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MOTIV Personality Trait Descriptions

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Vital (Identity)

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The following items all had a statistically significant factor loadings (similar to correlations) on the Vital drive:

**If you see only one number it means that item only had a significant loading on the Vital drive (>.130, sample size >=600), otherwise the factor loading numbers are listed in the MOTIV order (Marketing, Offbeat, Thinking, Interpersonal, Vital)


I am happy with my life. .876
Life is worth living. .778
Life is not worth living. -.740
I am generally a very happy person. .114 .169 .006 .124 .750
I dislike myself.- .726
I have exaggeratedly negative beliefs about myself. .021 .069 -.056 .170 -.721
I think life is worthwhile. .708 4.62
My will to live is very strong. .694 4.44
At a certain point in my life my parents distanced themselves from me (and they remain distant). .023 .115 .042 -.071 -.680
At a certain point in my life I distanced myself from my parents (and I remain distant). .051 .174 .063 -.026 -.702
I feel lost. -.679
I frequently feel unhappy for no particular reason. -.679
I feel trapped in my body. -.679
I'm not comfortable with myself. -.676
I have little control over life. -.676
I can't make it a week without feeling unhappy. -.670
I am optimistic. -.062 .134 .008 .167 .670
I find being alive rewarding. .083 .249 .164 .087 .669
I find living my life rewarding. .116 .221 .171 .100 .666
I am excited about life. .159 .270 -.078 .211 .660
I would be better off dead. -.135 .036 .058 -.098 -.660
I am at peace with myself. .070 .081 .049 .143 .659
I want to be different than I am. .180 -.105 -.004 .075 -.651
I get stressed out easily.- .650
At a certain point in life I became broken and I've never recovered. .079 .076 -.081 .143 -.648
I don't know who I am. -.647
I radiate joy. .147 .187 -.046 .234 .644
My body is nothing special. -.106 -.060 .172 -.016 -.641
I have little control over my own life. -.637
The image I present to others and who I really am are not the same. -.636
I have not lived the right kind of life. .634
Most people are better than me. .038 -.120 -.148 .270 -.629
I've had a happy life. .628
I'm not comfortable in my own skin. -.627
I see myself as calm, emotionally stable. -.070 .000 .160 -.026 .623
I am unable to change my circumstances. .161 -.111 -.075 -.011 -.618
Life confuses me. .079 .099 -.092 .136 -.611
I would rate my the healthiness of my life as very low. -.609
Sometimes I feel as if I must injure myself. -.608
I've always been broken. .035 .246 .024 .146 -.605
I am content. .603
The key to being happy is choosing to be happy. .065 .080 .025 .142 .603
I lack motivation. -.602
I am an outcast. -.150 .234 .051 -.092 -.602
I don't like most people. -.018 .172 .133 -.237 -.600
I hate everyone. .084 .222 .044 -.197 -.597
Being optimistic leads to disappointment. .078 .032 .061 -.145 -.594
I experience shame a lot. .052 -.20 .075 .137 -.593
I am an outsider. -.081 .331 .107 -.006 -.589
I mostly live in the my head, not in the world. .001 .245 .020 .026 -.589
Deep down I'm an angry person. .203 .111 .022 -.087 -.588
I am incapable of changing my circumstances. .173 -.102 -.052 .071 -.587
I am self destructive. .144 .244 -.077 .150 -.585
I have a lot of anger inside me. .118 .156 .031 -.125 -.581
I can have a good time anywhere. -.030 .094 .032 .155 .580
outgoing ooooo reserved .359 -.050 .122 -.069 -.577
On a dime, I can decide that nothing in my life truly matters. -.018 .193 .054 -.054 -.575
Life is significant (meaningful). .074 .035 -.003 .232 .574
I get upset easily.- (big 5 emotional stability) -.288 .052 .204 .044 .574
I find being who I am rewarding. .015 .139 -.024 .194 .573
I'm kind of like a zombie. -.053 .140 -.004 -.017 -.572
I am desperate. .250 .049 -.014 .082 -.571
No matter how bad life gets, I'll always fight though it. .067 .225 .016 .166 .570
I want to change who I am. .570 (women) .066 .231 .013 .131 -.487 (men)
I'm very smart but I'm not happy. .172 .215 .123 .006 -.569
I can be myself around anyone. .029 .148 .005 -.007 .569
I have a defeatist outlook on life. -.566
Optimism is my oxygen. .181 .162 -.031 .333 .565
I motivate myself. .051 .153 .126 .086 .564
I have experienced a deep, pensive, and long-lasting sadness. .049 .185 .053 .126 -.559
I tend to believe things will work out. .175 .143 .014 .097 .558
I am attracted to depressive types. -.126 .276 -.050 -.033 -.558
I avoid considering how I feel about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me. .258 .089 -.084 .109 -.557
I would rate the healthiness of my life as very high. .086 .019 .169 .092 .556
I can only be myself around a few people. -.556
I have identity issues. -.555
I am full of energy. .195 .295 -.133 .155 .554
I'm not normal. -.078 .380 -.092 .028 -.549
People tell me that I am distant. .043 .281 .155 -.093 -.547
I am attracted to sadness. -.547
I don't have trust in my own judgement. .071 .035 -.212 .081 -.542
I am in love with myself. .252 .145 .059 -.088 .540
I like to escape reality. .033 .209 -.113 .046 -.539
I wish life was easier. .224 .020 -.022 .219 -.538
I can't be myself around anyone. -.537
I feel I've been dealt a poor hand in life thus far. .170 .088 -.008 -.015 -.536
I keep a lot of what I do secret. .052 .171 .060 -.100 -.534
I fear getting involved with others. (avoidant) .040 .056 .134 -.063 -.532
I have more good luck than bad luck. .531
I am weak and need a stronger person to carry me through life. .049 -.201 -.068 .221 -.531
unattractiveness ooooo attractiveness .528
I have an internal critic inside me that constantly judges me. .126 .059 .084 .183 -.527
I avoid thinking about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me. .316 .082 -.120 .149 -.523
The purpose of a lot of my activities/interests is to distract me from thinking about the meaninglessness of existence. .144 .222 .065 .010 -.519
I am more calm than worrying. -.107 .171 .240 .009 .517
I'm a mass of conflicting impulses. .197 .221 -.097 .086 -.514
I am frequently out of it. .114 .196 -.117 .061 -.513
I am not who I appear to be. .120 .173 -.010 .000 -.512
When I'm not happy, I make changes to my life. .080 .253 .047 .077 .506
It is safer to trust nobody. .082 .199 .065 -.187 -.505
I'm not very good at making friends. -.081 .052 .122 -.132 -.504
I am in control of almost every aspect of my life. .101 .176 .206 -.061 .502
I smile a lot. .203 .025 -.124 .192 .502
I have trouble controlling my emotions. .196 .137 -.161 .113 -.500
part of audience ooooo center of attention .268 .173 -.148 -.193 .499
No matter how good things are I find something th complain about. .188 .007 -.038 -.075 -.498
I repress my thoughts. .151 -.074 -.051 .113 -.497
My life has never been better than it is now. .497
Anything is possible. -.012 .141 .114 .223 .494
Sometimes I feel as if I must injure either myself or someone else. .493
Sometimes I cut or injure myself on purpose without knowing why. .012 .146 -.100 .007 -.493
I like to look at my body. .212 .191 -.057 .061 .492
I'm always smiling. .156 .104 -.093 .228 .492
I am moody. .221 .134 -.146 .011 -.490
Pessimism is as important as optimism. -.008 .171 .150 -.064 -.490
I frequently think 'What am I doing with my life?'. .131 .155 .004 .035 -.489
I don't value happiness. -.486
I feel drained after being out and about, even if I've enjoyed myself. -.109 .006 .131 .036 -.486
I am not attracted to depressive types. .209 -.222 .090 .082 .485
I know I could be happy if I could trade places with certain people. .263 -.080 .080 .114 -.485
calm ooooo worrying (big 5 emotional stability) .284 -.058 .045 .089 -.485
I have a slow pace to my life. -.484
I find believing in myself rewarding. .183 .213 .112 .002 .484
I usually fear for the worst.- (I don't usually fear for the worst) (big 5 emotional stability) -.310 .055 -.030 -.152 .484
Other people drain me. -.482
Life bewilders me. .109 .202 -.034 .126 -.480
I find other people unrewarding. .039 .197 .196 -.216 -.479
My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me. .247 -.076 -.119 .243 -.479
Anything I want to do I can do. .145 .408 .048 .103 .477
I do things when I should do them. .044 -.258 .277 .262 .476
I have taught myself to stuff and disconnect from my own feelings for years. .007 .143 .216 -.055 -.475
When I'm in a romantic relationship I tend to plaqued by doubts it will work out. .155 .108 .001 .013 -.475
I have trouble extending myself to others. -.049 .142 .134 -.149 -.471
I spend a lot of time thinking about the real me vs. the expected me. .172 .105 .046 .180 -.470
relaxed ooooo stressed (big 5 emotional stability) .256 -.100 .002 .065 -.469
social advantage ooooo social disadvantage -.185 .073 .051 .145 -.469
I am not easily frustrated. -.195 .167 .248 .044 .469
I am pursuing my dreams. .089 .252 .090 .047 .468
I hang around doing nothing. -.467
I don't know what I want. -.467
I am courageous. .114 .412 .078 .050 .467
I would be happy if I was more physically attractive/perfect. .257 .065 .010 .092 -.466
I have trouble controlling my anger. .185 .154 -.031 -.058 -.465
I am not easily bothered by things. -.149 .134 .321 .004 .465
I have no will power. -.464
I am very suspicious of others. .194 .156 .154 -.037 -.463
I am understimulated. .087 .183 .038 -.078 -.462
I lack an interior life. -.461 (empty person)
I find being around others for too long unrewarding. -.081 .195 .143 -.143 -.461
I do things when I'm supposed to do them. .036 -.289 .316 .253 .459
I don't feel like many people really know me. -.044 .207 .103 .061 -.458
I am frequently bored. .192 .063 .029 -.061 -.458
I have not sorted things out yet. -.458
I find being optimistic rewarding. .077 .112 .038 .262 .457
I am not good at being healthy consistently. -.455
If everyone in the world was like me, the world would probably self destruct. -.453
I fear being judged by others. .313 -.190 -.028 .193 -.451
I've had an ideal life. .450
I control my life. .063 .261 .153 -.110 .448
I am close to my parents. 0 0 0 .179 .452
Who I consciously choose to be and who I instinctually am are very different. .234 .067 .011 .076 -.450
I am more outgoing than reserved. (big 5 extroversion) .228 .105 -.224 .165 .450
Life is hard. .149 .032 .058 .162 -.450
People ocassionally tell me that I'm attractive. .269 .126 -.181 .138 .448
My life has never been better than it is now. .445
I wish I felt less. .125 .110 .012 .075 .445
Unhappiness is a solvable problem. .442
I have an internal critic inside me that judges me. .105 .158 .161 .187 -.442
I like change.- (I don't like change) .029 -.369 .038 .009 -.442
I know how to be happy on my own. -.056 .248 .195 -.107 .440
I frequently make changes to my life to maximize my happiness. .382 .157 .055 .130 .439
If I was diagnosed with a serious illness, I would focus on how I would overcome it. .439
People have told me I'm bitter. .158 .181 .179 -.214 -.439
Being disliked by others causes me anxiety. .328 -.115 -.015 .229 -.437
I have a lot of will power. .082 .329 .181 .063 .437
If I were a plant, I'd probably be a cactus. -.435
I know how to be happy on my own. .006 .254 .197 -.031 .433
I am open about myself to others. (big 5 extroversion) .081 .012 -.161 .188 .432
I deal with criticism very poorly. .221 -.122 -.220 .118 -.432
It is entirely possible that no one I romantically loved enough to stick with would love me enough to stick with. .120 .161 .053 .035 -.430
I am energetic. .132 .149 .005 .176 .431
I live inside my head. .017 .276 .170 .002 -.431
I lack conviction. -.430
I feel that by being optimistic, I will attract the right kind of person. .190 .061 -.021 .271 .430
open ooooo private .344 -.132 .183 -.429
You get the future you get, not the one you want. .101 .020 .112 .019 -.429
I am unable to commit to anything for very long. .144 .105 .013 -.155 -.429
When I'm depressed I don't have much attention to give. .181 .081 -.040 -.036 -.428
I keep people in the dark about my life. .017 .155 .110 -.098 -.427
I see flaws/weaknesses as opportunites for fixes/improvements. .074 .193 .228 .102 .426
I have learned to behave helplessly. -.425
I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities. -.120 .184 .229 .018 -.425
I am fake. .173 .003 .001 -.090 -.425
I am prone to escapism. .002 .267 .046 .056 -.424
I stick with what i know because I'm afraid of new things. .144 -.311 .004 .105 -.424
Stress makes me less social. -.424
I don't love anything. -.423
I get what I want. .295 .230 .107 -.031 .423
Every day is a new adventure. .039 .316 -.066 .240 .422
Growing up I had to be different from who I really was to survive. .052 .183 .030 .089 -.421
I have a very good reputation. .228 .065 .181 .288 .420
My philosophy is fuck everything. .110 .252 -.036 -.162 -.420
I do my best work alone. -.099 .205 .226 -.069 -.417
I often think 'What am I doing?'. .102 .112 .005 .134 -.417
I can be clingy in a romantic relationship. .257 -.034 -.070 .074 -.416
I pretend to be normal, that there is nothing wrong with me, that I'm not as different as I know I am. .316 .115 .082 .172 -.415
It does not bother me that I am not better looking. -.344 .180 .171 .002 .416 (all) -0.372 0.191 0.181 0.073 0.446 (women) -0.297 0.157 0.078 0.050 0.339 (men)
I am very skilled at achievement. .205 .205 .193 .083 .412
People as a whole are generally unworthy of kindness. .162 .104 .118 -.227 -.412
Sometimes I get so angry I want to burn down the world. .164 .269 -.019 -.006 -.412
If I meet someone I like, it's easy for me to ask them to hang out some time, i.e. initiate a friendship. .107 .255 -.085 .122 .412
I am unable to relate to other people. .027 .129 .170 -.257 -.411
My hardest battles are with myself. -.045 .185 .081 .066 -.410
The direction of my life is always clear to me. .115 .116 .209 .049 .409
I would say I'm more of a critic than a contributor. .215 .000 .114 -.190 -.408
I am genuine. .024 .187 .137 .233 .407
I prefer things to stay as they are. .084 -.257 .169 .142 -.407
I am very easily hurt. .188 -.015 -.132 .327 -.406
I am neurotic. .213 .071 .003 .014 -.405
I keep my thoughts to myself.- .08 .05 -.22 .083 .403
I have a bad temper. .294 .319 -.235 -.060 -.401
I have a fear of public speaking. .004 -.205 -.029 -.010 -.400
I hide/conceal my strengths/advantages. -.128 .137 -.009 .067 -.400
I have murderous ideas/impulses. .012 .256 .081 -.187 -.400
I see myself as dependable, self-disciplined. -.010 .040 .167 .111 .399
I am insane. -.054 .375 -.098 -.023 -.398
dependent .303 -.101 -.254 .055 -.398
When I'm depressed, I like to do nothing. .004 -.152 .034 -.021 -.397
I am a cold person. .110 .157 .181 -.425 -.396
A lot of people want to have sex with me. .319 .186 -.244 .045 .394
I don't trust others but I want others to trust me. .216 .129 .017 -.019 -.394
I deserve to be loved a great deal. .213 .110 .003 .132 .393
I frequently want to hit people. .152 .312 .038 -.229 -.393
I'm good at picking up whether someone loves me. .104 .153 .039 .108 .392
I get nausea (sick to my stomach) frequently. .144 .055 -.092 .073 -.392
true inner self 00000 false outer self .404 .000 .085 -.097 -.390
I am highly ambitious. .426 .304 .021 .089 .390
I associate love with longing for something that doesn't love me. .248 .018 -.026 .009 -.390
introspective ooooo power seeking .451 -.120 .032 -.277 .390
I get headaches frequently. -.389
I hurt people. .179 .175 .028 -.238 -.388
I fear taking control, leading. -.022 -.232 -.026 .163 -.388
I get physically ill when things aren't going well for me. -.387
I am more evil than good. .186 .211 .026 -.226 -.387
I am self conscious. .130 -.091 .129 .183 -.385
I'm not a big risk taker. -.059 -.350 .224 .087 -.384
If I started my life over knowing everything I know now, I would change a lot. .186 -.006 .087 .086 -.384
I find having little to no responsibilities rewarding. -.066 .074 .010 -.151 -.383
I confuse commitment with engulfment. .160 .155 -.023 .008 -.383
People tell me that I am cold. .113 .276 .201 -.225 -.383
It concerns me that my motivations might not actually be in my best interests. .155 .134 .095 .070 -.380
I see most people in my life as replaceable. .209 .108 .157 -.252 -.379
I have been on anti depressants for long periods of time. -.378
If there is a problem in my life that would upset me to deal with / figure out, I'm prone to ignore/deny it's existence. -.378
I have visions of the future. .257 .099 .011 .070 .377
I prefer the familiar. .196 -.326 .197 .189 -.377
I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale with only one or two close friends or family members. -.215 .093 .224 -.021 -.376
I prefer not to show my work or discuss it with others until it is finished. -.012 .133 .131 .018 .376
I have had the thought/feeling that I wanted to hurt someone. .106 .363 .030 -.197 -.376
I'm living in the past. -.375
I'm not good at taking jokes about myself. .226 -.109 -.122 .015 -.375
I criticize myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should. .305 .100 .080 .261 -.375
I'm not sure there are many people I could be in romantic relationships with on the whole earth. -.014 .247 .036 -.062 -.375
Happiness is truth. .108 -.024 .003 .381 .374
I fear being inconsequential in life. .283 .022 .060 .122 -.374
As long as I still want something, I keep trying different things until I succeed. .046 .381 .151 .044 .373
How I feel/think about myself does not rely on the opinions of others. -.230 .418 .108 -.146 .373
I would be more motivated if the world was more attractive. .282 .124 .095 -.077 -.372
Death is the goal of life. -.372
I am the life of the party. .266 .201 -.107 .054 .372
I have a heart of stone. .118 .173 .173 -.291 -.371
I am controlled by my environment. .237 -.167 -.002 .202 -.371
Happiness is a choice. .058 .136 .049 .115 .371
I have a short fuse. .299 .329 -.204 -.056 -.370
I am a cold person. .125 .088 .227 -.313 -.370
I tend to undersell myself to others. -.007 .035 .050 .151 -.369
I am more future oriented than past oriented. .066 .167 .255 .022 .369
I was bullied growing up. .017 .270 -.048 .077 -.369
I don't get things done even when I have to. .130 .169 -.112 .063 -.368
I felt rejected by my father. .002 .291 -.121 -.026 -.366
I worry no one will understand the depths of my heart. .292 .306 .047 .326 -.366
I like to flirt. .272 .153 -.151 .052 .365
I have angry outbursts. .222 .207 -.026 -.062 -.364
I am the product of circumstance. .207 .045 .072 .078 -.363
I have trouble differentiating myself from my external environment. .254 -.073 -.005 .118 -.363
I fantasize about getting a horrible disease and seeing how people I know would react. .246 .017 -.098 .123 -.363
I would be happy if my instincts were better. .119 -.027 .107 .220 -.362
I have trouble making big decisions if I don't have strong feelings one way or the other. .154 .002 -.172 .261 -.362
I focus entirely on avoiding romantic relationship rejection. .201 .111 .104 -.015 -.361
I have the freedom to become something other than my circumstances would normally produce. .003 .399 .048 .019 .361
With one smile, I can often make someone Iíve just met interested in getting to know me better. .265 .240 -.023 .207 .360
Anything is possible. .088 .183 -.028 .172 .359
I can be obsessive. .146 .155 .152 .070 -.359
It is important that I change who I am. .137 .026 -.004 .170 -.359
Anything is possible. .060 .194 .061 .263 .359
I have trouble asking for what I want from people I am romantically interested in. -.017 .014 .024 .138 -.355
I like working hard. .129 .151 .161 .408 .355
I am preoccupied with my inner-thought world. .171 .411 -.104 .056 -.355
Freedom is an illusion. -.354
Most people I've dated have been better than me. -.353
No matter how bad life gets, I get through it. .352
I have a very strong sense of my own desires. .064 .216 .188 -.014 .352
I am loyal to my parents. .093 -.112 .063 .316 .352
I am a warm person. .019 .039 -.075 .591 .352
I can be demanding in a romantic relationship. .274 .120 -.002 -.042 -.351
Sometimes I am overly cautious. .048 -.187 .344 .190 -.351
I can get pretty much anyone to like me romantically. .291 .308 -.044 .163 .351
I have a daydream life about which I do not tell other people. .075 .250 -.038 -.077 -.351
I get upset easily.- (big 5 emotional stability) -.388 .012 .055 -.206 .350
I wish I were not bothered by thoughts about sex. -.349
I rarely feel happy in response to minor events. .067 .105 .159 .017 -.349
I'm always in my head. .054 .237 .188 .002 -.348
Romantically, I imagine abandoning behavior, even when/where it doesn't exist. .256 .084 -.112 .109 -.348
I have a history of health problems. -.347
I am propelled internally, on an instinctual level, to be hard working, detail oriented. .110 .023 .236 .267 .347
I am unable to connect with others emotionally. .015 .050 .347 -.232 -.337
If a certain behavior benefited me but had a negative effect on the world, I would still engage in it. .191 .126 .056 -.480 -.346
I find pleasure in isolation. -.047 .168 .196 -.031 -.346
I'm preoccupied with finding my value in the world. .241 .253 .118 .183 -.346
My skin is frequently itchy. .345
In everything I do lately, I feel that I am being tested. .115 .199 .147 .134 -.345
If I had to choose, I'd prefer a weekend with absolutely nothing to do to one with too many things scheduled. -.190 -.005 .162 -.078 -.345
I lie almost constantly. .193 .113 -.038 -.227 -.345
I am usually quite confident when learning a new game or sport. .343 .082 .060 .095 .344
I tell many 'white lies.' .281 .238 -.063 -.102 -.344
I am very good at managing risk. .032 .138 .156 .012 .344
I want to kill people frequently. .235 .139 .030 -.149 -.344
I tend to have an internal dislike/disdain for people that are more attractive than me. .526 .021 -.083 .004 -.343
If I'm unsure whether someone I like likes me enough, sometimes I push them away. .150 .121 .043 .137 -.343
I have a passion for being alone. .030 .199 .183 -.139 -.343
I frequently mentally tune out. .027 .252 -.045 .033 -.343
I cannot keep my mind on one thing. (add / adhd) .061 .259 -.177 .052 -.342
I felt rejected by my mother. -.015 .201 -.132 .049 -.341
I don't care if I die right now. .111 .297 .070 .027 -.341
After a break up, I'd rather mourn the end of the relationship for months than move on with my life. -.341
I am flexible. .052 .278 .022 .189 .341
I'm jealous of people that I think are better than me. .597 -.044 -.047 .059 -.340
I would associate with someone whose behavior had a negative effect on the world if that association was beneficial to me. .155 .204 .021 -.458 -.341
People tell me that I am stiff. .113 .192 .302 -.062 -.339
Every path I've taken in life I've kind of fallen into. -.339
If I feel bad in a relationship, I tend to think/feel it's my fault. -.020 .018 -.052 .429 -.339
I am driven to live the healthiest life possible. .169 -.044 .081 .096 .338
Some people have told me that I make too many excuses for myself. .285 .139 -.058 .022 -.338
I am unable to change who I am. -.337
I have contempt for a lot of people. -.335
Sometimes I feel as if I must injure someone else. .080 .217 .004 -.137 -.335
I'm more attached to my imagination than reality. .058 .458 -.207 -.057 -.335
You can never be too optimistic. .151 .396 -.131 .166 .334
I like to avoid attention. -.322 -.048 .197 .032 -.334
I'm not sure I want to have kids. -.042 .156 .011 -.167 -.334
If I don't pick things up very quickly, I find them difficult to learn. .262 .026 .010 .070 -.334
I people I am romantically attracted to tend to be messed up. -.020 .210 -.036 .123 -.334
Happiness is the most important thing in life. .187 -.030 -.009 .303 .333
I don't stay in a relationship if it makes me unhappy. .065 .202 .070 -.047 .331
I hold a grudge. -.331
It is difficult for me to forgive. .175 .096 .087 -.128 -.330
Serial killers interest me. .004 .158 -.006 -.083 -.330
I don't like to dance. .076 .062 .215 -.188 -.329
I see myself as equal with everyone else. -.170 .141 .085 .230 .328
When I'm upset at a friend, it's not easy for me to tell them so. .104 -.089 -.019 .213 -.328
I over think things. .227 .224 .102 .169 -.328
Maintaining my physical health is very important to me. .202 -.006 .085 .068 .327
I just want to survive, I don't need to thrive. -.193 -.042 -.036 .133 -.327 men .048 -.040 .030 .132 -.309 women
Exercise helps keep me sane. .189 .124 .014 .200 .327
I am somewhat of a jerk. .217 .222 .121 -.245 -.327
I would be happy if I had a more logical undertanding of things. .203 .047 .368 .170 -.326
I spend a lot of time analyzing myself. .167 .303 .181 .103 -.325
I spend a lot of time thinking about the purpose of existence. .016 .280 .084 .106 -.325
I prefer to under sell myself. -.034 .073 .026 .200 -.325
Because I consider it important I establish and build relationships with other people. .283 .066 -.094 .415 .324
Romantic rejections are very difficult for me. men -.325 women -.223
Finding out my feeling about something important is wrong unsettles me. -.324
I'm a born leader. .248 .298 .162 .220 .324
I make plans and stick to them. .092 -.084 .270 .280 .324
I need another person similar to me to help get me through life. .227 -.075 -.058 .113 -.322
Everybody likes to hear my stories. .243 .177 -.055 .110 .321
I am apathetic. .321
My worst fear is to be forgotten or overlooked. .347 .029 -.047 .118 -.320
I am weary of strangers. .033 -.055 .134 -.056 -.320
I have a lot of concern for those close to me but not much for anyone else. .207 .209 .185 -.250 -.320
I am very impressive. .374 .379 .093 .029 .317
The existing world is the best of all possible worlds. .162 -.021 .051 .226 .317
In romantic relationships, it's normal for the guy to like the girl more. .317 male
Romantically, I focus more on whether someone wants me than whether I want them. .180 -.041 -.058 .218 -.316
I would be happy if I was more adventurous/unconventional. .159 -.022 .085 .182 -.315
I fear losing what I have. .283 .058 -.020 .143 -.315
I enjoy exercising. .314
My parents were very inattentive to me. -.314
If I get the urge to contact someone, I contact them. .167 .171 .064 .136 .314
When I see a person I like connecting with someone else, it bothers me. .261 .061 -.114 .070 -.313
I sometimes feel as if I could sleep for a week. .202 .110 -.181 .120 -.313
I don't trust others. .084 .228 .227 -.137 -.313
My parents loved me / love me a lot. .110 -.083 .039 .221 .313
I am self conscious in a swim suit in public (pool, beach, etc.). .025 -.044 .032 .208 -.313
When I'm depressed I don't have much attention to give others. .270 0 0 0 -.312
My need to be loved may exceed my capacity to love. .320 -.033 -.013 -.040 -.311
I have an intense need to live the best life I can. .271 .346 .062 .154 .311
I am a thrill seeker compared to most people. .147 .458 -.118 .024 .311
My parents were wonderful. .069 -.109 .080 .263 .311
I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me. -.220 .184 .015 .111 .310
I need to be needed. .263 -.062 -.028 .331 -.310
I can be callous. .043 .194 .123 -.183 -.310
You can't expect people to reveal (be open about) who they really are. .077 .195 .177 -.051 -.310
I am my biggest fan. .309 .275 .094 -.148 .310
If I fix all my (imagined) external flaws, I can feel happy and lovable. .362 -.118 -.050 .112 -.309
I help my close trusted friends / significant other and no one else. .230 .013 .110 -.234 -.309
If I like someone romantically, it's hard for me to get over it if they are not into me. .271 .098 -.049 .177 -.309
I'm good at knowing whether I like someone. .008 .186 .031 .105 .309
If someone I romantically like says they are not interested in me enough to pursue things, I move on. .309
I would prefer a job where I worked alone. -.065 .192 .146 -.130 -.309
I'm prone to addiction. .252 .188 -.023 .059 -.308
I seek out positions of leadership. .524 .243 .059 .069 .308
The idea of dropping out of society to get more in tune with myself makes a lot of sense to me. -.117 .413 .009 -.009 -.308
I have trouble functioning when a romantic relationship I'm in is not going well. .334 .035 -.159 .254 -.308
My parents were very attentive to me. .308
There is nothing more important than fully living in the moment. .167 .243 .096 .153 .308
I prefer my romantic partner to initiate hooking up. .092 .126 .024 .215 -.307 (men)
I always know how to act. .333 .137 .162 .105 .306
I like people too much or not at all. .264 .230 .063 -.030 -.305
I see myself as open to new experiences, complex. .079 .369 -.057 .033 .305
superficial .542 .002 .127 -.159 -.304
Things that make me unattractive to others should be changed. .472 -.071 .021 .131 -.303
obscure .050 .592 .029 -.145 -.303
Things are never going to be perfect. -.303
I don't need any more anxiety in my life. .221 .110 -.002 .123 -.302
My worst fear is to be forgotten. .388 .097 -.072 .246 -.302
I have trouble functioning after a break up. .312 .023 -.197 .359 -.301
I know in my heart that I am a bully. .301 .149 .030 -.215 -.301
I am well groomed. .330 .018 .107 .237 .300
My worst fear is to be overlooked. .450 .051 -.023 .269 -.300
I can express my true feelings only when I drink. .225 .027 -.087 -.036 -.299
set place ooooo misplace (big 5 orderliness) .066 .389 -.177 .177 -.298
I get burnt out, fatiqued if I spend a lot of time helping others. .083 .162 .043 -.234 -.298
Enjoying being alive is more important than being unconventional. .016 .065 -.019 .127 .298
I believe in the power of prayer. .076 -.115 -.079 .272 .298
I cannot improve without changing who I am. .131 .026 .018 .129 -.298
I rarely give gifts. .080 .063 .195 -.256 -.297
I feel I must control every thought and every action perfectly. .277 .061 .358 .083 -.297
I am special and chosen. .375 .150 -.109 .074 .295
I enjoy seeing people I don't like suffer. .342 .105 .090 -.249 -.295
I tend to date very attractive people. .296 .162 .076 .000 .294
chaotic .107 .489 -.101 -.051 -.294
I become obsessed with manipulating how others feel about me. .437 .082 .045 .060 -.294
I don't need to change who I am to become a better person. .293
I ridicule others. .360 .022 .037 -.175 -.293
It doesn't matter if you like yourself if no one else likes you. .176 -.048 -.063 .095 -.293
Finding out my thinking about something important is wrong unsettles me. .162 .040 .145 .096 -.292
frugal -.100 -.025 .426 .014 -.292
I find most people irrational. .062 .333 .273 -.137 -.291
Even when I know I don't want to be with someone and I end things, it still takes me months to get over. .204 -.086 -.032 .154 -.291
I've never been 100% independent, self-reliant. .167 -.026 -.136 .167 -.290
calm -.053 .059 .144 .104 .289
I disregard others and look down on them with an arrogant eye. .230 .176 .080 -.255 -.288
Being logical doesn't really make me happy, but I'm compelled to be like that. .195 .069 .298 .046 -.288
I don't stay in a friendship if it makes me unhappy. .036 .255 .164 -.045 .298
appreciator ooooo appreciated .210 .052 -.005 -.231 .289
Existence is fascinating. .136 .401 .101 .180 .289
I have difficulty enduring even a mild degree of conflict with those close to me. .093 .009 .001 .253 -.288
I avoid doing chores until I have to do them. .164 .123 -.074 -.118 -.287
I'm more aware of what others think than what I think. .284 -.083 .005 .337 -.287
I am extremely ambitious. .335 .281 .117 .048 .286
My parents loved themselves more than they loved me. .062 .156 -.040 .005 -.286
I always know how I feel. .220 .072 .184 .075 .285
I like to stay under the radar. -.188 -.044 .212 .072 -.285
I don't think I'm particularly attractive but I prefer looking at my face in the mirror than looking at most other people's faces. .265 .068 .005 -.055 -.284
I am sincere. -.045 .037 .094 .337 .284
I have vigorous health. .284
I can sleep during the day, but not at night. .135 .227 .010 -.048 -.283
I rely on assurances from others. .328 -.091 -.200 .307 -.282
I believe goodness pervades reality. .112 .057 .001 .379 .281
My parents want to be closer to me than I want to be with them. .177 .146 .049 -.060 -.281
I generally have the upper hand in my romantic relationships. .163 .128 .060 -.046 .281
I take risks. .119 .570 -.013 -.043 .281
I had one or more intrusive parents. .125 .196 .004 .081 -.280
I dislike shopping for clothes. -.229 .189 .122 -.039 -.277
I am more often understimulated than overstimulated. .033 .126 .141 -.042 -.277
It doesn't make sense to lie. -.075 -.005 .039 .263 .277
I like myself more than I like anyone else. .278 .132 .158 -.196 .276
I wish my parents had paid more attention to me. -.276
My actions are predominately motivated by how they'll cause others to view me. .495 -.138 .055 .317 -.276
Respect is very important to me. .207 .084 .136 .224 .276
I am/was very close to my mother. .034 -.012 -.020 .134 .275 (women)
I enjoy insulting people. .309 .157 .088 -.412 -.275
I don't ever want to grow up. .102 .153 -.138 .025 -.274
We are responsible for who we are. .036 .205 .145 .178 .274
I like performing and/or speaking in front of an audience. .149 .247 -.021 .145 .274
I'm the type that needs to burn my hand on a hot stove to learn to stop putting my hand on a hot stove. .087 .214 -.031 .112 -.274
I had an ideal childhood. .273
I am overly accommodating to loved ones but no one else. .202 .008 .048 .014 -.273
I would be happy if I could avoid change/risk. .074 -.202 .215 .095 -.273
People are things to be used. .269 -.007 .181 -.388 -.273
I enjoy watching people be insulted. .244 .160 .102 -.407 -.272
I never worry about my looks. -.420 .220 .078 -.088 .272
I look up to my parents. .087 -.158 .005 .264 .272
I will cheat in order to win. .367 .160 -.052 -.188 -.272
The external is important but the internal is more important. -.135 .095 .031 .297 .272
I often find myself resenting people who give me orders. .137 .357 -.019 -.129 -.272
I am an ethical person. .022 .023 .121 .433 .271
I dislike intimacy (a person getting too close to me). -.271
If a relationship I really cared about didn't work out, it would be hard for me to stay in the same city with them. -.271
I am open to change. .046 .495 .100 .153 .269
Many of my dreams are about sex. .165 .159 .012 -.087 -.269
Most men are unfaithful to their wives now and then. .165 .159 .012 -.087 -.269
Civilizations usually don't last (i.e. they collapse, go extinct). .002 .296 .167 -.016 -.269
I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me. .335 .006 -.169 -.011 -.269
My awareness could best be described as a stream of feelings. .175 .228 -.330 .295 -.269
My mother was controlling and critical. .061 .175 .109 .133 -.268 (women)
Love is stronger than hate. -.140 .024 -.064 .289 .268
Stress makes me more social. .102 .175 .047 .028 .267
Deep down I'm a selfish person but I choose not to live that way. .330 .084 .004 -.091 -.267
I take really good care of things that I own. .037 .053 .301 .211 .267
I dislike people who are nice to everyone. .104 .215 .068 -.432 -.267
I am romantically attracted to people that sort of hate me, historically. .147 .121 -.155 -.089 -.267
I would rather be a film writer than a film actor. .200 .061 .186 .009 -.267
There's only so much happiness in the world and other people are hoarding it. .179 -.030 .079 .021 -.267
I am adaptable. .085 .327 .069 .161 .267
I wish my parents had told my I was special more as a child. .150 .016 .062 .098 -.265
I don't like admitting I'm wrong to others. .309 .126 -.026 -.255 -.265
I feel hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me. .418 .065 .062 .242 -.265
There's a lot of things I won't eat. .155 -.012 -.007 -.043 -.265
I fix my own problems. -.038 .246 .274 -.074 .265
servant .021 -.110 .080 .300 -.264
I relate to underdogs. -.110 .249 .002 .303 -.264
I'm not as helpful to others when I'm unhappy. .203 .101 .004 -.152 -.263
I'm more aware of what others feel than what I feel. .152 .008 .025 .414 -.263
I like to demean other people. .246 .085 .047 -.226 -.262
A lot of people in my life have tried to stab me in the back. .117 .242 .005 .088 -.262
intimate ooooo withholding .091 .054 .222 -.160 -.261
I get upset when things don't go my way. .479 .070 .003 .046 -.261
I would be happy if I cared even less about money/power/image. -.085 .166 .049 .287 -.261
I have historically spent a lot of my free time playing video games. -.019 .067 .229 -.123 -.261
I find it difficult to discuss emotions. .028 -.004 .144 -.008 -.261
I often prefer to express myself in writing. -.101 .182 .075 .075 -.261
I have visions of the future. .146 .119 .064 .178 .261
When my life doesn't make logical sense, I'm unhappy. .119 .001 .513 .032 -.261
If I get too close to someone romantically, I fear I'll have to relinquish too much of me. .071 .198 .085 -.041 -.261
I get chores done right away. .235 -.114 .156 .216 .260
I always know how I'm internally feeling. -.029 .159 .113 .110 .260
I had to remain a more silent type to really learn and develop an understanding of how things work. -.141 .142 .259 .039 -.260
We create ourselves. .066 .331 .071 .088 .259
It bothers me if people don't like me. .348 -.064 -.120 .392 -.259
thrifty -.127 .000 .349 .104 -.258
I am motivated by the desire to avoid attention. -.239 -.101 .195 .029 -.258
Change, when it occurs at all, follows long and arduous trying. .080 .012 .172 .098 -.258
I focus entirely on being obscure. .048 .240 .020 .075 -.258
I don't like to confess. .197 .035 .007 -.117 -.259
I can be insensitive to the feelings of others. .218 .254 .100 -.260 -.257
I depend on money from my parents and/or a significant other. .208 -.058 -.104 .010 -.257
I select romantic partners that are really into me or that I'm really into, but rarely do I find both. .243 .144 .057 .071 -.257
indifferent .046 .120 .188 -.253 -.256
I am overweight. -.255
I am physically attracted to my own gender. .049 .177 .015 .015 -.255 (women)
I can be needy in a romantic relationship. .393 .008 -.115 .161 -.255
I don't like admitting I'm wrong to myself .285 .097 -.058 -.157 -.255
I don't admire anyone. -.022 .086 .099 -.142 -.255
addictive tendencies .262 .217 -.116 -.004 -.255
I focus more on how much a romantic partner likes me than how much I like them. .345 .044 .063 .175 -.255
Once a week or more, I become very excited. .251 .219 -.121 .156 .254
I don't understand having pride in one's culture. .055 .183 .064 -.264 -.254
Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. .010 .315 .255 .024 .253
I am assertive romantically. .423 .128 -.050 .075 .253
I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart. .057 -.045 -.067 .352 .252
I tend to act out when I am being ignored. .516 .228 -.123 .118 -.252
I (or my guardian) can't afford the rent/mortgage.- .251 (physical security / poverty)
I don't want kids. -.101 .191 .067 -.256 -.251
I am overstimulated easily. .193 .042 -.058 .057 -.251
If I don't reply to a text message, I probably don't want to talk to the person again. .184 .116 .103 -.021 -.251
I am/was very close to my father. -.086 -.177 .014 .039 .251 (men)
I feel best when I am taking risks. .192 .507 -.116 -.083 .251
If I end a relationship, it makes me feel bad if the other person is fine with that. .243 .018 -.070 .155 -.251
Happiness is found internally. -.153 .211 .112 .123 .251
unkind .172 .090 .099 -.545 -.250
I dislike physical/manual labor of any kind. .181 -.029 .028 -.130 -.250
My parents are extremely important to me. .121 -.084 .044 .355 .250
Love is my supreme virtue. .063 .123 -.072 .488 .249
People have to be responsible for their own actions. .105 .182 .273 .053 .249
I always treat others as I would like to be treated. -.099 .099 .136 .385 .249
I am manipulative. .299 .247 .050 -.174 -.249
It's hard for me to put myself out their romantically when I like someone. -.248
I spend a lot of time analyzing other people. .194 .269 .151 .094 -.247
I prefer one on one interaction to group interaction. -.093 .221 .037 .025 -.247
I don't think exercise is as important as people say it is. -.247
I lack remorse when I do something wrong. women .154 .077 -.044 -.352 -.246
My feet frequently get cold. -.246
I am very aware of my value compared to others. .251 .133 .189 -.014 .246
I like to be challenged by others. .052 .369 .178 -.034 .246
My need to be appreciated exceeds my capacity to appreciate others. .493 -.026 .031 -.130 -.246
I am selfless/considerate when it comes to those close to me but selfish/inconsiderate when it comes to strangers. .166 .036 .232 -.143 -.246
I dislike small talk, but I enjoy talking in depth about topics that matter to me. -.014 .298 .201 -.034 -.245
I want a job where only my skill set matters not my ability to be navigate the social architecture. -.066 .203 .156 -.089 -.245
I am a considerate jerk. .125 .164 .027 -.083 -.244
There's not much more for me to learn in life. -.244
I am guided primarily by my intuition. .103 .279 .028 .098 .244
I don't understand ethnic pride. .081 .135 .101 -.234 -.243
The world should be as I want it to be, but I can still be happy if/when it isn't. .148 .138 .174 .154 .243 (20% stronger loadings for females on vitality)
When I am depressed, I desire more social interaction. .173 -.057 -.139 .131 .242
It's my nature to be unhelpful to others but I'm not sure I want to continue being that way. .193 .104 .060 -.295 -.242
I can't make it on my own. .143 -.167 -.089 .058 -.242
I have a lot of pride. .300 .201 .134 -.090 .242
prestigious ooooo unprestigious -.176 .072 -.052 .311 -.241
Jobs are for suckers. .021 .211 -.065 -.132 -.240
I am attracted to jerks. .288 .088 -.140 .021 -.240
My friends tend to be assholes to others. .202 .202 .075 -.237 -.240
If something makes me happy, I don't over think why. .240
I'm more likely to pursue someone I'm certain likes me than someone I'm certain I like. .178 -.077 .157 .072 -.240
When I'm romantically hooking up with someone, I am prone to imagine someone else. .177 .146 -.022 -.118 -.240
Freedom of action and thought is very important to me. .039 .461 .169 .008 .239
I'm all about no regrets. -.014 .272 -.018 -.035 .239
I enjoy watching the Olympics. .158 -.047 .064 .161 .239
I've gone through a lot of phases. .160 .267 -.023 .150 -.239
I have boundary issues. .222 .162 .034 -.014 -.239
I avoid spending my time just sitting around resting. .238
Everyone uses everyone, that is the norm. .292 .150 .166 -.172 -.238
I sometimes grovel to win people back. .344 .005 -.017 .230 -.238
I've gotten more enjoyment out of music that most anything else in life. .043 .248 -.166 .126 -.238
I am often skeptical, critical, and evaluative. .161 .194 .501 -.145 -.237
When something is right, you just know. .031 .192 .011 .108 .237
I regularly assess my life path as to whether I'm living my life optimally, and make changes if I decide I'm not. .208 .223 .144 .136 .237
I believe in being accountable. .046 -.036 .238 .329 .239
clean ooooo messy (big 5 orderliness) -.045 .373 -.106 .020 -.238
It is important for me to maintain positive feelings in those around me, at all costs. .136 .151 .020 .445 .236
I tend to focus on how disconnected/different I am from others. .265 .442 .081 .061 -.236
I act towards others as I wish others to act towards me. -.102 .082 .132 .416 .235
In classrooms, I prefer lectures to seminars. -.075 -.015 .206 .003 -.235
My desires exceed my consideration. .362 .144 .048 -.121 -.234
Music is the most important thing in my life. .156 .186 -.091 .119 -.234
Everything tastes the same. -.234
I often let calls go to voice mail. -.233
The future is more important than the past. .097 .133 .227 .081 .233
I need attention but I'm unwilling to work to get it. .206 .008 .005 .055 -.233
I'm a picky eater. .182 -.004 .002 -.065 -.232
I am preoccupied with myself. .414 .009 .077 -.191 -.231
I prefer to fly under the radar. -.137 .084 .182 .091 -.231
I'm impulsive in my actions. .232 .271 -.207 .102 -.230
It bothers me if people don't like me. .483 -.174 -.089 .273 -.230
My hand eye coordination is not very good. -.230
I respect authority. .130 -.226 .025 .267 .230
I have a secret life. .146 .336 -.003 -.022 -.230
My spiritual life is very important to me. .096 .110 -.145 .345 .230
My parents were both overly complimentary and rejecting, alternately. .196 .226 -.067 .070 -.230
I am good at finding things. .002 .133 .278 .195 .229
My friends are very similar to me. .228
I am as interested in why people dislike me as I am in why they like me. .250 .111 .089 .163 -.228
I will twist the truth and distort reality in order to achieve my goals. .309 .272 -.001 -.187 -.228
I have had 'crushes' on people that were so intense that they were painful. .196 .275 -.079 .200 -.228
I tend to take what people say literally as i often don't pick up on subtext. .192 -.155 .078 .082 -.228
Being honest limits your opportunities in a bad way. .328 .135 .128 -.135 -.227
I could be happy without having kids. -.066 .195 .116 -.175 -.227
I am very unsystematic. .100 .236 -.240 .005 -.227
I find obscurity to be rewarding. -.070 .392 .019 -.035 -.227
Romantically, the burden is on the other person to prove they love me. .228 0 0 0 -.227
I would be happy if I looked out for my own interests more. .235 -.040 .084 .139 -.226
My moods carry me through life, they are my track/foundation. .290 .213 -.256 .171 -.226
I am overly concerned with my attractiveness. .694 .030 -.065 .059 -.226
I have almost no sex drive. -.175 -.031 .196 .018 -.226
I am/was very close to my mother. .005 -.028 .047 .152 .225 (men)
I would be willing to kill for a cause I believed in. .173 .269 .185 -.088 -.225
I rarely feel self-conscious in a strange group. .007 .248 -.073 .024 .225
Traditions are important. .141 -.268 -.026 .310 .225
My parents are my foundation. .210 -.058 .099 .159 .225
I have hit someone in anger. .168 .019 -.058 -.203 -.224
Anyone can become great. -.071 .115 .006 .349 .224
I don't take no for an answer. .333 .265 -.041 -.045 .224
I am self-centered. .411 .107 .048 -.149 -.223
I attack others. .301 .118 -.041 -.151 -.223
People describe me as soft spoken and mellow. -.111 -.077 .247 .174 -.223
I am obsessive. .258 .300 .060 .112 -.223
I find not having to be in control rewarding. -.385 .030 -.071 .021 -.222
Even if I know I don't like someone enough for it to work long term, it can hurt if they break up with me. .208 .029 .029 .244 -.222
When I am depressed, I desire less attention. -.220
I am very sensitive to the lighting of a room. .104 .214 .053 .081 -.227
When I'm feeling stressed, I am less inclined to want to hang out with friends. -.091 .002 .144 -.092 -.227
I expect immediate gratification. .537 .079 -.055 -.062 -.226
The average person out there doesn't realize how easily they can be deceived by a clever operator. .163 .273 .234 -.048 -.220
I tend to pursue people I think will work out in my head, but then lack sufficient physical interest in. .074 .202 .026 -.018 -.220
privacy ooooo attention .522 .094 -.079 -.120 -.220
I am a very organized person. .072 -.205 .200 .123 .219
I only care about the people close to me. .235 .087 .226 -.300 -.219
I don't enjoy multitasking. -.219
The normal rules don't apply to me. .229 .473 -.077 -.092 -.218
I only really need a romantic partner, I can live without friends. .210 .123 .095 -.050 -.218
I enjoy work that allows me to dive in with few interruptions. -.027 .195 .382 .054 -.218
I grew up in a family that prioritized cognition. .249 .034 .200 .078 .218
I am very skilled at seduction. .336 .237 -.057 .053 .218
I do not acknowledge internal contradictions. .231 -.078 -.146 -.010 -.217
I have imaginary conversations in my head regarding whoever I care the most about romantically. .207 .272 -.091 .132 -.216
The people I like the most, make me smile the most. .160 .130 .025 .195 .216
When I talk about my problems to someone close to me, I desire to have my emotions validated, not hear solutions. .195 .054 -.121 .115 -.216 female
I'd rather be more attractive (than I am) than have a more attractive romantic partner (than I could normally get). .262 -.074 -.030 .107 -.215
I am obsessive about things that interest me. .167 .410 .070 .014 -.215
I seldom joke around. -.052 -.119 .136 -.133 -.214
I am dependent on the support and nurturance of others. .236 -.069 -.136 .319 -.214
Just because ever civilization up till now has collapsed doesn't mean the current one will. .177 -.018 .037 .166 .214
I take more than I give. .288 -.015 .050 -.577 -.213
I wonder a lot about my fate, my destiny. .231 .283 -.069 .302 -.213
I think a fair amount about my long-term career goals. .167 .038 .271 .201 .213
I am sexually aroused by things that I think are bad. .201 .184 -.068 .041 -.213
I enjoy lying, duping others. .428 .061 .046 -.215 -.213
Sometimes the best path for me is the most unpleasant. .048 .302 .100 .150 -.212
I enjoy projects which involve long stretches of solitary activity. -.082 .077 .285 .019 -.212
The ways of those with whom I live, and probably always shall live, are as different from mine as moonlight is from sunshine. .043 .378 .082 -.150 -.212
I like to keep my spaces clean. .160 -.066 .140 .228 .211
I don't use happiness to define the quality of my life. -.096 .074 .117 .020 -.211
Enjoying being alive is more important than being attractive. -.369 .127 .023 .124 .210
I can be needy in a romantic relationship. .475 -.029 -.186 .263 -.210
I am impatient. .274 .242 -.230 -.055 -.210
I don't believe in luck. -.114 .092 .292 -.093 -.208
I am a grammar nazi. .006 .029 .160 -.057 -.208
Talented people shouldn't have to work hard. -.211
I don't believe in social responsibility. .095 .272 .031 -.300 -.210
I am very particular about who/how I am, but it's entirely for me, not to please/impress anyone else on this planet. -.211 .477 .166 -.166 .210
I am more intolerant than tolerant. .250 .050 .034 -.208 -.209
I am dependent on my parents. .143 -.046 -.100 -.026 -.208
I am vain. .411 .080 .009 -.100 -.208
There is nothing impossible to him who will try. .065 .335 .059 .261 .208
I would be a terrorist for a cause I believed in. .159 .307 .075 -.115 -.208
I have to have a lot in common to be friends with someone. .208
I am never happier than when I am by myself. .009 .090 .123 -.208 -.207
It's easy for me to cut off friends. .134 .214 .145 -.235 -.207
Having more than two kids is very foolish. .131 .159 .331 -.202 -.207
Whether or not I know it, there's definitely a formula to happiness. .246 -.049 .055 .207 .197
It is very important that I am liked and I will bend the truth if I have to to ensure that. .453 -.120 .025 .018 -.208
I do things that impress me. .419 .304 .121 .031 .207
I am dependent and demanding. .380 -.057 -.021 -.002 -.206
I can always see how I relate/connect to others. .146 .237 .116 .270 .206
It is a disgrace to appear to be wrong. .360 -.025 .062 -.040 -.206
I want to follow a path in life which is ambitious, unconventional, logical, beneficial to the world, and makes me happy. .163 .384 .172 .129 .206
I am financially wealthy. .239 .052 .081 -.046 .205
I focus entirely on avoiding the spotlight. -.183 .123 .223 .161 -.205
I don't need to be any better than I am. -.150 .033 -.040 -.074 .205
I view obligation as a position of weakness and vulnerability to other's control. .143 .301 .024 -.159 .204
I don't believe in right and wrong. .072 .268 -.013 -.235 -.204
I would rather be too mean than too nice. .229 .129 .114 -.313 -.203
I find appreciating others rewarding. .066 .030 -.024 .612 .202
I am afraid to be alone in the dark. .146 -.035 -.157 .099 -.202
The truth is more important than my image. -.304 .242 .148 .137 .202
Things other people find disturbing interest me. .121 .488 .056 -.092 -.202
explorer .098 .620 .149 .235 .201
I have engaged in bullying. .253 .081 .071 -.093 -.201
Ignoring or pushing people away you don't like enough is important. .272 .216 .183 -.206 -.201
I dislike manual labor. .225 .089 -.078 -.118 -.201
I can be condescending to people. .185 .158 .134 -.195 -.204
I'd rather put problems/mistakes behind me, instead of taking responsibility for them / figuring out what caused them. .132 .074 -.139 -.117 -.200


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