Free Personality Compatibility Test
Compare your personality with a friend, partner, or family member using 32 Distinct Traits. See your individual scores side by side, a similarity score, and a separate compatibility measure.
How the personality compatibility test works
- Complete the 100-question Distinct Traits test and save your result to your own SimilarMinds profile.
- Share your dedicated comparison link with the other person, who can take the test or use a saved result.
- Open the comparison to explore where your scores resemble one another and where they differ.
EXAMPLE RESULTS
Alex + Jordan · personality comparison
Two people, 32 traits, and more than one way to compare them.
| Trait | Alex | Jordan | Difference |
|---|---|---|---|
| Experimenting | 83% | 78% | 5.6 points |
| Planning | 78% | 44% | 33.3 points |
| Easygoing | 39% | 67% | 27.8 points |
| Artistic | 89% | 61% | 27.8 points |
| Pet-centric | 44% | 78% | 33.3 points |
| Self-reliant | 78% | 61% | 16.7 points |
Where they are close: Experimenting is 83% versus 78%. Where they differ: Planning is 78% versus 44%.
The summary indices above are calculated from 32 fictional scores using the current comparison formula. Selected traits are shown here; neither index is a probability that a relationship will succeed.
View all 32 sample trait scores
| Trait | Alex | Jordan | Difference |
|---|---|---|---|
| Admiration-Seeking | 56% | 44% | 11.1 points |
| Experimenting | 83% | 78% | 5.6 points |
| Planning | 78% | 44% | 33.3 points |
| Resilient | 67% | 78% | 11.1 points |
| Other-centric | 61% | 67% | 5.6 points |
| Easygoing | 39% | 67% | 27.8 points |
| Artistic | 89% | 61% | 27.8 points |
| Conservative | 28% | 39% | 11.1 points |
| Mystical | 50% | 33% | 16.7 points |
| Orderly | 78% | 50% | 27.8 points |
| Civic-minded | 67% | 78% | 11.1 points |
| Temperate | 72% | 67% | 5.6 points |
| Steadiness-focused | 56% | 72% | 16.7 points |
| Pet-centric | 44% | 78% | 33.3 points |
| Intimacy-driven | 72% | 67% | 5.6 points |
| Non-committal | 39% | 44% | 5.6 points |
| Empirical | 83% | 78% | 5.6 points |
| Self-reliant | 78% | 61% | 16.7 points |
| Food-oriented | 50% | 67% | 16.7 points |
| Minimalistic | 72% | 56% | 16.7 points |
| Present-focused | 44% | 67% | 22.2 points |
| Focused | 67% | 56% | 11.1 points |
| Scrutinizing | 61% | 50% | 11.1 points |
| Moderating | 56% | 67% | 11.1 points |
| Autistic | 28% | 33% | 5.6 points |
| Ambiguity-tolerant | 83% | 78% | 5.6 points |
| Overconfident | 44% | 33% | 11.1 points |
| Active | 67% | 72% | 5.6 points |
| Feelings-driven | 39% | 67% | 27.8 points |
| Anti-authority | 72% | 61% | 11.1 points |
| Humble | 56% | 78% | 22.2 points |
| Self-disclosing | 50% | 72% | 22.2 points |
Fictional names and scores for illustration. No personal results are shown.
Similarity and compatibility answer different questions
Similarity describes how close your trait scores are. Compatibility uses different weights for trait combinations based on historical relationship data. Neither number is the probability that a relationship will succeed.
Conversation, behavior, values and circumstances also matter. Use differences as prompts for discussion, with room for each person’s own interpretation.
Read the research on friendship, partner similarity and relationship satisfaction · Read the Distinct Traits scoring and comparison guide
Can I compare friends as well as romantic partners?
Yes. You can explore two-person differences with friends, family or partners. The result does not establish whether a relationship is good or bad. For several people, a group dashboard brings shared results together.
Which link should I share?
Use the dedicated comparison link provided with your Distinct Traits result. Your private profile link is for accessing your own account and should stay private.
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