275 .094 -.148 .310
I don't like admitting I'm wrong to others. .309 .126 -.026 -.255 -.265
I enjoy insulting people. .309 .157 .088 -.412 -.275
I will twist the truth and distort reality in order to achieve my goals. .309 .272 -.001 -.187 -.228
My romantic relationships tend to involve power struggles. .308 .089 .025 -.148 -.170
I don't like to be criticized. .308 .034 -.072 .085 -.177
I enjoy confrontation. .308 (men) .167 (women)
I don't care what people think of me. -.308 .345 .089 -.134 .190
I like dominant romantic partners. women .308 .214 .009 .169 -.045 men .142 .168 .151 .124 -.117
When I determine someone I'm romantically involved with isn't the type of person I want to be with, I try to change them. .307
Power for its own sake doesn't interest me.-.307 .076 -.062 .230 -.072
My feelings come first. .306 .213 -.201 .015 -.042
I criticize myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should. .305 .100 .080 .261 -.375
I want to be a part of something. .305 .044 -.077 .433 .029
Other people feeling pain is more desirable than me feeling pain. .305 .006 .183 -.369 -.199
The truth is more important than my image. -.304 .242 .148 .137 .202
I'm happy to occupy whatever position in society I best fit into regardless of whether it's prestigious. -.304 .064 -.038 .288 .122
I am hot-headed (overtly or covertly). .303 .160 .005 -.098 -.128
dependent .303 -.101 -.254 .055 -.398
I focus entirely on getting my own way, helping myself. .302 .308 .139 -.240 -.087
I want to be the healthiest person who ever lived. .302 .077 .194 .139 .107
A meaningful career is more important than a meaningful relationship. .302 .114 .217 -.149 -.057
I attack others. .301 .118 -.041 -.151 -.223
I know in my heart that I am a bully. .301 .149 .030 -.215 -.301
Early in a relationship, I can quickly discern what's important to someone I like, and become that. .301 .147 .001 .229 -.074
The person who likes least, cares least, in a relationship has the most power. .300 .048 .034 -.089 -.133
I can usually talk my way out of anything. .300 .484 -.051 .095 .072
I have a lot of pride. .300 .201 .134 -.090 .242
Power over a man's salary is a power over his will. .300 .009 .175 -.125 -.021
I am manipulative. .299 .247 .050 -.174 -.249
I have a short fuse. .299 .329 -.204 -.056 -.370
I want to be in romantic relationship with someone that I think is awesome. .299 .192 -.055 .352 .012
outgoing ooooo reserved -.299 -.083 -.119
A guy should carry a relationship more than a girl. .298 -.016 .029 .104 .034
I get my energy from other people .298 -.026 -.110 .382 -.127
truth is internal 00000 truth is external .297
For a really good purse $500 is not too much. .297
I tend to date very attractive people. .296 .162 .076 .000 .294
If you care about anything, you can't be totally honest. .296 .101 .116 -.120 -.192
I dislike people who chase wealth and status. -.296 .172 .005 .226 -.125
I like submissive romantic partners. .296 .053 .211 .088 -.030
When I am depressed, I desire more attention. .295
honest -.295 -.045 .133 .432 .103
How good a job/career makes me feel is more important than how much it makes sense. .295 .047 -.051 .138 .012
I get my energy from outside ideas. .295 .175 .036 .200 .095
I get what I want. .295 .230 .107 -.031 .423
I would rather hang out with people that look like me than think like me. .295 -.128 .007 .020 -.017
being honest ooooo being right .295 .188 .016 -.330 -.033
Even in a romantic relationship, I'm more into myself. .295 -.020 .165 -.239 -.173
I prefer to date people who I feel are superior to me. .295 women
I have a bad temper. .294 .319 -.235 -.060 -.401
I have to have someone to love. .294 .007 -.073 .321 -.063
I always want to know everything about my new friends and nothing of my old. .294 .075 -.012 .036 -.163
I believe that men should be masculine and women should be feminine. .294 -.208 .064 -.033 .114
I like to be feminine. women .292 -.032 -.068 .180 .221 men .096 .152 -.104 .163 -.256
I prefer to eat out every meal. .292 .084 .006 -.030 -.042
Everyone uses everyone, that is the norm. .292 .150 .166 -.172 -.238
I worry no one will understand the depths of my heart. .292 .306 .047 .326 -.366
I can get pretty much anyone to like me romantically. .291 .308 -.044 .163 .351
The best rewards are internal. -.291 .232 -.067 .193 .194
When I romantically like someone, I can't ignore my feelings. .291 .032 -.098 .177 -.068
I guide my life using religious scriptures. .290 -.077 -.218 .413 .173
I'm more physically attracted to myself than anyone else. .290
My moods carry me through life, they are my track/foundation. .290 .213 -.256 .171 -.226
If you show weakness, people will walk all over you. .289 .109 .276 -.075 -.158
I take more than I give. .288 -.015 .050 -.577 -.213
I am attracted to jerks. .288 .088 -.140 .021 -.240
I get upset easily.- (big 5 emotional stability) -.288 .052 .204 .044 .574
I crave intimacy. .288 .078 .012 .172 -.058
I am concerned about my physical security. .288 .019 .227 .196 -.134
I love Apple products. .287
Even the prospect of something better romantically, can eclipse past romantic interests. .286
I like to antagonize others. .286 .271 .042 -.096 -.160
I prefer rude, but exciting people to nice, but boring people. .285 .348 .032 -.199 -.019
I don't like admitting I'm wrong to myself .285 .097 -.058 -.157 -.255
When I am depressed, I desire less social interaction. -.285
A romantic partner is more important than friends. .285 .064 .075 .024 -.037
Some people have told me that I make too many excuses for myself. .285 .139 -.058 .022 -.338
calm ooooo worrying (big 5 emotional stability) .284 -.058 .045 .089 -.485
I value male attention more than female attention. .284 .185 -.061 .063 -.081 (women)
I am an aesthetics Nazi. .284 .164 .181 -.051 -.001
I'm more aware of what others think than what I think. .284 -.083 .005 .337 -.287
Men acquire a particular quality by constantly acting a particular way .284 .075 .155 .001 -.045
I don't like to be alone. .283 -.105 -.094 .255 .098
I fear losing what I have. .283 .058 -.020 .143 -.315
Because I consider it important I establish and build relationships with other people. .283 .066 -.094 .415 .324
I fear being inconsequential in life. .283 .022 .060 .122 -.374
I would be more motivated if the world was more attractive. .282 .124 .095 -.077 -.372
harsh .281 .187 .106 -.402 -.147
The purpose of life is excellence. .281 .124 .372 .032 .102
I tell many 'white lies.' .281 .238 -.063 -.102 -.344
The more efficient your body, the better you feel and the more you will use your talent to produce outstanding results. .282 .136 .178 .129 .195
I am too proud to admit my weaknesses. .281 .108 .060 0 -.127
If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's the other person's fault. .280 .038 .014 -.230 .010
My ego is bigger than my heart. .279 .049 .117 -.404 -.066
I like myself more than I like anyone else. .278 .132 .158 -.196 .276
I would not enjoy having zero contact whatsoever with anyone for a week. .278 .013 -.106 .151 .131
When I want something that belongs to someone else, it is as good as mine. .277
I would hate to be ordinary. .277 .419 -.035 .075 -.042
I feel I must control every thought and every action perfectly. .277 .061 .358 .083 -.297
I need to be in control of my life. .277 .113 .271 .043 .005
I prefer sexually submissive romantic partners. .276 (men)
I prefer a romantic partner that is more accommodating than me. .275
I would never want to do blue collar work. .275 .108 .004 -.144 -.063
Eye contact equals interest. .275 .122 .038 .152 .120
I can be demanding in a romantic relationship. .274 .120 -.002 -.042 -.351
I am impatient. .274 .242 -.230 -.055 -.210
There are more important things in life than personal success. -.274 .137 .008 .294 .010
I like aggressive romantic partners. .273 .209 .002 .117 .014
I only need food, water, shelter; anything else its optional. -.273 .153 .167 .140 .017
My enjoyment admiring things exceeds my desire to be admired. -.272 .167 .191 .226 .035
I have little sympathy for the unemployed. .272
I like to flirt. .272 .153 -.151 .052 .365
Ignoring or pushing people away you don't like enough is important. .272 .216 .183 -.206 -.201
I say things without thinking. .272 .265 -.259 .000 -.098
I only care about being physically attractive to a romantic partner. .271 .046 .029 -.032 -.133
I enjoy conflict. .271 .257 .100 -.242 -.125
I have an intense need to live the best life I can. .271 .346 .062 .154 .311
If I like someone romantically, it's hard for me to get over it if they are not into me. .271 .098 -.049 .177 -.309
When I'm depressed I don't have much attention to give others. .270 0 0 0 -.312
I have shallow emotions. .270 -.052 .081 -.171 -.141
People ocassionally tell me that I'm attractive. .269 .126 -.181 .138 .448
I am more talented than average and thus have more responsibility to contribute to the world. .269 .269 .145 .098 .165
People are things to be used. .269 -.007 .181 -.388 -.273
I get annoyed when the stoplight turns green and the cars in front of me react too slowly. .269 .037 .190 -.024 -.133
My opposite sex parent is more interesting than any member of the opposite sex I've ever met. .269 .163 .095 .066 .060
My happiness is contigent on the quality of my relationships. .269 .008 -.027 -.037 .411
part of audience ooooo center of attention .268 .173 -.148 -.193 .499
Very unconventional people annoy me. .268 -.188 .217 -.040 -.095
Sometimes I enjoy hurting persons I love. .267 .058 -.037 -.192 -.332
I do so many things just to feel a thrill, to feel alive. .267 .473 -.073 .038 .006
I expect a great deal from other people. .266
I am the life of the party. .266 .201 -.107 .054 .372
I value female attention more than male attention. .266 (men)
I'm not sure I'm great but I want to be great. .266 .076 .076 .190 -.137
I am motivated by the desire to be in control of my life. .265 .350 .189 .015 .179
I don't like to apologize. .265 .001 -.040 -.260 -.167
I tend to focus on how disconnected/different I am from others. .265 .442 .081 .061 -.236
I don't think I'm particularly attractive but I prefer looking at my face in the mirror than looking at most other people's faces. .265 .068 .005 -.055 -.284
Others should be made to pay for their stupidity. .264 .166 .309 -.190 -.165
I prefer compliant romantic partners. .264 .040 .076 .142 -.056
I like people too much or not at all. .264 .230 .063 -.030 -.305
Intensity of feelings is the most important variable in choosing a romantic partner. .264 .193 -.054 .311 -.036
I know I could be happy if I could trade places with certain people. .263 -.080 .080 .114 -.485
It would be cool if I had a ton of money, but I would also enjoy life if I was poor. -.263 .237 -.154 .351 .122
I value males over females. .263 .019 .168 -.129 -.067 (men)
addictive tendencies .262 .217 -.116 -.004 -.255
When an event I want to go to sells out before I get a ticket I feel really bad. .262 .052 -.019 .120 -.148
I'd rather be more attractive (than I am) than have a more attractive romantic partner (than I could normally get). .262 -.074 -.030 .107 -.215
If I don't pick things up very quickly, I find them difficult to learn. .262 .026 .010 .070 -.334
When I see a person I like connecting with someone else, it bothers me. .261 .061 -.114 .070 -.313
All girls want the same thing in a relationship. .261
Security is more important than liberty. .261 -.202 .208 .099 -.062
I value internal rewards/validation more than external rewards/validation. -.261 .387 .196 .165 .083
I would not want to live in a city where people were obsessed with status / prestige. -.260 .116 .060 .175 -.026
I believe in equal opportunity for all. -.260 .145 .161 .335 .140
I frequently use emoticons in texts/sms/emails. .260 .048 .033 .216 .102
When it comes to a romantic partner strong feelings are more important than intellectual compatibility. .259 -.013 .125 .189 -.013
I avoid considering how I feel about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me. .258 .089 -.084 .109 -.557
I am obsessive. .258 .300 .060 .112 -.223
If someone I romantically like says they may not be interested in me enough to pursue things, I keep at it. .257 .147 -.039 .019 -.016 (men) women .150
I would be happy if I was more physically attractive/perfect. .257 .065 .010 .092 -.466
I can be clingy in a romantic relationship. .257 -.034 -.070 .074 -.416
I would make a good scam artist. .257 .399 .022 -.116 -.149
I have visions of the future. .257 .099 .011 .070 .377
I require the security in a romantic relationship of knowing the other person would never leave me. .257 -.010 .104 .339 -.197
If someone I romantically like says they may not be interested in me enough to pursue things, I keep at it. .257 .147 -.039 .019 -.016 (men) women .150
I am politically conservative. .256
My opposite sex parent is more intelligent than any member of the opposite sex I've ever met. .256
I have constructed an image of self that is more attractive than reality. .256 .062 .032 -.050 -.166
relaxed ooooo stressed (big 5 emotional stability) .256 -.100 .002 .065 -.469
It is important to be loved. .256 .014 -.051 .479 .074
Romantically, I imagine abandoning behavior, even when/where it doesn't exist. .256 .084 -.112 .109 -.348
I consider security an important element in every aspect of my life. .255 -.118 .174 .182 .109
Caring can make you see things that simply are not there. .255 .109 .179 .074 -.171
Super logical people annoy me. .255 .073 -.493 .036 -.071
I like to talk about sex. .254 .197 -.062 .010 .111
I have trouble differentiating myself from my external environment. .254 -.073 -.005 .118 -.363
I only do well in affirming environments. .254 .026 .059 .146 -.198
Finding true love is the main passion in my life. .253 .059 .151 .389 -.021
I have engaged in bullying. .253 .081 .071 -.093 -.201
I want to be in relationship with someone that thinks I'm awesome. .253
I tend to think of myself in terms of how I relate to the world. .253 .243 .025 .228 .005
I'm prone to addiction. .252 .188 -.023 .059 -.308
How much someone likes me in a relationship is more important (at least in terms of the partners I stick with) than how much I like them. .252 .097 .126 .093 -.191
I have a tendency to think whoever I'm dating is better than all of my previous partners. .252
I am in love with myself. .252 .145 .059 -.088 .540
I have tended to date people who are nicer than me. .252 -.014 -.085 -.185 -.079 (men)
Once a week or more, I become very excited. .251 .219 -.121 .156 .254
I feel bad if someone I care about gets hurt, but I feel little to nothing if it's some random person. .251 .100 .214 -.251 -.206
I am defined by what I like. .251 .210 .124 .023 -.027
I could make an effective 'con artist' if the situation required it.
I am very aware of my value compared to others. .251 .133 .189 -.014 .246
I am right, others are wrong. .250 .257 .143 -.270 -.173
Thinking is overrated. .250 -.034 -.155 .068 -.054
If someone I was interested in liked me, I would rather they just kiss me than ask permission. .250 .173 -.048 .033 .008
I am as interested in why people dislike me as I am in why they like me. .250 .111 .089 .163 -.228
I am more intolerant than tolerant. .250 .050 .034 -.208 -.209
I don't function well if I don't have at least one person in my life that really cares about me. .250 .054 -.126 .336 -.133
I am motivated by the desire to be in control of my happiness. .250 .340 .134 .008 .197
Identity is the imprint of one's will on existence. .250 .323 .065 .032 .080
I am desperate. .250 .049 -.014 .082 -.571
I like intimacy. .249 .110 .107 .117 .199
When I really like someone romantically, I tolerate things I would not normally tolerate. .249 .098 .006 .221 -.079
The world is run more by the hive mind than a few powerful people. .249
I grew up in a family that prioritized cognition. .249 .034 .200 .078 .218
I'm a born leader. .248 .298 .162 .220 .324
Nothing is more important than individual survival. .248 .163 .200 -.293 -.047
My sex drive is very high. .248 .301 .074 .051 .007
I associate love with longing for something that doesn't love me. .248 .018 -.026 .009 -.390
My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me. .247 -.076 -.119 .243 -.479
I've been in and stayed in relationships that made me feel good but didn't make sense otherwise. .247 .156 -.021 .132 -.142
I like to demean other people. .246 .085 .047 -.226 -.262
I fantasize about getting a horrible disease and seeing how people I know would react. .246 .017 -.098 .123 -.363
Whether or not I know it, there's definitely a formula to happiness. .246 -.049 .055 .207 .197
I'm uncomfortable having same sex friends that are better looking than me. .246 .013 -.042 -.024 -.181
Romantically speaking, I tend to focus more on / be more aware of how much someone likes me more than how much I like them. .246 -.045 -.050 .096 -.138
Functionality is more important than attractiveness. -.245 .067 .438 .129 .085
There is something wrong with people who don't want to have kids. .245 -.004 .061 .129 .076
As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. -.244
I enjoy watching people be insulted. .244 .160 .102 -.407 -.272
Happiness is found internally. -.244 .321 .175 .248 .170
Everybody likes to hear my stories. .243 .177 -.055 .110 .321
I select romantic partners that are really into me or that I'm really into, but rarely do I find both. .243 .144 .057 .071 -.257
my pace ooooo rat race .243 .068 .193 .033 .075
If I end a relationship, it makes me feel bad if the other person is fine with that. .243 .018 -.070 .155 -.251
If the people I was close to didn't like someone, it would be hard for me to date them. .242 -.167 -.004 .222 .016
I spend a lot of time analyzing other people. .242 .265 .048 .164 -.159
I am very superstitious. .242 .042 -.200 .077 -.196
When I want something from someone I can be very nice, when I don't I can be very mean. .242 .060 0 -.141 -.113
I am not interested in abstract ideas. .241 -.279 .005 -.057 -.086
I'm preoccupied with finding my value in the world. .241 .253 .118 .183 -.346
I only want to do what I want to do. .240 .312 .115 -.301 -.198
My mother was enmeshed/overly-attached (smothering). .240 (men)
Being an authority doesn't mean that much to me. -.239 .198 -.030 -.013 -.096
I am financially wealthy. .239 .052 .081 -.046 .205
An ideal trait in a significant other is that they can be abandoned easily if and when necessary. .239 .070 .099 -.205 -.066
If someone hurt a loved one of mine, I would stop at nothing to get revenge. .239 .369 .061 -.079 -.152
I am motivated by the desire to avoid attention. -.239 -.101 .195 .029 -.258
The welfare of my loved ones is more important than the welfare of others. .239
Career is more important than family. .238 .092 .218 -.330 -.148
Finding (or maintaining) true love is the main passion in my life. .238 -.110 -.115 .349 .048
I would rather be with someone I sort of liked than be alone feeling unwanted. .238 -.091 -.007 .191 -.125
People (other than my significant others) frequently tell my I'm attractive. .237 .191 .009 .096 .128
When I'm attracted to someone I enjoy finding out if it's mutual. .237 .118 .032 .258 .149
I am controlled by my environment. .237 -.167 -.002 .202 -.371
I want to have an exciting life (stimulating experiences). .236 .352 .005 -.020 .158
I am dependent on the support and nurturance of others. .236 -.069 -.136 .319 -.214
I get chores done right away. .235 -.114 .156 .216 .260
When Iím with friends, I can be the life of the party but it's not that way when I'm at party without my friends. .235 .098 .063 .115 -.119
I only care about the people close to me. .235 .087 .226 -.300 -.219
I would be happy if I looked out for my own interests more. .235 -.040 .084 .139 -.226
I want to kill people frequently. .235 .139 .030 -.149 -.344
The right romantic partner can transform your life. .235 .087 -.034 .255 .062
Who I consciously choose to be and who I instinctually am are very different. .234 .067 .011 .076 -.450
Fun is more important than rationality. .233 .295 -.299 .018 .004
If I cheated on a romantic partner, I would be unlikely to admit it to them. .233 .020 .033 -.143 -.049
I'm impulsive in my actions. .232 .271 -.207 .102 -.230
I lack remorse when I do something wrong. men .232 .085 .008 -.402 -.124
I wonder a lot about my fate, my destiny. .231 .283 -.069 .302 -.213
I do not acknowledge internal contradictions. .231 -.078 -.146 -.010 -.217
I am a very touchy feely person. .230 .016 -.128 .313 .002
I help my close trusted friends / significant other and no one else. .230 .013 .110 -.234 -.309
I live my life based on a specific system that I created. .230 .238 .232 .095 .074
I live my life based on a specific system that I adopted. .230 .124 .216 .130 .091
I frequently reassure my partner that I like/love them in a relationship. .230 .062 .100 .260 .187
I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. .230 .176 .080 -.255 -.288
How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. -.230 .418 .108 -.146 .373
I would like to find my way into the history books. .230 .398 .128 -.019 -.046
People are like tv shows, if you like them, you want to watch their show, see how it turns out. .230 .211 .129 .176 -.056
I enjoy performing in front of people. .229 .185 -.114 .089 .145
The normal rules don't apply to me. .229 .473 -.077 -.092 -.218
I would rather be too mean than too nice. .229 .129 .114 -.313 -.203
I dislike shopping for clothes. -.229 .189 .122 -.039 -.277
I'm good at figuring out what I want but not what others want. .229 -.074 .267 -.146 .006 male
I would not be comfortable going to a concert alone. .229 -.143 -.062 .129 -.088
Romantically, the burden is on the other person to prove they love me. .228 0 0 0 -.227
I am more outgoing than reserved. (big 5 extroversion) .228 .105 -.224 .165 .450
Truth is whatever I think it is. .228
I pry into others' personal affairs. .228 .038 -.018 .010 -.171
I have a very good reputation. .228 .065 .181 .288 .420
I would not sacrifice my life for anyone else. .228 .020 .109 -.373 -.136
I dislike bragging. .227 .124 .022 .187 -.037
Those people who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. .227 .101 .164 -.121 -.089
Use only that which works, and take it from any place you can find it. .227 .222 .211 -.068 -.074
I need another person similar to me to help get me through life. .227 -.075 -.058 .113 -.322
I over think things. .227 .224 .102 .169 -.328
I objectively measure the external world to achieve measurable goals. .226 .146 .456 .087 .163
I'm not good at taking jokes about myself. .226 -.109 -.122 .015 -.375
I limit input from my environment in order to maintain the optimal level of arousal. .226 .092 .174 -.003 -.203
The best leader is the smartest person the masses will follow. .226 .030 .297 .009 -.070
I can express my true feelings only when I drink. .225 .027 -.087 -.036 -.299
I could care less about awards, of any kind. -.225 .230 .046 .118 .017
No one else's life is more valuable than mine. .225 .142 .121 -.388 .026
I dislike manual labor. .225 .089 -.078 -.118 -.201
It would bother me to cheat on an examination or assignment even if no-one got hurt in the process. -.225 -.141 .122 .312 .103
The higher your energy level, the more efficient your body. .224 .072 .136 .038 .139
I wish life was easier. .224 .020 -.022 .219 -.538
I sometimes depend on people to get things done.- (Independence) -.223
I stand out. .223 .533 -.021 .014 .160
I like imperfection. -.223 .280 -.164 .027 .003
One man is worth ten thousand if he is extraordinary. .223
I find taking risks rewarding. .223 .518 -.016 .077 .058
I would rather be the appreciator than the appreciated romantically. -.222 .073 .196 .151 -.042
I have boundary issues. .222 .162 .034 -.014 -.239
I have angry outbursts. .222 .207 -.026 -.062 -.364
My mother was controlling and critical. .222 .132 .087 .102 -.122 (men)
The number one quality I look for in a friend is loyalty. .222 .054 .058 .175 .049
I focus more on how much I like a romantic partner than how much they like me. .222 .124 .006 .044 .017
I don't need any more anxiety in my life. .221 .110 -.002 .123 -.302
I am security/safety focused. .221 -.206 .399 .236 .005
My main motivation is to be different. .221 .490 .012 .091 .031
I deal with criticism very poorly. .221 -.122 -.220 .118 -.432
You can never be too content. .221 .335 -.069 .047 .093
I always know how I feel. .220 .072 .184 .075 .285
My behavioral tendencies have been largely shaped by my upbringing. .220 -.061 .124 .269 .000
I often become deeply attached to people I like. .220 .117 -.069 .384 -.073
I like to educate others. .220 .128 .102 .157 .220 .347
I pursue activities which make me feel blissful/high. .220 .379 .048 .056 .076
I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me. -.220 .184 .015 .111 .310
When I'm depressed, I desire things to make more sense. .219 .142 .214 .163 -.163
If I'm attracted to someone, I tend to stare at them. .219 .022 .028 .406 -.039 (men)
Fame only has value while you are alive to enjoy it. .218
I can be insensitive to the feelings of others. .218 .254 .100 -.260 -.257
It doesn't bother me that people in the third world have dangerous working conditions. .218 .008 .124 -.294 -.118
I get off on someone being really into me. .218
I am somewhat of a jerk. .217 .222 .121 -.245 -.327
The world is a playground to satisfy my desires. .217 .329 .048 -.080 .113
I'm good at figuring out what I want but not what others want. .217 -.109 .031 -.184 .071
I want to be in relationship with someone I think is awesome. .217 .194 .007 .258 .058
I was my father's favorite child. .216 (women)
Most of my friends have parents that have helped them out a lot financially. .216 .078 .074 .160 -.119
My need to be appreciated by others is very low. -.216 .215 .213 -.217 .090
When I talk about my problems to someone close to me, I desire to have my emotions validated, not hear solutions. .195 .054 -.121 .115 -.216 female
I don't trust others but I want others to trust me. .216 .129 .017 -.019 -.394
Physical chemistry is the most important quality in who I like romantically. .216
Others tell me I eat too fast. .216
I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. .215 .000 .114 -.190 -.408
I am very sexual. .215 .237 -.012 .098 .057
No one is good enough for me. .215 .147 .100 -.161 -.049
I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale with only one or two close friends or family members. -.215 .093 .224 -.021 -.376
In romantic relationships, it's normal for the girl to like the guy more. .214 male
I trust my feelings over my logical thought. .214 .166 -.486 .264 .029
Use only that which works, and find it within. .214 .207 .155 .048 .016
pretty lie ooooo ugly truth -.213 .022 .068 .042 .139
I am neurotic. .213 .071 .003 .014 -.405
To be liked for something you are not is of no real value. -.213 .258 .015 .056 .022
If someone is better than me at something, I'm fine letting them take the lead. -.213 -.063 .140 .105 .080
I find it rewarding to only put myself in environments that affirm my values. .213 .170 .055 .182 .013
I deserve to be loved a great deal. .213 .110 .003 .132 .393
I like to look at my body. .212 .191 -.057 .061 .492
The bigger the wealth difference between the rich and the poor the better. .213 -.071 .010 -.179 .057
show flaws ooooo hide flaws .212 .018 .162 -.188 -.186
My main motivation is express my individuality. .212 .441 .005 .119 .051
I think of myself as a commodity. .211
I don't enjoy being praised. -.211 .101 .114 .002 -.203
How much I like someone in a relationship is more important (at least in terms of the partners I stick with) than how much they like me. .211 .183 .078 .055 -.013
I am very particular about who/how I am, but it's entirely for me, not to please/impress anyone else on this planet. -.211 .477 .166 -.166 .210
appreciator ooooo appreciated .210 .052 -.005 -.231 .289
My parents are my foundation. .210 -.058 .099 .159 .225
If no one agrees with you, you are probably wrong. .210 -.242 .078 .120 -.105
I shoot my mouth off. .210 .228 -.022 .009 -.097
I only really need a romantic partner, I can live without friends. .210 .123 .095 -.050 -.218
I look for signs. .209 .324 -.075 .322 -.073
I have a lot of concern for those close to me but not much for anyone else. .207 .209 .185 -.250 -.320
My goal in life is omniscience. .208 .182 .295 -.060 .016
If I've been on a few dates with someone, I would prefer them to end things by breaking off contact rather than expressing they don't want to see me anymore. .208
I depend on money from my parents and/or a significant other. .208 -.058 -.104 .010 -.257
I regularly assess my life path as to whether I'm living my life optimally, and make changes if I decide I'm not. .208 .223 .144 .136 .237
I make decisions based on what benefits the world most, not what benefits me or those close to me most. women -.208 .221 .069 .17
I see most people in my life as replaceable. .209 .108 .157 -.252 -.379
I am not attracted to depressive types. .209 -.222 .090 .082 .485
Even if I know I don't like someone enough for it to work long term, it can hurt if they break up with me. .208 .029 .029 .244 -.222
I want everything to be 'just right.' .208 -.111 .244 .208 -.069
Its easier for me to apprehend my gut/instincts/feelings than my thoughts. .208 .137 -.275 .168 -.075
For me to fall for someone, I have to be pursued. .208 .084 .145 .010 -.002
Respect is very important to me. .207 .084 .136 .224 .276
I hate to judge others on how they look. -.207 .228 .019 .249 .042
I am the product of circumstance. .207 .045 .072 .078 -.363

I am romantically attracted to people who are much older than me. women .207 .247 .037 .044 -.144 men .158 .088 .096 -.084 -.054
I have imaginary conversations in my head regarding whoever I care the most about romantically. .207 .272 -.091 .132 -.216
When I'm feeling stressed, I am more inclined to want to hang out with friends. .207 .071 -.111 .156 .165
The plight of sweat shop workers in the third world doesn't bother me. .206 -.023 .103 -.194 -.001
Things don't need to be perfect. -.206 .096 -.074 .059 .068
It's irresponsible for people who suffer depression to have children. .206 .046 .312 -.111 -.047
I need attention but I'm unwilling to work to get it. .206 .008 .005 .055 -.233
It's pointless to think about how the world will be in 200 years when I won't be alive then. .206 -.056 .069 -.093 -.050
When it comes to romantic attraction, captivating my heart is more important than captivating my mind. .206 -.131 -.298 .205 .007
It is difficult for me to read in a space that isn't quiet. .205
I am very skilled at achievement. .205 .205 .193 .083 .412
I think people can read my thoughts. .205 .020 -.049 .185 -.171
Romantically, I confess I've tended to look for / desire / expect more of a parent figure than an equal partner. .205 -.025 -.024 .178 -.010
Even when I know I don't want to be with someone and I end things, it still takes me months to get over. .204 -.086 -.032 .154 -.291
Loud snoring is a romantic deal breaker for me. .204
I smile a lot. .203 .025 -.124 .192 .502
I always like to have a mentor in my life. .203 -.005 .068 .298 .122
Deep down I'm an angry person. .203 .111 .022 -.087 -.588
I'm not as helpful to others when I'm unhappy. .203 .101 .004 -.152 -.263
I would be happy if I had a more logical undertanding of things. .203 .047 .368 .170 -.326
I am sexually aroused by things that I think are bad. .201 .184 -.068 -.213 .041
When I'm in a relationship that I prefer to a recent one, I still occasionally think fondly of the recent one. .202
I sometimes feel as if I could sleep for a week. .202 .110 -.181 .120 -.313
I am not a fan of the idea of death, of ceasing to exist forever. .202
Maintaining my physical health is very important to me. .202 -.006 .085 .068 .327
I am overly accommodating to loved ones but no one else. .202 .008 .048 .014 -.273
I focus entirely on avoiding romantic relationship rejection. .201 .111 .104 -.015 -.361
You can't find your future without a map. .201 -.099 .214 .120 -.104
If I love someone romantically and they don't feel the same, I can't stay friends. .201 .065 .055 .006 -.084
I am good at picking up on my feelings but not other people's feelings. .201 -.221 .036 -.260 -.105 female
I cannot survive without being loved by someone. .200 -.069 -.084 .313 .029
I would rather be a film writer than a film actor. .200 .061 .186 .009 -.267
I'm a flirt. .200 .302 -.146 .095 .162
I think it makes sense to give a person more prison time if it serves the interest of deterring other people from similar criminal behavior. .200 .054 .166 .122 .005


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