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Free Personality Compatibility Test

Compare your personality with a friend, partner, or family member using 32 Distinct Traits. See your individual scores side by side, a similarity score, and a separate compatibility measure.

How the personality compatibility test works

  1. Complete the 100-question Distinct Traits test and save your result to your own SimilarMinds profile.
  2. Share your dedicated comparison link with the other person, who can take the test or use a saved result.
  3. Open the comparison to explore where your scores resemble one another and where they differ.

EXAMPLE RESULTS

Alex + Jordan · personality comparison

Two people, 32 traits, and more than one way to compare them.

SAMPLE
85.1%SimilarityCloseness across the trait scores
85.2 / 100Compatibility indexWeighted trait-score comparison
Alex Jordan
TraitAlexJordanDifference
Experimenting
83%
78%
5.6 points
Planning
78%
44%
33.3 points
Easygoing
39%
67%
27.8 points
Artistic
89%
61%
27.8 points
Pet-centric
44%
78%
33.3 points
Self-reliant
78%
61%
16.7 points

Where they are close: Experimenting is 83% versus 78%. Where they differ: Planning is 78% versus 44%.

The summary indices above are calculated from 32 fictional scores using the current comparison formula. Selected traits are shown here; neither index is a probability that a relationship will succeed.

View all 32 sample trait scores
TraitAlexJordanDifference
Admiration-Seeking
56%
44%
11.1 points
Experimenting
83%
78%
5.6 points
Planning
78%
44%
33.3 points
Resilient
67%
78%
11.1 points
Other-centric
61%
67%
5.6 points
Easygoing
39%
67%
27.8 points
Artistic
89%
61%
27.8 points
Conservative
28%
39%
11.1 points
Mystical
50%
33%
16.7 points
Orderly
78%
50%
27.8 points
Civic-minded
67%
78%
11.1 points
Temperate
72%
67%
5.6 points
Steadiness-focused
56%
72%
16.7 points
Pet-centric
44%
78%
33.3 points
Intimacy-driven
72%
67%
5.6 points
Non-committal
39%
44%
5.6 points
Empirical
83%
78%
5.6 points
Self-reliant
78%
61%
16.7 points
Food-oriented
50%
67%
16.7 points
Minimalistic
72%
56%
16.7 points
Present-focused
44%
67%
22.2 points
Focused
67%
56%
11.1 points
Scrutinizing
61%
50%
11.1 points
Moderating
56%
67%
11.1 points
Autistic
28%
33%
5.6 points
Ambiguity-tolerant
83%
78%
5.6 points
Overconfident
44%
33%
11.1 points
Active
67%
72%
5.6 points
Feelings-driven
39%
67%
27.8 points
Anti-authority
72%
61%
11.1 points
Humble
56%
78%
22.2 points
Self-disclosing
50%
72%
22.2 points

Fictional names and scores for illustration. No personal results are shown.

Similarity and compatibility answer different questions

Similarity describes how close your trait scores are. Compatibility uses different weights for trait combinations based on historical relationship data. Neither number is the probability that a relationship will succeed.

Conversation, behavior, values and circumstances also matter. Use differences as prompts for discussion, with room for each person’s own interpretation.

Read the research on friendship, partner similarity and relationship satisfaction · Read the Distinct Traits scoring and comparison guide

Can I compare friends as well as romantic partners?

Yes. You can explore two-person differences with friends, family or partners. The result does not establish whether a relationship is good or bad. For several people, a group dashboard brings shared results together.

Which link should I share?

Use the dedicated comparison link provided with your Distinct Traits result. Your private profile link is for accessing your own account and should stay private.

Compare shared results in a group · Compare your self-image with friends’ impressions