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Female / Male Differences


item

female

male

anskey

difference

I do strength training every day.

0.97

2.10

0-6

115.69%

I value female attention more than male attention.

2.00

4.12

0-6

106.00%

I go running every day.

0.73

1.42

0-6

94.07%

I do not enjoy watching dance performances.

1.10

1.97

0-5

79.09%

Wealthier people should be treated better.

0.80

1.41

0-6

76.25%

I could handle being a drone pilot who had to kill enemy soldiers.  

1.64

2.86

0-6

74.11%

More attractive people should be treated better.

0.91

1.53

0-6

68.13%

I prefer sexually submissive romantic partners.

1.89

3.13

0-6

65.61%

I identify as a conservative.

1.01

1.67

0-6

64.93%

Social inequality is not a big deal.

1.05

1.73

0-6

64.29%

People with higher social status should be treated better.

0.94

1.54

0-6

63.83%

Directly or indirectly I've chosen the life path of a salesperson.

1.03

1.67

0-6

62.79%

My ego is bigger than my heart.

1.38

2.22

0-6

60.87%

I am politically conservative.

1.28

2.04

0-6

59.49%

I don't like romantic comedies.

1.12

1.75

0-5

56.25%

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood.

2.48

3.83

0-6

54.44%

I'm a politician.

0.98

1.50

0-6

53.59%

If my favorite type of shoes became associated with being gay, I would no longer be comfortable wearing those shoes.

1.12

1.72

0-5

53.57%

I dislike artistic types.  

0.97

1.48

0-6

52.58%

I can run very fast.

2.35

3.50

0-6

48.94%

I value male attention more than female attention.

3.58

1.87

0-6

47.77%

No matter how bad life gets, I get through it.

1.30

1.92

0-6

47.69%

I think every individual should be responsible for the cost of their own medical care.

1.51

2.23

0-6

47.55%

I am better at math than art.

1.44

2.12

0-5

47.22%

I do not make lists.

1.28

1.87

0-5

46.09%

I don't get embarrassed.

1.41

2.05

0-6

45.93%

Even if something bad is about to happen to me, I rarely experience fear or nervousness.  

1.86

2.70

1-5

45.16%

I think wearing makeup is superficial.

1.46

2.11

0-5

44.52%

I'm the type of person that thinks of escaping into a world where everything is solved using equations.

1.44

2.07

0-6

43.75%

I would rather read a history book than a mystery novel.

1.40

2.00

0-5

42.86%

I don't love anything.

0.95

1.35

0-6

42.11%

I do more upper body exercise.

1.78

2.52

0-6

41.63%

I cry easily.

2.09

1.22

0-5

41.63%

I believe that all events can be explained scientifically.

1.47

2.08

0-5

41.50%

I have been on anti depressants for long periods of time.

1.16

0.69

0-6

40.52%

I see myself calm, emotionally stable.

2.00

2.80

0-6

39.71%

Patriotism is my oxygen.

1.09

1.52

0-6

39.15%

I would prefer to go out with someone better looking than me.

1.84

2.56

0-5

39.13%

Even if something bad is about to happen to me, I rarely experience fear or nervousness.

1.86

2.57

0-6

38.17%

I treat wealthy people better than I treat poor people.

1.01

1.40

0-6

38.09%

I am immune to social shame.

1.64

2.25

0-6

37.12%

In a romantic relationship, my significant other should pay when we go out to dinner.  

2.83

1.78

1-5

37.10%

I would be interested in running for political office.

1.33

1.82

0-6

36.72%

I don't think anyone is awesome.  

1.48

2.02

0-6

36.49%

I cry during movies.

2.55

1.62

0-5

36.47%

I prefer good engineering over attractive design.

1.73

2.36

0-5

36.42%

I rarely stop to think about what other people think, feel, and expect.

1.86

2.53

0-6

36.02%

I am a cold person.

1.85

2.51

0-6

35.68%

I think I could have been happy ending up with any of the people I've seriously dated.

2.09

2.83

0-6

35.41%

I generally initiate sex more often than my partner in a romantic relationship.

2.51

3.39

1-5

35.06%

When I'm in a romantic relationship, my significant other pays when we go out to dinner.

2.90

1.89

1-5

34.83%

I prefer careers which entail some sort of technical specialty (law, engineering, medicine, etc.).

1.84

2.48

0-5

34.78%

I only lay down if I'm sleepy.

1.80

2.42

0-6

34.19%

I think astrology is worthless.

1.74

2.33

0-5

33.91%

I believe that crying helps me feel better.

2.45

1.62

0-5

33.88%

I do a lot of cardiovascular exercise but don't put much effort into my appearance beyond that.

1.54

2.05

0-6

33.16%

Helping people hurts people.

1.24

1.65

0-6

33.06%

I do not enjoy going to art museums.

1.91

2.54

0-6

32.98%

I am interested in science.

2.11

2.80

0-5

32.70%

In a romantic relationship, my significant other should pay when we on trips.  

2.61

1.77

1-5

32.18%

I lack remorse when I do something wrong.  

1.69

2.23

0-6

31.95%

When I'm in a romantic relationship, my significant other pays when we go on trips.  

2.70

1.86

1-5

31.11%

I am small sized person.

1.77

1.22

0-5

31.07%

I like to dress plainly.

1.74

2.28

0-5

31.03%

Diversity leads to instability.

1.53

2.00

0-6

31.03%

Problems in a romantic relationship hurt the relationship not me.  

1.72

2.25

0-6

30.81%

I don't have a conscience.

1.24

1.61

0-6

30.47%

If society was one big boat, I would want to be captain of it.

1.69

2.20

0-6

30.26%

I don't admire anyone.

1.43

1.86

0-6

30.07%

I'm devoted to my country.

1.75

2.28

0-6

29.95%

Inclusion is not important.

1.42

1.84

0-6

29.88%

My alcohol tolerance is very high

2.15

2.79

0-6

29.77%

I have spent a lot of time thinking about my wedding day (prior to it's occurrence).  

2.42

1.70

1-5

29.75%

I identify as an attention whore.

2.75

1.93

0-6

29.73%

I would have no problem being in a monogamous sexual relationship with someone who I did not have strong feelings for if the other person understood that and seemed fine with it.  

2.02

2.62

1-5

29.70%

I have had a picture of a best friend as the screen saver of my phone.  

2.70

1.90

1-5

29.63%

My feet frequently get cold.

3.38

2.38

0-6

29.59%

I am a naturally good dancer.

1.91

1.35

0-5

29.32%

I like shopping for clothes.  

3.59

2.57

1-5

28.41%

I spend time on celebrity news / discussion sites.

1.80

1.29

0-6

28.11%

I pray at night before I go to bed.

1.50

1.08

0-6

27.85%

If I was put in isolation with only food and water I would not last very long.

2.99

2.16

0-6

27.76%

I prefer receiving criticisms to receiving complements.

2.04

2.60

0-6

27.68%

I like to pull pranks on people.

2.32

2.96

0-6

27.59%

I am physically attracted to my own gender.

1.56

1.13

0-6

27.56%

My sex drive is very high.

3.21

4.09

0-6

27.41%

I follow trends.

2.83

2.05

0-6

27.40%

I value a partner's visual attractiveness more than instinctual unexplainable physical attraction.

2.12

2.70

0-6

27.36%

I want to be a desirable–someone that others must pay attention to.

4.10

2.98

0-6

27.29%

I get upset when people don't notice how I look when I go out in public.

1.87

1.36

0-6

27.27%

I was born to compete.

2.27

2.89

0-6

27.24%

I am disinterested in sex.

1.71

1.25

0-6

26.90%

I identify as a relaxer.

2.74

3.47

0-6

26.81%

I am better at math than writing.  

2.11

2.67

1-5

26.54%

My need to be appreciated by others is very low.

1.96

2.48

0-6

26.53%

I see myself as calm, emotionally stable.

3.06

3.87

0-6

26.47%

I'm not afraid of anything.

1.80

2.27

0-6

26.36%

I flirt with other people's significant others.

1.24

1.57

0-6

26.23%

I am unemotional.  

1.92

2.42

1-5

26.04%

I should have a better life than others.

2.23

2.81

0-6

26.01%

I'm very comfortable with people hating me.

2.18

2.74

0-6

25.93%

I felt rejected by my mother.

1.62

1.20

0-6

25.93%

Cute babies make me go awww.  

3.88

2.88

1-5

25.77%

I find not being who I am rewarding.  

1.75

2.20

1-5

25.71%

When it comes to romantic hook ups, I worry about things like whether a potential hook-up might use me as an excuse to brag to their friends.  

2.65

1.97

1-5

25.66%

Fitness is very important to me.

2.55

3.19

0-6

25.37%

I don't think I could be friends with a member of the opposite sex if I knew they found me physically unattractive.

2.34

1.75

0-6

25.24%

What makes rational sense is the most important guide.

3.35

4.19

1-5

25.07%

I just can't wait to wake up everyday.

1.52

1.90

0-6

25.07%

The best use of money is to show off.

1.36

1.02

0-6

25.06%

I can't take criticism.

3.66

2.75

0-6

24.90%

If person A was an 8 on looks, 6 on intelligence, and person B was a 6 on looks, 8 on intelligence, I'd prefer dating person A.  

2.30

2.87

1-5

24.78%

I think every individual should be responsible for the cost of their own medical care.

1.43

1.78

0-6

24.56%

I'm dramatic.

3.68

2.79

0-6

24.18%

I think I would excel as a comedy writer.  

2.11

2.62

1-5

24.17%

I am weak and need a stronger person to carry me through life.

1.78

1.35

0-6

24.16%

I generally initiate sex more often than my partner in a romantic relationship.  

2.58

3.20

1-5

24.03%

I am somewhat androgynous.

2.50

1.91

0-6

23.84%

I'm uncomfortable having friends that are better looking than me.

1.93

1.47

0-6

23.83%

I tend to be the pursuer in my romantic relationships.

2.65

3.28

0-6

23.77%

I can sell people anything.

1.86

2.30

0-6

23.65%

My needs for closeness and emotional safety overwhelm me.

2.93

2.24

0-6

23.55%

I like to brag.

1.83

2.26

0-6

23.50%

I do more lower body exercise.

2.92

2.23

0-6

23.46%

I believe in ghosts.

3.35

2.57

0-6

23.43%

I like to be physically exhausted.

2.61

3.22

0-6

23.37%

A strong military is necessary because warfare is a part of human nature.

2.27

2.80

0-6

23.31%

I experience supernatural guidance.  

2.06

1.58

0-6

23.30%

I would enjoy working in research and development.  

2.69

3.31

1-5

23.05%

I can be insensitive to the feelings of others.

2.57

3.16

0-6

22.96%

I am a grammar nazi.

3.51

2.71

0-6

22.79%

I am very considerate of my own feelings but not so considerate of other people's feelings.  

2.02

2.48

1-5

22.77%

I'm dangerous.

2.16

2.65

0-6

22.71%

Everything is about sex.

1.59

1.95

0-6

22.71%

I am more comfortable being the appreciator than the appreciated, as far as the physical dynamic in a romantic relationship.

2.81

3.44

0-6

22.42%

I am lost without someone to help me make important decisions.

3.18

2.47

0-6

22.40%

I find not helping others rewarding.  

1.52

1.86

1-5

22.37%

I find submissive types very attractive romantically.  

2.29

2.80

1-5

22.27%

I find dependent types very attractive romantically.  

2.29

2.80

1-5

22.27%

I could be happy if no one liked me.

1.89

2.31

1-5

22.22%

I am calculating.  

2.94

3.59

1-5

22.11%

I can be condescending to people.

2.82

3.44

0-6

21.99%

I'm more emotional than logical.  

2.66

3.24

1-5

21.80%

I do volunteer work for the disadvantaged frequently.  

3.13

2.45

1-5

21.73%

I enjoy fights over high value resources.

1.70

2.07

0-6

21.61%

I would enjoy selling people things.

2.01

2.45

0-6

21.60%

I get physically ill when things aren't going well for me.

3.20

2.51

0-6

21.56%

Faith is for fools.  

2.24

2.72

1-5

21.43%

I do not need the validation of my parents.

2.72

3.30

0-6

21.32%

I exercise regularly.

2.82

3.42

1-5

21.28%

Hiearchy and inequality are natural.

2.67

3.23

0-6

21.25%

I talk to at least one of my parents every day.

4.15

3.27

0-6

21.20%

I sexualize every interaction.

1.77

2.15

0-6

21.17%

Very little moves my heart.  

2.27

2.75

1-5

21.15%

I have tended to date people who are nicer than me.

2.65

3.21

0-6

21.13%

The more decisions I have to make the happier I am.

1.86

2.25

0-6

21.09%

Most people are better than me.

2.94

2.32

0-6

21.09%

I'm really sensitive.

4.34

3.43

0-6

21.06%

I need someone to help me make important decisions.

3.54

2.80

0-6

21.03%

Stress makes me more social.  

1.38

1.67

0-6

21.01%

I like to dress up as people I admire.

2.32

1.83

0-6

21.00%

I have shallow emotions.

1.86

2.25

0-6

20.97%

I'm always looking for the best situation for myself regardless of whether it's good for anyone else.

2.39

2.89

0-6

20.92%

I'd rather be more attractive (than I am) than have a more attractive romantic partner (than I could normally get).

3.31

2.62

0-6

20.85%

I can't keep a secret.

1.79

1.42

0-6

20.80%

I am attracted to romantic partners who are very clingy.  

2.27

2.74

1-5

20.70%

I am more calm than worrying.  

2.90

3.50

1-5

20.69%

Doing things based on convention or instinct without regard to what makes rational sense, is foolish.  

2.76

3.33

1-5

20.65%

I identify as fashionable.

3.43

2.72

0-6

20.64%

I would have no problem being in a monogamous sexual relationship with someone who I did not have strong feelings for.  

1.94

2.34

1-5

20.62%

I am unhappy when not in a romantic relationship.  

2.21

2.66

0-6

20.36%

I can't handle criticism.

3.41

2.72

0-6

20.24%

Romantically, I confess I've tended to look for / desire / expect more of a parent figure than an equal partner.

1.78

2.14

0-6

20.22%

I identify as a sex object.

1.47

1.18

0-6

20.21%

I am my biggest fan.  

2.13

2.56

0-6

20.19%

Nothing is more important than critical thinking.

3.32

3.99

0-6

20.18%

I am not easily bothered by things.  

2.73

3.28

1-5

20.15%

I have spent a lot of time thinking about my wedding day (prior to even being engaged).  

2.29

1.83

1-5

20.09%

Marriage benefits women more than men.  

2.34

2.81

1-5

20.09%

I'm the smartest person I know.  

2.35

2.82

1-5

20.00%

I cherish mementos.

2.80

2.24

0-5

20.00%

Showoff would be a good way to describe me.

1.50

1.80

0-6

19.99%

I have a really hard time trusting my intuition.

3.15

2.52

0-6

19.85%

I am emotional.

4.30

3.44

0-6

19.84%

Cute kittens make me go awww.  

3.92

3.15

1-5

19.64%

I find other people unrewarding.

1.94

2.32

0-6

19.59%

I identify as an empath.

3.71

2.99

0-6

19.52%

I've always been one of the cool kids.

1.85

2.21

0-6

19.45%

I'm more insensitive than sensitive.  

2.11

2.52

1-5

19.43%

I couldn't date someone less attractive than me.

1.86

2.22

0-6

19.40%

I almost never get sick.

3.30

3.94

0-6

19.39%

I identify as a trickster.

2.32

2.77

0-6

19.39%

When it comes to romantic partner preference I have a bias towards whoever activates my sexual organs.

2.75

3.28

0-6

19.37%

I don't feel empathy for most people.  

2.17

2.59

1-5

19.35%

It's hard for me to do things that don't make me feel attractive.

3.28

2.64

0-6

19.34%

I'm carefree.

2.35

2.80

0-6

19.33%

Causing trouble is my favorite thing to do.

1.62

1.93

0-6

19.29%

I tend to think before I speak.

3.36

4.00

0-6

19.05%

I like to show off.

2.47

2.94

0-6

19.03%

I don't want to change who I am.

2.59

3.08

0-6

18.95%

I identify as a hero.

1.27

1.52

0-6

18.93%

In romantic relationships, it's normal for the guy to like the girl more.

2.22

2.64

0-6

18.92%

I spend my time in fancy places.

1.52

1.80

0-6

18.82%

I like being criticised.  

2.02

2.40

1-5

18.81%

I still have some attraction to every person I've ever been seriously involved with.  

2.82

3.35

1-5

18.79%

I see myself anxious, easily upset.

4.50

3.66

0-6

18.75%

I remain calm under pressure.

3.31

3.93

1-5

18.73%

I'm preoccupied with how I look.

4.15

3.38

0-6

18.69%

I prefer to feel things out than analytically figure them out.

3.21

2.61

0-6

18.69%

I take more than I give.

2.09

2.48

0-6

18.66%

My parents were affectionate with me but not each other.

2.05

2.43

0-6

18.54%

I'm always open to being wrong about what I think.

3.14

3.72

1-5

18.47%

I judge myself through other people's eyes.

4.16

3.39

0-6

18.43%

I have tended to date people who are meaner than me.  

2.62

2.14

0-6

18.32%

It's difficult for me to consider the feelings of others.  

1.86

2.20

1-5

18.28%

I feel entitled to exploit.

1.78

2.11

0-6

18.27%

I pretend to be concerned for others.

2.08

2.46

0-6

18.27%

I'm not good at taking jokes about myself.  

2.70

2.21

0-6

18.15%

Our responsibility to our fellow countrymen is of the utmost importance.

2.05

2.42

0-6

18.11%

Being challenged by my friends is more important to me than being supported/affirmed by them.  

2.21

2.61

1-5

18.10%

I could be seriously romantically involved with someone who liked me less than I liked then.

2.27

2.68

0-6

18.06%

I influence others more by data and facts, not with feelings; I tend to be emotionally controlled.  

2.16

2.55

1-5

18.06%

I am uneasy with chaos.

3.54

2.90

0-6

18.06%

I would rather be the appreciator than the appreciated romantically.  

2.61

3.08

0-6

18.01%

I identify as a depressive.

4.24

3.48

0-6

18.00%

I want to be an entertainer.

2.44

2.88

0-6

17.98%

I am an artist.

3.15

2.59

0-6

17.98%

Use only that which works, and take it from any place you can find it.  

3.06

3.61

0-6

17.97%

An internally consistent feeling state is more important than an internally consistent logic/rationality.  

3.12

2.56

1-5

17.95%

I avoid thinking about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me.

3.40

2.79

1-5

17.94%

Without sex, life would be very boring.

2.70

3.18

0-6

17.71%

I prefer friends that challenge me and just think I'm ok to friends that don't challenge me and think I'm awesome.

3.06

3.60

0-6

17.65%

Family loyalty is more important than right and wrong.

2.14

2.51

0-6

17.56%

Someone having good artistic tastes means everything to me.

3.43

2.83

0-6

17.50%

I identify as an organizer.

2.49

2.05

0-6

17.48%

I want to be society's ideal.

2.87

2.37

0-6

17.47%

I'm more likely to initiate hand holding of the person I'm dating than vice versa.  

2.64

3.10

1-5

17.42%

I'd rather be dead than ignored.

3.58

2.96

0-6

17.34%

I use my physical appearance to draw attention to myself.

2.81

2.33

0-6

17.30%

I take naps regularly.

3.16

2.61

0-6

17.29%

I have conned others for personal profit or pleasure.  

2.03

2.38

1-5

17.24%

My father was more dominant than my mother.

2.73

3.20

0-6

17.22%

A scientific man ought to have no wishes, no affections.

2.68

3.14

0-6

17.16%

I have an innate lack of respect for most people.

2.45

2.87

0-6

17.15%

I want to be famous.

2.51

2.94

0-6

17.13%

I'm an anarchist.

2.33

2.73

0-6

17.13%

I change for the sake of changing.

3.14

2.60

0-6

17.12%

The theme of my life is feeling like I'm being left out.

3.93

3.26

0-6

17.05%

Physical attractiveness is only really important as an indication of physical health.

2.64

3.09

0-6

17.05%

I find it very hard to lie.  

3.11

2.58

0-6

17.04%

I have to talk about my feelings for hours to realize how I'm actually feeling.

3.48

2.89

0-6

17.02%

Prayer is easier/lazier than action.  

3.24

3.79

0-6

16.98%

I only care about myself.

1.77

2.07

0-6

16.95%

I would classify my relationship with my parents as more mental than emotional.

2.84

3.32

1-5

16.90%

I prefer romantic partners that enhance my image.  

2.55

2.98

0-6

16.86%

My awareness could best be described as a stream of feelings.

3.69

3.07

0-6

16.80%

The scientific method is the best tool in existence for ascertaining objective truth.

2.80

3.27

1-5

16.79%

I'd rather hang out with people better than me.

2.52

2.94

0-6

16.76%

I am a capitalist.  

2.45

2.86

1-5

16.73%

Doing things based on convention or instinct without regard to what makes rational sense, is foolish.

2.93

3.42

1-5

16.72%

I like buying clothes at thrift stores.  

2.99

2.49

1-5

16.72%

My feelings are easily hurt by ridicule or the slighting remarks of others.  

3.47

2.89

1-5

16.71%

Nothing is more valuable than attention.

2.37

1.97

0-6

16.69%

I want to build a brand.

2.40

2.80

0-6

16.66%

Everyone is a jerk.

3.19

2.66

0-6

16.65%

I identify as a nerd.

2.57

2.99

0-6

16.65%

I spend my time in unfamiliar places.

1.98

2.30

0-6

16.63%

I identify as a prince/princess.

1.36

1.14

0-6

16.61%

I have a fear of public speaking.  

3.33

2.78

1-5

16.52%

I find arrogant types very attractive romantically.  

2.06

1.72

1-5

16.50%

I want to advance my tribe.

2.62

3.05

0-6

16.49%

Logical thinking is my oxygen.

3.46

4.03

0-6

16.47%

I would be more motivated if the world was more attractive.

2.55

2.97

0-6

16.47%

I'm a very sexual person.

3.05

3.56

0-6

16.47%

I constantly compare myself to others and feel like I'm better than them.

2.24

2.61

0-6

16.46%

I prefer sexually dominant romantic partners.

3.59

3.00

0-6

16.43%

I am good at ignoring unpleasant feelings.  

2.81

3.27

0-6

16.37%

I have status anxiety.

3.45

2.88

0-6

16.37%

I frequently remember my dreams (when sleeping).

3.73

3.12

0-6

16.35%

What makes rational sense is the most important guide.  

3.00

3.49

1-5

16.33%

If I can't come up with rational reasons to do something, I don't do it.  

2.64

3.07

1-5

16.29%

I am politically liberal.

3.85

3.22

0-6

16.24%

I don't do anything that would get me in trouble with superiors.

3.33

2.79

0-6

16.16%

I was my mother's favorite child.  

3.04

3.53

0-6

16.12%

I put effort into my outfits.

4.29

3.60

0-6

16.10%

I rarely feel happy in response to minor events.

2.36

2.74

0-6

16.10%

I prefer a romantic partner that is more aggressive than me.

3.67

3.08

0-6

16.08%

I identify as pretty.

3.11

2.61

0-6

16.02%

When it comes to life mistakes, more is better.  

2.32

2.69

0-6

16.02%

I'm proud of my country's history

2.20

2.56

0-6

15.99%

Everything I've ever wanted, I've had to take.

2.32

2.69

0-6

15.99%

I have trouble getting over people I care about even if they don't care about me.

4.53

3.81

0-6

15.99%

Journaling my life is like oxygen for me.

1.84

1.55

0-6

15.95%

I seek to advance myself to the highest position in life and gain the greatest power.

2.76

3.20

1-5

15.94%

I remain calm under pressure.  

3.33

3.86

0-6

15.92%

I like to be waited on.

2.88

2.42

0-6

15.90%

I've felt the need to be a golden boy/girl.

3.47

2.92

0-6

15.87%

I criticize others but I like others to criticize me too.

2.71

3.14

1-5

15.87%

In my romantic relationships, I've been broken up with more often than I've initiated breakups.  

2.90

2.44

1-5

15.86%

I exercise regularly.  

2.72

3.15

0-6

15.81%

My personality is constantly changing.

3.48

2.93

0-6

15.80%

I have had a problem with people stalking me.  

2.47

2.08

1-5

15.79%

I am or would like to be a journalist.  

2.42

2.04

1-5

15.70%

I prefer the mountains to the beach.

2.74

3.17

1-5

15.69%

The best answer to a question is always whatever would be the nicest.

2.52

2.13

0-6

15.63%

I identify as looks-oriented.

2.80

2.36

0-6

15.57%

I love indie rock.  

3.09

2.61

0-6

15.53%

Having a pet is very important to me.  

3.42

2.89

1-5

15.50%

I am more visceral than cerebral.

2.91

2.46

0-6

15.46%

It's more important to think than to feel.  

2.79

3.22

1-5

15.41%

I spend my time in conservative spaces.

2.04

2.35

0-6

15.39%

If I could make a lot of money being dishonest to people I would.

1.97

2.27

0-6

15.38%

I enjoy exercising.  

3.45

3.98

1-5

15.36%

I don't care for appearance based complements.

2.41

2.78

0-6

15.32%

I focus more on the present than the future or past.

2.37

2.73

0-6

15.27%

If other people don't see that I've done something it's like I didn't do it.

3.45

2.92

0-6

15.27%

I want a romantic partner at least as successful as me.

3.75

3.18

0-6

15.22%

I am impatient.

3.69

3.13

0-6

15.18%

If I had to choose between an illogical path that I felt strongly drawn to and a logical path that I didn't feel strongly drawn to, I would choose the logical path.

2.57

2.96

0-6

15.18%

Integrity is more important than loyalty.  

3.10

3.57

0-6

15.16%

I am an expert on high culture.

2.10

2.42

0-6

15.15%

I am very strategic.

3.52

4.05

0-6

15.12%

If someone hurts me, I have a need to get revenge.  

2.58

2.97

1-5

15.12%

I have a superiority complex.

2.45

2.82

0-6

15.10%

I trust my thoughts entirely.

2.85

3.28

0-6

15.09%

I am pioneering.  

2.79

3.21

1-5

15.05%

I love art house (independent) movies.

3.41

2.90

0-6

14.96%

I'm more rational than sentimental.  

3.28

2.79

1-5

14.94%

I am political.

2.28

2.62

1-5

14.91%

I'm one of the smartest people I know.  

2.89

3.32

1-5

14.88%

I really enjoy just laying around.

4.40

3.75

0-6

14.86%

Facts have to matter more than feelings.

3.14

3.61

0-6

14.82%

I am better in a relationship than alone.  

2.98

3.42

1-5

14.77%

If I meet someone I like, it's easy for me to ask them to hang out some time, i.e. initiate a friendship.

3.06

3.51

0-6

14.71%

I am not good at being healthy consistently.  

3.21

2.74

0-6

14.64%

Time is money.

3.13

3.59

0-6

14.62%

Holidays exist to inform mindless people of what to do with their free time.  

2.20

2.52

1-5

14.55%

It is a priority for me to create and surround myself with beauty.  

3.17

2.71

1-5

14.51%

I look for logical explanations or solutions to most everything.  

4.01

4.59

1-5

14.46%

I let my feelings strongly guide me.  

3.88

3.32

0-6

14.43%

I would rather stay in good relationship that I knew wasn't going to last - until I found someone I liked better - than be single.  

2.08

2.38

1-5

14.42%

I don't want to change how I am.

2.64

3.02

0-6

14.42%

I'd rather be in a mediocre romantic relationship than be single.

1.58

1.80

0-6

14.41%

I am selfless/considerate when it comes to those close to me but selfish/inconsiderate when it comes to strangers.

2.58

2.95

0-6

14.34%

I concentrate easily.

2.87

3.28

0-6

14.29%

I smile a lot.

3.41

2.93

0-6

14.17%

I only care about the feelings of the people I value.  

2.90

3.31

1-5

14.14%

What makes rational sense is the most important guide.

3.05

3.48

1-5

14.10%

I don't think that other people are 'better or worse' than me.  

3.22

2.77

0-6

13.98%

I'm always open to being wrong about what I think.

3.22

3.67

0-6

13.98%

Rationality is truth.  

2.95

3.36

1-5

13.90%

I'm not comfortable in my own skin.

2.60

2.24

0-6

13.85%

I have high self esteem.  

2.89

3.29

1-5

13.84%

I readily admit when I'm wrong.

3.27

3.72

1-5

13.76%

There is nothing I wouldn't resort to, to achieve something I want.  

2.40

2.73

0-6

13.75%

I smile a lot.

4.22

3.64

0-6

13.74%

I always know what I am doing.  

2.70

3.07

1-5

13.70%

I want to attract a rescuer.  

2.63

2.27

1-5

13.69%

I crave attention.

3.60

3.11

0-6

13.68%

I don't enjoy multitasking.

2.28

2.59

0-6

13.60%

I am a confident person.

2.58

2.92

0-6

13.50%

I would be unlikely to get romantically involved with someone I liked but my family did not / would not approve of.  

2.45

2.12

1-5

13.47%

I enjoy cold weather.  

2.75

3.12

1-5

13.45%

My sense of happiness is affected by the quality of life of everyone on the planet.

2.76

2.39

1-5

13.41%

It's all about who you know.

2.84

3.22

0-6

13.38%

If I end a relationship, it makes me feel bad if the other person is fine with that.

3.22

2.79

0-6

13.35%

Sometimes I feel as if I must injure someone else.

2.33

2.64

0-6

13.30%

I fear being judged by others.

3.39

2.94

0-6

13.27%

I still have some attraction to every person I've ever been seriously involved with.  

2.87

3.25

1-5

13.24%

Life confuses me.  

3.95

3.43

0-6

13.16%

I dislike conflict.

4.41

3.83

0-6

13.15%

I like to work behind the scenes without credit.

2.51

2.84

0-6

13.15%

I feel perfectly justified in getting my way, all the time.  

2.59

2.93

0-6

13.13%

I love compliments about my athletic ability.  

2.83

3.20

1-5

13.07%

When I'm in a romantic relationship I tend to plaqued by doubts it will work out.

3.29

2.86

0-6

13.07%

I avoid considering how I feel about certain things, because if I do, it will unsettle me.

2.99

2.60

1-5

13.04%

When I talk about my problems to someone close to me, I desire to have my emotions validated, not hear solutions.

3.38

2.94

0-6

13.02%

I would be happy if I had a more logical undertanding of things.

3.49

3.94

0-6

12.89%

It is entirely possible that no one I romantically loved enough to stick with would love me enough to stick with.

2.96

3.34

0-6

12.84%

My romantic partners tend to be better overall better human beings than me.  

2.65

2.99

1-5

12.83%

I often prefer to express myself in writing.

3.53

3.08

0-6

12.75%

It's a man's responsibility to make his partner feel attractive.  

2.99

3.37

1-5

12.71%

I expect the other person to put more effort in at the beginning of a romantic relationship.  

3.07

2.68

1-5

12.70%

I enjoy exercising.

3.48

3.92

0-6

12.64%

I trust my logic over the logic of others.

3.96

4.46

0-6

12.63%

You have to take things apart (figuratively and/or literally) to understand how they work.  

3.66

4.12

0-6

12.57%

If I'm visiting a city where I don't know anyone, I enjoy going out alone (i.e. bars, concerts, etc.).  

2.63

2.96

1-5

12.55%

I have a short fuse.

2.81

2.46

0-6

12.46%

I live by a strict code of ethics and strive for a world where others do the same.

3.08

3.46

0-6

12.34%

I strive for logical consistency.

3.73

4.19

1-5

12.33%

I prefer my romantic partner to initiate hooking up.  

3.98

3.49

0-6

12.31%

I read a lot of magazines.  

2.44

2.14

1-5

12.30%

I don't care if people think I'm awesome.

2.85

3.20

0-6

12.28%

I have a history of serious depression.  

2.69

2.36

1-5

12.27%

When I'm feeling stressed, I am more inclined to want to hang out with friends.

2.45

2.75

0-6

12.24%

I am logical.  

3.60

4.04

1-5

12.22%

If there were not enough spots left on the safety boat of sinking ship in ice cold waters, I'd do everything I could to get one of those spots.

3.70

3.25

0-6

12.16%

I would say my group of friends has a lot of common interests and values.  

2.80

3.14

1-5

12.14%

I fear abandonment.

3.67

3.23

1-5

11.99%

I am rational.  

3.42

3.83

1-5

11.99%

I am logical.  

3.71

4.15

1-5

11.86%

I could not be in a relationship with someone who admitted they were not sure they liked me enough.

4.64

4.09

0-6

11.85%

Saying no to people is hard for me.  

3.46

3.05

1-5

11.85%

Disconnection from people close to me greatly effects my happiness level.

4.22

3.72

0-6

11.85%

I prefer a basic/simple/spartan living space to a high-end/luxury one.

2.87

3.21

0-6

11.85%

I can be greedy.

2.89

3.23

1-5

11.76%

I like to start new fads and fashions.  

2.57

2.27

1-5

11.67%

I find pleasure in isolation.

3.01

3.36

0-6

11.63%

I was my father's favorite child.

3.20

2.83

0-6

11.56%

When I am depressed, I desire more attention.

2.77

2.45

1-5

11.55%

I don't like to be alone.

3.29

2.91

0-6

11.55%

I don't always know why I like or dislike some things but not knowing doesn't change my like or dislike.  

3.81

3.37

1-5

11.55%

I think everyone has the ability (through exercise and diet) to be thin.  

3.38

3.77

1-5

11.54%

I often let calls go to voice mail.

3.14

2.78

0-6

11.46%

It is best to defeat your opponent without them knowing you've won.  

3.50

3.90

0-6

11.43%

I have a bad temper.

2.73

2.42

0-6

11.36%

I am more self assured than self doubting.  

2.83

3.15

1-5

11.31%

I have a history of depression.  

3.11

2.76

1-5

11.25%

I am hypersensitive.

3.12

2.77

1-5

11.22%

Life is like a game of poker.

2.77

3.08

0-6

11.19%

My behavior and decisions are generally calculated.

3.13

3.48

1-5

11.18%

I have tended to notice my significant others before they noticed me.

3.22

3.58

0-6

11.18%

I find hard working types very attractive romantically.  

3.68

3.27

1-5

11.14%

I want a steady pace, security, and do not like sudden change.

3.42

3.04

1-5

11.11%

I like to have my ideas challenged.  

3.08

3.42

1-5

11.04%

Feelings are truths.  

3.45

3.07

1-5

11.01%

If you make your opponent flinch, you have already won.

3.00

3.33

0-6

11.00%

I desire high status.  

3.10

3.44

1-5

10.97%

I'm not a fan of subtitled (foreign) movies.  

2.83

2.52

1-5

10.95%

The confidence I project is equal to the confidence that I have.  

2.83

3.14

1-5

10.95%

I am more sensitive than objective.  

3.38

3.01

1-5

10.95%

I worry about being unlovable.

3.66

3.26

1-5

10.93%

I have a lot of pride.

3.67

4.07

0-6

10.90%

I am good at ignoring unpleasant feelings.  

2.85

3.16

1-5

10.88%

Fairness is more important than kindness.  

2.95

3.27

1-5

10.85%

I don’t like it when I find myself manipulating people.  

3.70

3.30

1-5

10.81%

I would not want to have a long term relationship with someone whose happiness was mostly dependent on me.  

3.43

3.06

1-5

10.79%

My greatest fear is being deprived and in pain.  

3.06

2.73

1-5

10.78%

It is difficult for me to forgive.

2.97

2.65

0-6

10.77%

I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale with only one or two close friends or family members.

3.56

3.94

0-6

10.67%

I don't like being criticized.  

3.78

3.38

1-5

10.58%

It makes sense to be selfish.  

2.47

2.73

1-5

10.53%

I respect authority.

4.02

3.60

0-6

10.45%

Good enough is often better than perfect.  

2.88

3.18

0-6

10.42%

I rely on myself alone.  

3.37

3.72

1-5

10.39%

I am very self aware.

3.70

4.08

1-5

10.27%

I really like Ayn Rand.

1.85

2.04

0-6

10.27%

I can't handle criticism.  

2.93

2.63

1-5

10.24%

I feel drained after being out and about, even if I've enjoyed myself.

3.42

3.07

0-6

10.23%

I require a certain amount of attention.  

3.23

2.90

1-5

10.22%

I don't want to be unattractive to others.

4.62

4.15

0-6

10.17%

I've been friends with people who have attempted and/or committed suicide.    

2.95

2.65

1-5

10.17%

I'm not a big risk taker.

2.96

2.66

0-6

10.14%

I support government funding of the Planned Parenthood organization.  

3.29

2.96

1-5

10.03%

I am uncomfortable if the few people I care about dislike me.  

4.21

3.79

1-5

9.98%

My greatest fear is experiencing loss and separation from others.  

3.61

3.25

1-5

9.97%

I am impatient.  

3.52

3.17

1-5

9.94%

I'm self-conscious, due to a dependence on approval from others.  

3.22

2.90

1-5

9.94%

I need my heart and my mind captivated for a romantic relationship to work for me.

4.24

3.82

0-6

9.91%

I am pursuing or would like to pursue and artistic career.

3.13

2.82

1-5

9.90%

I focus more on my heart in determining the right choices to make.  

3.54

3.19

1-5

9.89%

I fear rejection.  

3.95

3.56

1-5

9.87%

I don't relate to most people.  

2.94

3.23

1-5

9.86%

I sometimes criticize my friends.  

3.15

3.46

1-5

9.84%

I would not be comfortable going to a concert alone.

3.78

3.41

0-6

9.79%

My ideal romantic relationship is one in which my partner will always speak up when they think I am saying or doing something wrong.  

3.63

3.98

1-5

9.64%

In romantic relationships, it's normal for the girl to like the guy more.  

2.49

2.73

0-6

9.64%

I am a prisoner to the feelings of those close to me in so far as it would be hard for me to do something they would not approve of (i.e. would make them unhappy).  

3.12

2.82

1-5

9.62%

I desire high status.  

3.34

3.66

1-5

9.58%

My greatest fear is being unwanted, unworthy of being loved.  

3.87

3.50

1-5

9.56%

I focus more on my feelings in determining the right choices to make.  

3.56

3.22

1-5

9.55%

If I fix all my (imagined) external flaws, I can feel happy and lovable.

3.25

2.94

0-6

9.54%

I want to be in relationship with someone that thinks I'm awesome.  

4.96

4.49

0-6

9.48%

I need certitude and reassurance.  

3.59

3.25

1-5

9.47%

My mother was more dominant than my father.

2.98

2.70

0-6

9.40%

If I don't like something, I can explain why or am interested in knowing why I feel that way.  

3.52

3.85

1-5

9.38%

Having too much to do is a bigger problem for me than having too little to do.

3.12

2.83

0-6

9.29%

You can never be too happy.

4.09

3.71

0-6

9.29%

Anyone can believe anything which is why empirical evidence of truth is vital in proving any belief.  

3.35

3.66

1-5

9.25%

I prefer not to show my work or discuss it with others until it is finished.

3.94

3.58

0-6

9.14%

I expect a potential romantic partner to extend themselves and prove to me that they are right for me.

3.65

3.32

1-5

9.04%

I am more preoccupied with what I like than with being liked.

3.54

3.86

0-6

9.04%

I'll still help someone in trouble that I don't like, if I think it will actually help them.

4.23

3.85

0-6

8.98%

Being disliked by others causes me anxiety.

3.34

3.04

0-6

8.98%

If you don't think you have long term compatibility with someone there is no good reason to date them.

3.90

3.55

0-6

8.97%

The number one quality I look for in a friend is loyalty.

4.70

4.28

0-6

8.94%

I sail my own course.  

3.94

4.28

1-5

8.63%

If I'm attracted to someone, I tend to stare at them.

3.71

4.03

0-6

8.63%

Most of the people I've dated reached out to me first.

3.48

3.18

0-6

8.62%

I would not be friends with someone who was inconsiderate of others.

4.07

3.72

0-6

8.60%

My alcohol tolerance is very low.

3.15

2.88

0-6

8.57%

When I do make a conclusion it is hard to change my mind and I tend to hang on for dear life.

3.50

3.20

0-6

8.57%

I like to escape reality.

3.98

3.64

0-6

8.54%

I am peaceful.  

3.52

3.82

1-5

8.52%

I want my parents to be proud of me.  

4.35

3.98

1-5

8.51%

Every conscious event has a physiological basis.  

3.43

3.72

1-5

8.45%

Money is important to me.

3.56

3.86

1-5

8.43%

I want my mother to be proud of me.  

4.17

3.82

1-5

8.39%

I'm not sure I'm great but I want to be great.

4.17

4.52

0-6

8.39%

I find mysterious types very attractive romantically.  

3.60

3.30

1-5

8.33%

I have a lot of theories.

3.65

3.95

1-5

8.22%

I fear being inconsequential in life.

3.53

3.24

0-6

8.22%

I would not want to be in a relationship with someone who always deferred to my judgment.  

3.70

3.40

1-5

8.11%

I find being appreciated rewarding.

4.97

4.57

0-6

8.05%

I went to art school or wish I had.

3.31

3.57

0-6

7.91%

Everyone I've seriously dated and loved has captivated me intellectually.  

3.30

3.04

0-6

7.88%

I don't skip difficult words while reading.  

4.14

4.46

1-5

7.73%

I am self conscious.  

4.45

4.11

0-6

7.64%

I greatly want to be needed and appreciated.  

3.96

3.66

1-5

7.58%

Life bewilders me.

3.83

3.54

0-6

7.57%

I act towards others as I wish others to act towards me.

4.51

4.17

0-6

7.54%

Whether I like it or not, I care about what other people think of me.  

3.89

3.60

1-5

7.46%

People tell me that I'm a good listener.

4.48

4.17

0-6

6.92%

Everyone I've seriously dated and loved has captivated me conversationally.

3.43

3.24

0-6

5.54%

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